What do you do if a provider whom you've seen a few times tried going BBFS on you?
A. Shut up and go along with it this one time if she has proof she's clean.
B. Out her.
C. Let it go this one time. Continue seeing her but tell her not to do it again.
D. Let it go and stop seeing her.
E. Other
Has never happened to me, or even gotten close to ever happening. But again, I am not good looking.
with a regular I hadn't done anal with, did her daty, flipped her over, did her dato,
No condom in sight.
She screamed "Fork me in the arse".
By the time I found a cover I lost my boner.
Decided I wanted a BJ , never went back.
Any test done are only good for the very next person she sees.
Can you guarantee that person is you?
Also I believe there are a few STD's which may not post positive
for a while. Note: I must ask my doctor if this is still so
during my next test.
Any test done are only good for the very next person she sees.
Can you guarantee that person is you?
Also I believe there are a few STD's which may not post positive
for a while. Note: I must ask my doctor if this is still so
during my next test.
I've done it with a provider once before and I had a BLAST!
It's tempting. But I don't think it's worth risking HIV and other nasty shit that's being tossed around.
Life is a risk everyday. But every day children are born (unprotected sex). If you feel just because someone is a provider that they are more of a risk you are naive. Who do you think gets tested more often a veteran provider or some random lady you meet in public? The provider I was with gets tested every 2 weeks and was also a certified emergency medical technician. Fact is she was probably more sexually responsible than most people men or women provider or non provider in the entire world. I was 100% confident in my decision to go in bareback. To each his own.
I have done many reviews and I would say out of 200+ providers Ive seen, I think i went BBFS with atleast 10 of them. Call me crazy but out of all the pleasure I have never recieved anything from a provider who I disbursed funds too but GO FIGURE the 1 time I get burned is with a dam Civie years ago who I met at a club and I had popped 2 pills b4 hand....I was highly upset but thnakfully it was the minor one and I learned from my lesson to not do that with a civie again....I guess u can say I play with fire but not everybody is burning all the time and really the good providers wont go for it and if dey do it must mean they r feeling u big time. I get checked up every 3/4 months regardless.
Been there and did that. As Johnny Bench used to say, "No drips, no runs, no error".
In the midst of round 2 with a well-reviewed local I had seen repeatedly, she grabbed my dick and tried to insert it BB. I pulled away, got dressed, left without a word, and never returned. I did not feel it necessary to out her. Any guy who she puts in the same situation can make up his own mind how to handle it. I had been quite satisfied with her performance previously.
Honestly, I get girls pregnant by simply sitting next to them. I produce so much pre-cum, I often have to change condoms in between sessions. After a couple of test for all types of STDs/HIV, I just got tired of worrying. Thank goodness I practice safe sex ALL the time. I don't even go for BBBJ these days. So, if a provider ask me for BBFS, I'll simply tell them, "girl, I ain't baby daddy", and continue hitting that. You mentioned a provider i've seen a couple of times, well, lets say that the situation is an ATF. I may be gullible, but she may just do it for one dude, and she knows the consequences.
... providers who offer this? I've had clients ask before (you men, only able to think with one of your heads at a time 
) but I have a hard time imagining that a provider attempting this is commonplace.
Sadly I think providers who openly and willingly offer bbfs are pretty much equal with the ones who ask for it or can pay enough to get it.
) but I have a hard time imagining that a provider attempting this is commonplace. Much like girls advertising "420" or "snow," sometimes among the more ghetto ads on malls such as Backpage and Cityvibe, and on the erstwhile CL, you see girls making unsubtle hints to offering service with no cover.
In the past I've heard some hobbyists, not necessarily from this region, speculate that some ladies are offering a BBFS option when they offer GFE at one rate and PSE at another. I've never inferred that myself, but I understand why others might reach that conclusion considering that there is no clear definition of PSE (not that there is a clear definition of GFE, for that matter).
I would not be surprised to learn that PSE is understood to mean BBFS in some locations. It makes more sense than other definitions of PSE that I've heard.
With your last paragraph very good point...... there is this provider who site I came across that blatlantly offers ultimate gfe and pse and her version of that includes bbfs & bbgreek but she fancies it "safe bbfs" because she wears a diaphragm with spemicidal foam -_o . I've also seen that one and others flat out use "organic" also which is another code word for bbfs and bbgreek in their ads.
In the past I've heard some hobbyists, not necessarily from this region, speculate that some ladies are offering a BBFS option when they offer GFE at one rate and PSE at another. I've never inferred that myself, but I understand why others might reach that conclusion considering that there is no clear definition of PSE (not that there is a clear definition of GFE, for that matter).
I would not be surprised to learn that PSE is understood to mean BBFS in some locations. It makes more sense than other definitions of PSE that I've heard.
There was a link to an article over on the Porn Star board that things are so grim in Porn Star land that agencies booking handling their escort work, demand they offer BBFS or wont book them..simply because there are those that will.
