posted a similar inquiry in another board, but thought id echo it here in a abridged form


any providers offering gaping of the greek variety? is this covered in PSE ? Who is able to do it? Who finds it attractive?

Its increasingly popular in pornography so it obviously must be elsewhere.

You could rent a unit at PS if you need some place to hide the kiddies christmas gifts. I'm sure that would be a cheaper alternative, to what you have in mind.

....and look down in them, but I guess I can appreciate a gape from afar.

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This made me cringe and immediately think "God I hope none of my providers are hard up enough to do this for him".  Nothing personal whatsoever, this just seems like an abusive act to me.  I understand that some on both sides of the equation are into this and I am certainly not judging. I would just sooner gift the money to ANY of the providers I have seen rather than know she is going through that because she needs the cash and not because she wants to.

First rule in every date - "nothing is allowed to cause you pain or even discomfort, sex is supposed to be fun.  All you have to do is let me know."  Every provider who has been with me has heard it on the first date.

Then there is the whole S&M element to this market, and I get that.  Its just not me.

i don't think there is a pain element to this whatsoever. At least not if it's done right. I believe you misunderstood me. I'm trying to get an idea of what the popular opinion is on it in the industry, not to hurt, abuse or degrade anyone. Frankly, I see it in the opposite light. I think it can be construed as a very erotic appreciation to all aspects of a person's sexual energy and comfort. It is a very intimate act. Gaping only occurs, if I'm not mistaken, when the recipient is remarkably relaxed. It has quickly become a niche market in pornography. Don't try to make this post seem like I am putting anyone up to doing this against their will or inflicting pain on anyone. I have far, far, far too much respect for providers than to ever do that. It's just not me.

Oh and one more thing. Upon reading your very latest review you too appreciate the Greek as much as anyone. So why be a hater about my inquiry?

My understanding, or interpretation may be a better word.....an unnatural and extreme stretching.  I have had a provider PM me as well casually suggesting that I may have an incorrect interpretation of ..."gaping".   If so, my bad.

As for enjoying Greek with providers, I do a lot of reearch in finding providers who attain pleasure from anal when done right.  In my, again interpretation of what gaping is there is no way there could be anything but pain in that act.

We're on the same page. I love greek and only want to be with someone who does too. Happy hobbying my friend! If you have any suggestions for me in the DC area feel free to PM me.