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I made a one hour appointment with a provider I have seen a number of times.  She suggested that we do a 2-hour appointment and I agreed.    It was for FBSM.  

It started great and at the 45-50 minute mark I asked her to slow down because I couldn't take much more.  She proceeded anyway with the expected result.   So I am thinking we have an hour left to go for round two .   As I lay there recovering for 10 minutes, it became pretty obvious she was done.   I cleaned up and left after 1:15 minutes total time in her place.

Now I like her and want to see her again but I am a bit miffed.   For a 5-time repeat client who ALWAYS tips well, I expected more and if anything for her to err on the side of additional time.

I didn't say anything at the time but wish I had.    Now I'm not sure I want  to go back.

to the provider.  If she suggested the two hours and showed no signs of continuing to entertain you for the remainder of the time, she is in the wrong.  Sometimes friends may book 2 hours and you can tell when they are finished earlier than expected, so they don't mind you leaving.  This does not sound like it was the case with you.

Just let her know.  The most she can do is get upset (although she has no reason to) or she can attempt to make you feel better about it (not sure what would validate the action).  I either case, she has already jeopardized a regular client and she should be alerted, so that she will not repeat the behavior with anyone else.

Sorry for your experience.

Tyra

Don't blame you to expect to get at least what you paid for.  

Shoot her an email..!!  

I bet you she would be busting your balls all over the board if you (even mistakenly) short for few bucks...

I always tell people. Be a man like Papi... :D

Panthera12822 reads

like yesterday's trash, like they way she did to you. The only way to get across to some of these "divas" is to talk with your wallet. When the rent is due, she will call you again. You can be a sucker or a teacher. Take your choice.

While it may sound harsh, IMHO, this is what she has done.  You have seen her a number of times; and SHE suggest you two schedule for two hours.  Hence, she knew EXACTLY what she was doing with the hurry up, beat-the-clock cum show.  The next trick was probably parking his guy while you were showering/cleaning up.

I hear the others with the.."why don't you talk to her...." suggestion.  But from where I sit, that conversation will simply be a patient reminder to her that you did not appreciate the clear lack of respect for you, your time, your agreed upon session goals, and your repeat customer status.  This my shock her back to reality from her present troubles and she apologize.  She apparently is suffering from being PENNY WISE and POUND FOOLISH.  Why would she do this to a repeat client who tips well risking he will never return.  If she just has to play games do it with a Newbie cause he'll, more than likely, chalk it off to a provider who is rude and he will never see again.  But why run away repeat business?!?!

Sooo, get your emotions in check (now I like her and want to see her again....) and make it clear to her that for :45 mins of unprovided service, she has now lost a good repeat client.  I feel ya, she may have "that thing" you like about her and want to experience it again.  But I would think this experience has, or should have, killed any and all fantasy/fetish thoughts that attracts you to her.

So despite your affinity for her and the time you two have spent together, she has made it obvious that you're nothing more than just another trick and easy mark to get more money outta you cause her rent is due; she didn't have enough to get her Moms a Mother's Day gift; whatever her financial issue is.....

I doubt talking to her is going to have any real long term affect.  I say cut back seeing her for a while or drop  her all together.  There are plenty other providers out there.

First and foremost you know as well as I that this is a business. A two hour or more appointment should only be decided upon by you and you only(not her suggestion) . Sure any provider would want a multi hour appt. Its good for business but may not be in your best interest. Whenever I do a multi hour appt I do so because I actually like the provider's personality and dont mind one bit spending an hour or so on post sex pillowtalk or spooning watching TV.  

Sometimes more than one cup is permitted but that is not always the case. I am not saying that she is not to blame here because she cleaned your clock and ran you out the door in 1:15. HAHAHAH I am sure she knew what she was doing.  Lessons in this industry are expensive and chalk this up to experience and go spend your money on finding an adequate replacement.

Who is she so she can give her version of events.

you get less value.

for ex., 4 one hour appointments gets you 4 pops. 1  four hour appointment gets you 1 pop.  