So your speculation that PSE means BBFS has some merit.
"Ain't no p**sy good enough to get burned while I'm up in it."
Are the guys who call for "outing" providers who try this really trying to protect the community, or just looking for someone they can get BBFS from?
Out them so that fellow hobbyists can avoid them and the temptation
Makes no sense to me. If you can't resist the temptation, then that's your problem. No one has an obligation to save you from it. And I think that some of those who want this information want it to seek the temptation not run from it.
The bottom line is that everyone has to determine the level of risk they are willing to live with. There are plenty of things that can be spread through BBBJ but that is a given for many hobbyists. They've looked at the risk associated with that activity and decided it is a risk worth taking. If a hobbyists decides that the risks associated with unprotected sex with an escort are worth taking, that's his call.
But...When a girl is buck naked in front of you...Legs spread...and begging you to fuck her with your bare penis, you are more than likely to fall for it. Now, if you know that the girl has history of doing this, aren't you better off being forewarned, or even better off, avoiding her altogether?
Makes a lot of sense to me.
I'm not sure what the mod would do now but in the past, any post that promoted BBFS got deleted.
It's not the case here since the alias OP is asking the guys what would they do and of course most won't be answering they'd actually accept it or have other than that one reply who of course answered using an alias.
I was approached a few months ago with an offer of BBFS...it was offered as almost an aside "you know we can do this without a condom if you want to". I'm sorry but I all the indignation I see above isn't the reality at all...I politely declined and we moved on. I asked her about it when we were done and she said about 25% of the guys accept, I was covered so I wasn't worried and haven't lost a minutes sleep over it.
So with a decent portion accepting I agree with Ms. Mocha's comment that anyone who would be inclined to accept will only respond in a public forum that way with an alias or they would lie, simple enough.
By the way, when I asked her about it she very eloquently explained that she was very healthy and very holistic and she felt strongly that her regime of vitamins, good eating habits, and discretion in who she chooses to offer BBFS to has kept her healthy...I'm as clean as they come and treat myself the same way she does regarding nutrition but I'll be damned if I'd take that risk.
IMO for every guy that turns it down there's on that accept it so I think 25% on avg is low. Honey...I'm a burger and fries who eats an occassional apple girl lol & i'm not "all into nutrition" but my sentiments are the same f*uck that i'm not taking the risk..... offering or accepting is out of the question. I don't like anyone that much and you (not you you but you as in anyone in general) can keep your vitamins & health regime as holistic/natural as you want but last I read HIV meds are still pretty expensive.
What would a provider do if... (more than 1 question)
- a new client takes off condom without her knowing while in K9
- a regular client same question.
Call the police
Let it go
Out him in public
Shoot him on the spot
- a regular or new asks for bbfs before they sched
(insert your own answers here)
- a regular or new asks for it when he has just arrived and says he will pass not leave gift if she doesn't
(insert your own answers here)
I would think all those who answered B would say out him. If not why not?
For the first question where someone takes it off without her knowledge he should be arrested and go to jail for a very long time. But that's not likely to happen in most cases.
Curious to see what the answers would be
I dont get how some providers say they dont offer BBFS but offer BBBJ???? Like BBBJ is 100% safe proof. FYI just because there are no bumps doesnt mean that person dont have something. Im not about to call any1 out but some of the providers who responded to this thread offer BBBJ and DFK which last time i check strep throat or cold sores can form that way...I believe most guys dont like mechanical CBJ then just straight FS...Its too many providers out here to just be relegated to the same services. If you want to play it completely safe then fuck ur wife or significant other...1 provider who is responding on here I have seen and she provides good BBBJ but I have never got anything from it but why do others not offer it. i GUESS its all about YMMV for everyone. O and done get me on porn stars visiting. They are the main ones offering but thats for another thread.
I dont know the answer. maybe the ladies here can answer?
my ATF who
I ADORE asked me for this recently in the heat of the moment.
She is a beautiful middle eastern lady in the UK.
We are approx the same age ( i am 45 she is 37)
we had spent three days together for which she had only accepted payment for the first night.
It happened on the third night together.
she said that it would really be special for her and that she wanted it to be special for me
i diplomatically DECLINED...She acted a bit hurt but accepted my reasoning.
She stated that she had only done BBFS previously with her husband who she is separated from.
note, technically that makes her still married...interesting revelation in bed at the time.....
btw she also asked me during those three days if she could try greek for the first time
with me (with cover of course) despite the fact that her website CLEARLY
states that is a service she never provides. I AM NOT into Greek (been there done that
and frankly am turned off by e. coli) so also declined.
The whole experience was flattering and I continue to adore her.
I will continue to see her.
I will not out her.
I have never written a review of her and never will.
fortunately or unfortunately she lives in the UK. so i only get to see her 3-4 times a year.
i cant wait to see her again. Hey london is almost as close as Cali...and much more fun.