So I received a calll from a gentleman saying he wants to see me but is not sure if he should because I am so "controversial." Apparently, I've gotten a rep for having a sharp and fiery tongue. I laughed for a minute then replied to him asking "Does that really matter, or does it matter more than my mouth and pussy are like heaven on the inside?" This time he laughed.
After a few calls and e-mails back and for we finally met, and he had the chance to experience the "FIRE" up close and personal. Here's what he said (I am somewhat paraphrasing):
After meeting and talking with you I see why people say the things they say. You aren't as demure or timid as some ladies I have met. Many no matter what I say agree no matter what. You don't. Not in a bad way, but you definitely have your positions and stand strong by them.[/qoute]
Again I laughed. We talked some more, and what our conversation revealed was quite eye opening.
I do have some basic rules about conversation - topics I will not bring up first.
1. Economics
2. Religion
3. Escorting (I really do try to act like we are on a date and to be honest, don't really like when guys bring it up)
4. Illness (except allergies if hay fever is giving trouble)
5. At home stuff - his wife, kids
6. Politics
I save these topics for when with my friends, and an argument isn't going to spoil the mood. Now if the gentleman brings it up, then all's fair. Will I mince words? Probably not, but I am always respectful to others and their opinions. Does it make a difference to me how you feel? Again probably not, unless you think something outlandish and racist, which is unlikely because if you did you probably wouldn't be in my bed in the first place. Is it going to affect our time together? Never, if anything a rousing conversation may lead to me being "fiery" in more ways than one. Or I might be trying to prove something about how moderate liberals are anything but moderate in bed. hahaha
I know many gentleman want a smart lady they can also talk to and so forth when coitus is over, but to want this means you have to be ready for a woman who might not agree with everything you say.
I've encountered a lot of people in my day, and not all of them are a open minded as me. So careful boys...careful what you ask for.
In the meantime, never use lube - Spit is so much better.
Kisses,
Vanica