I always get a kick when I see " I prefer multi hour dates..." on a provider's site. I'm sure they do.looks like your lady likes it too.

Posted By: clarose
I made a one hour appointment with a provider I have seen a number of times.  She suggested that we do a 2-hour appointment and I agreed.    It was for FBSM.    
   
 It started great and at the 45-50 minute mark I asked her to slow down because I couldn't take much more.  She proceeded anyway with the expected result.   So I am thinking we have an hour left to go for round two .   As I lay there recovering for 10 minutes, it became pretty obvious she was done.   I cleaned up and left after 1:15 minutes total time in her place.  
   
 Now I like her and want to see her again but I am a bit miffed.   For a 5-time repeat client who ALWAYS tips well, I expected more and if anything for her to err on the side of additional time.  
   
 I didn't say anything at the time but wish I had.    Now I'm not sure I want  to go back.

Not all providers are like this, myself included. If you can cum 15 times in an hour, let's go for it. I'm down and open for it, always.  A lot of providers allow for multiples; you just have to find one that suits you.

Now, your math is a bit off. If you scheduled a 4 hour session with me, it would run you less than 4, 1 hour sessions. Most providers discount their hour rate on multiple hour sessions. We prefer multiple hour sessions because they allow us to spend more time with fewer people.  

Just some thoughts.

.....with me, multiple hour dates are less expensive than a series of one hour dates.  

   I do not kiss and tell, but I recently had a two hour date, and I assure you, he enjoyed more than two "pops".    

   I would much prefer to see fewer gentlemen for multiple hours, than many gentlemen for an hour.  Yes, it does mean less income, but it is well worth it.

   Good reply Erin.

Hugs,
Kelly

the rifleman838 reads

and fuck the dogshit out of her for 2 hours next time--she will thank you for it...

Posted By: clarose
I made a one hour appointment with a provider I have seen a number of times.  She suggested that we do a 2-hour appointment and I agreed.    It was for FBSM.    
   
 It started great and at the 45-50 minute mark I asked her to slow down because I couldn't take much more.  She proceeded anyway with the expected result.   So I am thinking we have an hour left to go for round two .   As I lay there recovering for 10 minutes, it became pretty obvious she was done.   I cleaned up and left after 1:15 minutes total time in her place.  
   
 Now I like her and want to see her again but I am a bit miffed.   For a 5-time repeat client who ALWAYS tips well, I expected more and if anything for her to err on the side of additional time.  
   
 I didn't say anything at the time but wish I had.    Now I'm not sure I want  to go back.

There have been a several times I thought about a two hour date with my ATF, but even though she really gets my motor running.  I am not sure I could muster a 2nd round let alone hold out for 2hrs.  So for me, I rather see her twice (1hr ea) than once for 2hrs, in other words "more bang for the buck".  As for you not speaking up, that's your fault.  It doesn't take much to give her a wink and say "should we try for round two".

I've done the extended date, and it really doesn't work as you would think.  I know myself well enough hat when I'm spent - I'm spent.  The rest of the time would be wasted uncomfortable time hanging out.

That being said, I've had extended sessions w/o asking.  Provider just wanted to hang out...no round two.  Kind of strange to me as I'm thinking do I need to compensate for your time, but they just wanted to hang out and chat.  One provider helped her with her computer.  Another few just wanted somebody to cuddle with and take a nap with me (has happened on several occasions - not looking a gift horse in the mouth, as it was quite enjoyable and relaxing for me, too).

On the other point, I don't think a customer should have to ask for a service that was paid for and offered.  While it doesn't take much of a nudge to task, that shouldn't have to occur at all.  My personal opinion is that its rude if the provider is trying to 'sneak' it by, and lacking in customer service.  If she just spaced, and is enthusiastic about the second hour/pop, then I can let it slide - but its still annoying.  If she is enthusiastic about the second hour/pop and gives it her all, then she has a repeat customer

(it would be pretty hard for her to claim this though after taking a 2 hour donation)
Cutting a 2 hour appt short at 1:15 is pretty ballsy.
Express yourself to her in an email, and if she doesn't volunteer to make it right, then... move on and never look back.

