upillage or the wink job as it is known in English is the practice of putting a finger in your partner’s eye just before orgasm.

Popularized in the works of Alsace-Lorraine and it does work on some people.

Everything goes black and you actually do see star.

Sometimes you lose consciousness for a few minutes and when you awake, it feels like you you had an old fashioned wet dream.

Most men like a firm one-finger poke , usually with the index finger or middle finger in the right eye.

Woman prefer a two-handed poke, one for each eye. Woman just have more erogeneous zones. Both eyes need the stimulation.

DON’T use the penis in your partner’s eyes. There is something in the glans that disagree with the eye’s surface. Women love to use sexy eye makeup and tempt their partners’ frisky penis, but for heaven’s sake, don’t do it. It could result in spore formations and infections. Your finger will do the job fine.

And don’t use vibrators or other gadgets in the eye, either, unless you’ve practiced with them very lightly and carefully.

I am just wondering how many ladies offer pupilage as part of their services as I may decide to try it one day.

I am sure most of us who do practice this do it as safe pupilage by wearing goggles and do not do BBPS