How do I say this in writing on my website, legallly and tactfully but CLEARLY:  I PLAY SAFE. This is non-negotiable.  There is no amount of whining, begging or bribery that will change my mind.  Those who ask, annoy me and those who try anyway, after I said NO, really piss me off!  I can't tell you how many times I have heard- just me, only you, I get tested (good for you) and I have my papers to prove it (so do I). Or better yet-  just this once or just a little!  I want to reply with- what's a little pregnant or a little dead?

going to stop the idiots from trying.  Part of the ugly side of the business.

Stay Safe girl.

Just scan other provider sites and copy a clause you like.

" I PLAY SAFE. This is non-negotiable.  There is no amount of whining, begging or bribery that will change my mind."

You might throw in an exclamation point or more all caps. Anybody who doesn't understand that is too stupid to be worth your time.

I've seen many threads concerning BBFS lately. Does anyone have what's driving this interest. Is it comming from "cream pie" videos ? Complacency or misinformation? Or just boredom?

You are just now noticing it. With the economy being down the guys interested in bbfs are trying to get there way. I have heard stories for years about guys trying to bbfs services. Many will pay $900/hour for it. Once a guy starts that it becomes an addiction. The last time I did bareback when was I had my last son. I have been using a condom for vaginal sex since early 90's. If the wife wants it bare I remind her that she could get pregnant. If a provider tries to bbfs I move a away and put the condom on.

You be surprised on the number of guys doing and getting bbfs services.

It's one thing to want something it's quite another to ask. In my over 25 years of pursuing the opposite sex I've come to know that men won't ask for anything sexual from a woman unless there is a good chance that he will get it or he's had success in getting it from other women. So that guys are requesting BBFS enough times to get on escorts' nerves is of some concern.

Judging from the OP safety message, and reading her reviews I find it quite amusing that playing it safe includes BBBJ, DATY, DFK, and backdoor...LMAO...Really your still playing it safe after offering those? Wow. I guess the chances are slim to none u can catch anything that way...... I mean yeah BBFS is becoming more in demand becuase providers r actually offering it in their regular donations. I guess times 4 hard.

To the gentleman who asked about bbbj, daty, and dfk, i suggest you call your local clinic or google the research in terms of the risks (there are some).  Protection should always be warn for insertion anywhere and look before you lick is common sense.  Mouthwash, soap, etc before and after also can't hurt.  xoxoxo