If I schedule an appointment for a certain time and then someone calls and want to book extended hour during the time I schedule. What do you do?I also made this appointment far in advance?
1.Blow the first guy off (it happens)
2.Try to reschedule the first guy (earlier,later)
3.Talk the guy that want extended hrs into a another time frame.
4.Money talk bullshit walks..lol
I feel guilty if I have to cancel and always try to reschedule my appointments with a lady.I never complain if they are late (30-40 minutes).. I did cancel on a lady twice and I will make that up to her..Some of us have tight schedules during the week and we know where those free hours are..lol
Ok; I will quit whining...
I understand you where you coming from that is why I usually don't make an appointment until the same day or even an hour prior. Even then I've had to cancel sometimes as with my profession things do happen at the last min.. That is why I try my best to take care of her if I have to cancel.
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I had a cancellation and a no show tonight!
(((lol)))
You are already screened and tasted----so?
j/k, I have the remote in one hand a beer in the other.
OK. If you had made the appt. first, you have dibs.
If Mr. Moneybags can't come later, or way earlier ...then tough. Look, even though we have a pelvic exam room, we are not HMO doctors. We can only accomodate the ones with expressed intent, and if you made the appt. in advance, then so be it. That spot of love is all yours babycakes.
Guess it wasn't when I sent you that e-mail.
There was a cancellation for 6pm, and a no show for 9pm. I drove most of the day from Manhattan because I thought I might take a creative route to DC. Actually it was more like I lost my directions while I was adding a pint to the whoremobile but I am allowed artistic license since, well, I am an artist...Anyway, I took the Penna Turnpike instead of the NJT, and a few Nathan's hotdogs and tepid cups of coffee later, I deposited myself into the 4 bling-bling hotel at 7 pm....I am free to play with you Sat. you-bad-boy-you....
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And to think I thought the stupidest thing one could do was get on the NJ Turnpike, NOT the PA Pike. Silly me...
Funny I would have schedule 2hr if that had guarantee me a spot with her.. When I express intent I usually spot on..
So where in the hell are you this weekend NetM? I seen your new toy, I want even comment on it.. You are starting to corrupt me.lol
BD, I like that toy TOO. A whole LOT, in fact! I suspect Net would have some trouble taking it on tour, though (just a guess). She wouldn't HAVE to corrupt ME. I all ready WAS decades ago.
I managed to squirt ALL over a guy's back last week.
I think I need to raise my rates again, not because I deserve it but this squirting business wears me out bigtime. I have to see like one a day for reals..... No choice. Spent clit.
Anyways I am around in Dupont Circle-Woodley Parkish whatever....Its green and nice shops around, and snooty hotel staff and big comfy beds.
MMmmmmm....purrrrrrr.....I want to make some NOISE.
Net, there for a minute I thought you were talking about the glass rod attachment for the "violet wand". When fired up, they look like Darth's light sabre.
Then I saw the SQUIRT part. No wonder you're WIPED.
Although, I have about 5 of these puppies too
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Some chicks buy clothes, some makeup, some by nose candy, I buy POWER TOOLS!
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Still tripping on the squirting Net.. I have never seen that before.. Just watching is amazing..
All over his back? Really???
That's the way I feel it should be, net. Unfortunately, first appointment doesn't ALWAYS get the timeslot in this hobby, though.
Once, I had the first appointment, confirmed that day, and then I am called on the road and asked if I could come the next day to another location (I was booked then and could not). I said I still wanted my slot, showed up, waited an hour in the parking lot, and STILL didn't get the session (just a brief lunch). It was then that I found out that the guy I got bumped out by was a "hot prospect" (I was a regular). Apparently I was supposed to be tolerant of that and reschedule. Well, actually I WAS somewhat. However, this was at the limits of my tolerance. Fortunately I liked her and we could work it out, but I don't think she conducted things just right (especially after I had confirmed earlier in the day).
I learn a valuable lesson today..Things happen.. So be flexible.lol
With the telescope on THAT thing, who says I didn't??? Up on the fifth floor, they often forget to draw the curtains.. ROTF
I have a 18 month shopping list. If a provider cancels or is not available, I go to the next one the list. I have found that providers in the DC area are sometimes hard schedule on a regular basis.
Last month I tried to schedule with a provider that I liked she was not available for 20 days. I had a lot of time and extra cash available to hobby I ended up seeing 2 other providers before I saw her. She ended missing about 1K in revenue from me.
Sometimes providers who have kids have a hard time to get someone to watch their kids.
In my personal experience after 3 visits I have providers not to be available all the time when I want them to be available. Things come up.
The other factor is they have to get rest and recovery. It helps to know what their off days are.
It should be first come first serve regular of the amount that is to be spent. If a guy wants to spend alot he should try to schedule in advance.
The bottom line to remember is that you are dealing with women. They have all types of issues in dealing in this business. It is something that you just have to accept.
I suggest that you find 3-4 providers that you want to see on a regular basis. Rank them and rotate them when one is not available.
I just kept getting the image of the produce guy rotating the fruit at the supermarket.
My gaawd what an image that is too! I wish you had kept it to yourself. Now I can't get it out of MY head....
Very well put, KR. There does seem to be a bit of phenomenon of gals holding the regulars "at bay" when some HOT prospect comes along. Sort of how a real estate developer/ salesperson treats you as a new client until you "SIGN on the line" and then need "further assistance". New money somehow seems to be regarded as better than old, in this business.
I guess it's just human nature to take "regulars" for granted and place the emphasis on the "new blood". I suppose that's represented by what we deal with in relationships and why they so often seem to turn sour. Probably why jeop is so fickle and has his "two-time limit". Hard to blame him.
Right now I have sort of a modified 4 regular thing going. But, I'm finding that even THAT is not enough around here. Just too much shit seems to happen (after all we have our own lives out of the hobby as well). Once again as usual, jeep generally speaks from experience.
you're a guy who I know for years or a new client. If you make an appointment with me I will not change, unless I have problems I cannot control.
Because I travel a lot, traffic conditions and screwed up hotel check ins are a major pain for scheduling in the first day when I arrive at any of my destinations.
Whoever tries to book me soon I'm in town maybe will have his appointment changed, but I always let the client know that when he's asking for a date.
But, once I'm in my room and settled, I have no problems keeping my appointments running smoothly and on time. I don't like to keep a client waiting in the lobby or parking lot, unless he comes too early. Sometimes, clients arrive like 15 minutes to a 1/2 hour before, so I always suggest that he can wait in the hotel bar until I'm ready.
Usually, I leave enough "room" between appointments to accomodate a clients schedule...sometimes he's late due a meeting or traffic, sometimes he's in the area earlier and call to see if I can get him in sooner.
I go to certain areas where I have regulars but "last minute" kind of guys. I know they will contact me once they look at my calendar and find out that I'm around, so I leave enough time between appointments to accomodate their requests into my schedule. I never turn down a regular client, unless he calls me when I'm already checking out of the hotel.