Well, if you ask about CIM in an e-mail, you're probably not going to get that appointment.
I would wait until the appointment and you are at a stage where you're both feeling comfortable that the other is OK.
An alternative would be to PM a recent reviewer. You've got enough reviews that you'd likely get a response. But sometimes, only the lady knows the answer.
I have e mailed previous reviewers and they told the provider that someone was asking questions about her do's and dont's and they canceled the appt. saying we would not be compatible. Some guys think they are going to get in better with a provider by doing this.
However, in the heat of the moment, I am up for entertaining most activities and will be more than attentive to my gentlemen friends needs! Xoxo, Gia
Maybe the "don't know" is based on the individual. So, she may do C.I.M. for one, but deny another due to lack of hygiene or whatever the reason. I would definitely ask her through email if this is something that you are basing your visit on. I'm sure both of you would be disappointed if you got there and asked, and the answer was no!
unless she is very open about what she does and doesnt do on her website.
Picture this..someone you dont know poses a very explicit question about an act involving sexual activity to you. You dont know who this person is.
Would you feel comfortable answering this stranger even if it's your most favortite thing?
Well thats what she is thinking too...thats why many girls' websites say "no explicit questions" or words to that effect.
My suggestion if you cant find out before hand, is to move on if its a deal breaker and your heart is set on it.
If youre willing to take a chance, ask when things are in motion and seem to be progressing well..I'll bet she will be very willing to be honest about what she likes and what is allowed when asked in that context.
Hope this helps..
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"If youre willing to take a chance, ask when things are in motion and seem to be progressing well..I'll bet she will be very willing to be honest about what she likes and what is allowed when asked in that context.
Hope this helps.."
I usually do that anyway and somtimes am suprised with things she says she will do that say otherwise in her profile.
I agree that e-mails are not the place to ask.
For sensitive questions, if you want to do this via email, wait until you have been verified, but before you have confirmed an actual appointment.
Personally, I go by past reviews, and where there is still a question, well, finding out for myself is part of the adventure (sometimes).
I, for example, confess to having a taste (no pun intended) for receiving a good rim job, including, depending on my mood, a thorough tongue-fuck. I have found this to be a service for which it is extr-OR-dinarily difficult to screen for/request ahead of time.
I haven't found any reliable way to ensure this is in the offing when seeing a new lady...one basically just does what research there is and takes the plunge.
I've not been able to divine any reliable approach to hammering this down ahead of time.
So...I feels ya' but those "Don't Knows" drive me up the wall as well
Anyone with any bright ones, feel free to contribute...
J
... I have had some of my best dates with ladies who have their own requirements, and may even not be GFE by our exacting rules. I have found there's almost always a mutually acceptable (and mutually enjoyable) work-around.
There are lots of possible menu items, and some I like better than others. If I see enough so I may well want to see her, but one specific menu item is in doubt, I figure on enjoying the meal, whether or not that certain delight will be offered. In short, I never ask beforehand.
If I really like her, and it did not come up in the throws of passion, then at the end, I may ask if it is available for a repeat visit.
That said, I tend to keep the first date as pretty plain vanilla.
as long as her profile has enough basic items confirmed on it to draw your interest, why not just take an enthusiastic, positive and yet flexible attitude, and find out? There are many many ways to enjoy the company of a lady.
Because of the strictures on communication with a new (to you) provider, you really just have to be willing to go with the flow, and appreciate what the lady is comfortable offering.
If however you are declined services that are confirmed by other reviewers, noting the YMMV issue specifically in your review is helpful.
The only proper way to discuss questions about services is after you have met the lady and she has become comfortable with you.
Do take note of the lady's etiquette page however. Some state that any discussion of specific services or sex acts *even during the session* is grounds for tossing your ass out lol.....