You should of said something since you're a repeat client... She would of maybe did something different, or maybe she assumed that it was okay to cut early since you guys have seen each other in the past..  

I love multis, most of my sessions are multi-the clients, some stay over the require time (most are my repeats or ones I have chem with) & other do not (they rush).... It's just matter of the chemistry you have...  

My advice talk to her... 😁😁😁 (good providers will make up the lost time)  I bet she will make it up to you!!!!  
Good luck!!!

Now and then a 2 hour appointment just does not work.  I am always happy to give a discount, equal to the un-used donation, for the next appointment.  

It is just good customer service.

Jessie

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BadMotherfucker693 reads

Move on find someone new.  Fuck her.

Stories like this give so many of us a bad name.   Since I work legally, if that were to happen here at the Sagebrush Ranch, you would have an avenue of complaint and management would make it right.  I have seen a new girl come in and pull that kind of stunt to have the client complain and the girl has the money taken off her books, and the amount he paid is in full transferred to another lady of his chosing.  The first girl gets nothing, and he gets a second appointment.  Doesn't have to be in the same day but he does get the full amount applied to another lady.

I am sorry this happened to you.  You deserve to be treated honestly and fairly. Personally I detest cheap street-corner hustles.

 

 


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A lot of hobbyists arentvexactly social butterflies, but when it cones down to it, you have to be forward enough to relay your concerns- any relationship is give/take, so maybe she'll make it up to you next time, especially if you're polite and forthright about your concerns; I.e., don't be a bully or a whinypants about it

I'm a big fan of multiple hour dates with ladies I have seen several times before and with whom I've established some trust and rapport. It is not because I want to spend 3 hours in the bedroom but rather to add some social time for a "real" GFE. A multi-hour date that starts with drinks and conversation at the bar and/or over dinner and ends with a good session back in the bedroom is just fine with me. I'm an older (don't know about mature) gent who generally can't last for multiple pops anyway!

If it's a deal-breaker for you to be leaving 75 minutes into a 120-minute appointment, you need to tell her.  I can't imagine that she thought you were spent, unless you'd established on an earlier visit that you were a "one-and-done" dude.  I'd recommend (with the benefit of hindsight) saying, when you book that two-hour appointment, "I think I'd really like to see  what multiple rounds in an appointment feel like.  I don't expect I will have any problem with two, and might even be good for three or four; can we pace things to allow for that?"

I have had a 120-minute appointment turn into "lots and lots of mediocre back massage and one pop", and I've also had it turn into "I believe in giving two per hour, even if we go a little long. Does two BBBJ and two FS work for you, or do you want to do something else?"

I'd email her and say something like, "I was disappointed in our last session together.  I had asked for a two-hour appointment, and expected multiple rounds; however, I felt like you were rushing me out the door, and cut our time together off significantly shorter than what I'd asked for.  Since we've seen each other multiple times, I was really not expecting that sort of sub-optimal session."  

Have an idea of what you think would be a reasonable way to make it up to you -- a freebie overnight probably isn't in the cards.  I'd probably settle for a 90-minute multiple rounds session for a one-hour price, but that's up to you.  Be aware that she may not be interested in making it up, and that will give you valuable information about whether you need to keep her on your list of ladies to see.

I'm not a big advocate of trying to "talk this out" with a provider -

she's not your girlfriend -

always remember that at its heart this is a business transaction.  If you are not happy with the service for the investment move on -

I'll admit that this is a lesson I have learned the hard way -   it very rarely ends well when you bring up a complaint, no  matter how justified, with a provider.  No upside to it.

give her a sign or touch her leg she will get the hint.. maybe she thought you were pooped out...  

On the other flip side... i would be glad to allow you cups of coffee as many as you can handle in 2 hours :)

and in between your coffee, a massage, and pillow talk, and cuddling to go with your recovery time.. :)

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