Okay, so I've gone back and forth with this provider for over 2 weeks. She is also on OF but not sure this is legit either. Several members have reveiwed her but many as their first review. I scheduled a 12:30 meeting with her and she asked for a $100 deposit. This was sent to multiple zelle/venmo users and blocked several times but finally went through. Waited until 12:50 to hear from her. She then messaged me where I want to meet her. Giving two options that are 30 minutes from each other. Another red flag. I agreed on a locstion and then she asked that I pay the rest in full. I cautiously backed out and forfited my $100. I emailed all the members that left reviews and one replied stating she is legit. She has been texting me since but every text demands more money prior to rebooking. Also, each request is a different zelle/venmo payee. Stupid of me, I attemted to send another $125 she requested and thankfully it was declined by the receiving bank. Throwing it out to you all... Is she legit or a scam?
You lost a hundred bucks. Walk away and forget her.
I don't care if she is "legit" - if this is the way she does business WALK AWAY.
And yeah, you were stupid trying to send her even more money.
She only asks for deposits for sessions with donations of $1500 or more. You really took a chance on paying that much money to an unknown with very questionable reviews?
But I'll echo the other response, what would "legit" even mean in this case? Seems like perhaps she might be legit but fall into that BSC type class -- or at least incredibly flaky class -- given what you're describing.
Don't send anything more. Whatever is in your head telling you you need/want to see her, get that out of your head now. It's a pure fantasy that is not going to be waiting for you if you ever meetup. And, why are you not providing a name? Even if she his "legit" she needs to get her act together and that won't happen if you're not telling others who she is.
He did identify her. It's in the subject line of the thread. Although it's always nice to get a link to her profile but she was easy enough to find with a name like that.
One thing that would help spot fake reviewers would be for TER to show when a member joined.
In a case like this, if we could see that most or all of her reviewers joined in, say, the past month that would help us determine that her reviews might not be legit.
I don’t know what the percentage is for other provider, but I am a no drama Mama. I have required deposits to book, since 2010. I have been a valued member of TER, since 2005. I would never jeopardize my great reputation because I have integrity.
If she has all these red flags 🚩 why are you continuing? I think if all her reviewers have only 1 review that’s bs. If you can’t verify she is legit by contacting a valued member of TER never send a deposit to an unverified provider. You sent $100 to an unprofessional provider.
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