I've had several gentlemen send me their info from my contact page and give me all their reference information TER id's, other sites id's to get verified for an appointment. I do all this checking and am very quick about it, I usually get back to them the same day. They tell me in their emails that they want to get the verification taken care of so when they make an appointment its done.

OK...I am fine with that. But...if you have said you won't be in town for several weeks, alot can happen in a couple of weeks so I am going to have to check all over again to make sure nothing negative has happened between my first check and now. You haven't been blacklisted...etc...complaints...my question is, is this just a way of having several girls to choose from when you do get into town ? In a nutshell making a backup plan for a backup plan ? Do any of you do this ?

-- Modified on 11/23/2011 7:15:35 PM

then its not going to change in two weeks.

a history of last minute or other wise abrupt cancellations for more than 2x or so.

As for getting approved when im not even in town,  I get approved so that the verification is out of the way so that I can see the girl as soon as the opportunity pops up. It isn't for backup plans but more about being able to spontaneously see her.
I guess that doesn't make sense.
However, getting the verification out of the way is a huge weight off the shoulder. It's almost like getting that 'security clearance' approved so that one can finally walk around with more freedom.

In my case I travel a lot, often on very short notice.  If there is a lady I would like to meet I will often write to her with all my information and ask to be prescreend.  I know screening can take a while, and sometimes I only find out today that I will travel tomorrow and be in her town one evening.

I understand your concern, but eben then I expect the secondary screening would be easier--it is the reference checks with other ladies that can take a few days to ask for and get replies.  Yet another reason why P411 and D-C have been two of my best investments--along with taking a few massage classes.

I realized this last year (short notice trip thing for guys) and learned to ask in email if they wanted to see me now or in a few weeks. This way I could screen guys who wanted immediate appointment and take time with others.

IMO, DC guys always want to be pre-screened, LOL! Some I could do, others I couldn't since I work during week (real job). I prefer Date-Check and P411, since you're already screened

I like to get it out of the way so when the "window of opportunity" (WOO) happens, it um can happen

There really doesn't seem to be any "Standard" of time that is typical for all providers to screen. I have been screened within minutes to as long as a week. So I usually err of the side of caution and try to get screening out of the way.

As far as a lot will change in two weeks. If a hobbyist is screened through P411,DateCheck, RS2k, etc, you can actively see if anything has changed within 2 weeks. You can require a re-screen (its your prerogative) if you don't feel safe. My guess is that some hobbyist would be taken back by such request. (I for one wouldn't care if you had to re-screen as it is just for safety)  

I guess the question is this - What happens if you screen someone, you complete an appointment with them and it went well (C+ score or higher on the hobbyist) , then they contact you a month later to make another appointment. Do you re-screen completely?


just a thought...

at that time, every lady that responded said "yes".

My question, at the time, was because I often had to travel with notice of only a couple days.  Obviously, between checking references, etc., this might not be enough time for planning.  So I eventually "pre-screened" with a couple ladies I'd like to see.  It ended up working well, and the ladies offered that they appreciated the planning ahead.

As noted above, if the guy REALLY checks out OK, there's likely not going to be a lot of change in his status, though there are always outliers in everything.

Often, I know several weeks in advance that I am going to be in a certain city (Vegas, often).  I will do exactly as you describe, and do my research ahead of time, and try to get screening done ahead of time.

The reasons for this are simple.  

1. It's easier and more comfortable doing this communication from home.
2. Not everyone gets back to you quickly.  The providers I contact may be on vacation, or just exceedingly busy on first attempt.  I'll try a second time if no response to the first inquiry, but I'll give a week or so before doing so.
3. I don't shotgun and see who I hit.  I go for my first choice, and if that doesn't work due to schedule or other reasons, I move on.  This process can take some time.  

All of this is to avoid what providers probably hate even more...the guy from out of town calling up asking to meet up on short notice.  Which is why it's just as important for providers to give us as much notice as possible too.  Otherwise, we have to try to scramble to find a new appointment.  I am sure many clients do get multiple clearances to avoid this, and don't follow up on a few.  I don't do that.  I think that's worse.

But what doesn't make sense to me, if I check out fine 2 or 3 weeks ago, is there really that much of a chance that I won't check out a couple of days before hand?  Even if that would happen, would I have ripped off or treated badly the providers I gave you as a reference?  Your re-check really only needs to be reviewing black lists, and shouldn't be too difficult.

I will do this as my schedule doesn't usually allow advance scheduling. So that way I can make an appointment same day if the lady is available.

I have made several ladies mad by doing this I am never sure when I can get away and sure don't like to cancel I try to prescreen and one in particular I would love to see but she won't eaerly in her carrer she wanted to only screen right before an app  oh well

Thats what I am noticing, thanks. I'm using the other screening sites and oh my it makes it so much easier.

The gentlemen have helped me alot. Thank you also. I'm new to doing all the screening myself and just wanted a little more information on what is actually going on in your minds.

Kendra~

First of all, if I'm going to see someone...my entire day revolves around that.  I'm going to need to put in a leave slip and make arrangements to be there, etc.  Also, I don't have 1000 girls, I have my primary and then a couple very special selected girls.  Odds are that I'm not thinking about anybody/anything else between the time I book an spot and the day it happens.  I can respect you wanting to re-verify...but with me it would be pointless.

I think there is enough info available to check and cross check people with making them reverify.  But a part of that is both on the Guy to submit reviews and on you girls to provide feedback -- whether it be amongst yourselves or via whitelist/blacklist posting.

I've stayed more or less UTR on here since joining, but you've touched on something that I've done in the past so I wanted to comment here.
I used to travel extensively for work some time ago. When I was on the road and desiring companionship the last thing I wanted to do was run around at the last minute trying to find someone and complete their screening in a rush. My preference was to look at providers in the area I would be travelling to over the next couple of weeks of my work and request pre-screening. This way once I was in their area and wanted to set up a date it was all quite simple and much easier than waiting till the last minute to find someone.
I think that if a gentleman has taken the time and financial resources to invest into one of the verification services it's a relatively safe bet that you're going to be okay within the 2 week window mentioned. There would have to be some pretty odd circumstances otherwise, in my opinion. Either way at the end of the day it's whatever you feel comfortable with and works best for your own personal business model. Trust your instinct.

....that a guy is going to go from verified hobbyist to verified wacko?  I think not?!?!?!  

The obvious caveat applies--he checks out with known providers and the hobbyist has a clear "presence" in the "community."

- "all their rereference information"
- "TER ids"
-  "other sites ids"

I guess next it will be Birth Certificate; Bank account numbers; SSN; etc......

DISCLAIMER = yes, yes, yes, I understand and agree, that verification is done for your safety, blah blah blah blah.  Plz forgive my sensitivity with this issue, but after doing the hobby thing for some time now.........well....never mind!

....once verified, which would be good planning to do it in advance of the desired time period, I would think your verification would have a shelf life of more than two weeks.