I got an email reply from a local provider after filling out a form on her site. It said simply "no, thanks. Try someone else." I know there's not a lot to go on here but does anyone have any idea what I did wrong? Keep in mind that no phone call has taken place. It's gnawing at me me because I just have no idea why I was rejected.
I don't know -- you have plenty of reviews. Maybe she's busy, or going out of town. Did you ask her?
Or maybe she read your reviews and didn't like something you wrote. I just had a bizarre incident this week (why I'm posting under an alias) where I posted a positive but fair review of a VERY well known provider and she emailed me counter-arguing any neutral to negative comments I made. I have yet to see if that will impact my ability to get an appt with others yet and I know she knows and speaks to others in the biz.
But, I feel strongly about posting fair and honest reviews of providers. if we all start posting great reviews just to stay in favor with them, the board becomes useless...
That always kills me. Just kidding. Stumps me, since you have 9 reviews and all of local providers.
One would have to read your email. But I suggest you go back and take a look at your email for dirogetory comments, discussion of money or specific acts etc.
Baring that, you are probably not at a loss with her if that is the only response you can get from her.
She requires initial contact to be an online form which I filled out. The only comments I made how I found her (TER), what time I wanted to see her, and an reference of a local provider. I also gave my age, race and height. She obviously didn't like one of those things. I will move on but it will just nag me for a bit not knowing the reason. Know what I mean?
Could be the main factor hun. Sorry to say but some providers have their preferences. I know a girl who is Arab (but doesnt look it, looks like typical hot blond) and she WONT see arab guys.
From what you tell us you said on your email doesnt seem that you insulted her or anything...
Sorry, were NOT all like this. Also if you are young some girls would prefer not to see you either...
Good luck hun!
This was the first thing I thought of but wasn't sure. TER reviews was the other thing I thought of as well but I have only 1 ok review while the rest are great. Anyways, I'll guess I'll never know because she didn't respond. I'm not hurt or anything. I was just curious as to the reason.
As you said some women do have preferences and it is their bodies so they can do whatever they want, I just wish they would be honest with the guys so they can know why and move on, an e-mail that just "No thanks, find someone else" thats sad, tell the guy why. I was turned down a few times because of my age, a couple came right out said they wouldn't see because I was to young, but others left me hanging which does eat at you and make you wonder. Hell, one young lady wouldn't see me as a client since I was under 30 at the time, but met me off the clock...does that make any sense??????? It sure didn't to me, not that I turned it down, lol.
...has burned me times beyond reckoning.
"Lex, you accidentally sent me a picture of the Elephant Man? What? That's you? Seriously? Oh, well, OK. That's Ok. I don't mind...
Oh, hon, did you say Tuesday? Oh, I can't make Tuesday after all. I just rememebered...I'm retiring."
...someone else will be willing to take your money.
They may even be younger, prettier or more to your liking.
While I cant see your reviews.. Possibly your email is the same as your name on TER ?
Maybe you dont review kindly ?
Just a thought
...don't sweat it.
Recently I booked sdeveral days in advance with an extremely know local provider whom I had not seen before.No problems or questions during scheduling by phone. I called the morning of the appointment to confirm. I was told by one of her associates that she was suffering neck pain and was cancelling all appointments for the next few days. A couple of days later she posted a message here about how much fun she had at a party on the day of our appointment. I felt like I was back in high school. This is not high school ladies. Just be honest.
You were guaranteed to have fun!
xoxox
Anik
PS - I am adding a link to my DC schedule just for you... maybe you can come over and rescue me now!
-- Modified on 10/6/2005 9:02:38 PM
This mean you will be in DC 18th thru 23rd?
It's amazing how much High School bullshit still goes on in this hobby which I came to in order to avoid it. I thought we were supposed to be adults. Boy, was I wrong!
Send me her website and I'll fill out her questionairre. I'd like to see if I get rejected too.
She may have her reasons. Maybe she read your reviews and she doesn't like them. I suggest you find someoneelse, or send her an email asking her why.
Yeah, I emailed her but no reply. That's okay. I tried. I was just curious as to those reasons. Moving on.
Exactly the outcome I would have expected, Osiris. Women are like the black ball in a fraternity vote. They don't HAVE to tell us why (and rarely do). One that does is either special, or has a special agenda.
Or one of those that despise TER members and TER as a whole - so who was it? - Never mind - I don't what to know - couldn't stand the additional rejection...
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