Granted, you old heads are more concerned about getting an erection....But you all were younger once so feel free to join in, lol.

I jack off 4-8hrs before seeing a lady to take the edge off. Then consume alcohol not too far out to get a light buzz to keep my Penis relaxed during sexy time. Too much alcohol & you over compensate & cum too fast, imo.

In the real world with a trusted lady....Simply jacking off within 24hrs of an encounter is good enough as I can maintain an erection if cumming too soon and power through without stopping unlike in this world.  

 
Point being...How do you all delay cumming? Think about baseball? Focus on music in background? I feel 20minutes of getting busy then 10minute break is good for an hour long session....Then repeat.  

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...or use thicker condoms.
Also, keep seeing different women. At least for me familiarity causes quicker release. If the woman is new I have enough distraction learning what she likes.

I kind of agree with op

But I usually see ladies in the afternoon so alcohol isnt an option.

I think its a good idea to release some pressure a few hours before the date. I like going in relaxed not having to worry about it. I dont really get the guys say I had to fight off cumming or think about my grandmom. That kind of takes away from the whole experience no?

As an AARP member and even back in my younger days  didn't jack off or drink or do anything.

Wanted to enjoy the experience with the lady and cum as much as I could in our time together.

Usually at least twice an hour and even these days can do twice a hour w/o a problem.

I like to maintain my oral skills and make sure the lady is also satisfied multiple times.  

Life410 I would suggest you focus on Hillary Clinton on top riding you and Chelsea Clinton rimming you. That should delay your explosion for a day maybe longer.  

Driving with a buzz good move.  

this is a very simple fix fellas.. simply relax and focus on your breathing the moment your member is engage.
slowly inhale and slowly exhale until you feel your batter go away. once had two girls working the shit out of me trying to get me to cum.   no need to jack off before anything. but practice the breathing skill while jacking off  

just cum a couple of times. Granted I'm older and tend to last the session (but generally not a second pop in an hour any more)  but when younger I might cum pretty quickly but then just keep going for the second round if I was worried about the girls satisfaction.  

You should also be able to control your pace and the motion so it's not as stimulating for you.  

But if you continue to struggle just think of your mother -- just don't tell the provider or I'm pretty sure you won't be welcomed back.

if I'm ever in a session and I have to think of my mom thats dead and not happing.. lol

It depends on price, provider, day of the week, mood etc.  

Essentially, They kiss the tip and vigorous handjob with a firm grip off the bat. When you run into those they trying to get your in/out in my opinion. I prefer to get my $$$ worth.  

A nice sensual BJ that builds up to a point & then some loving is fine...But sometimes they in/out you (tuggers) and holding on is a priority.... As you know you will probably be short changed.

Funny, I have the opposite problem.  I've always been able to last a very long time.  Even in college I was lasting 1-2 hours before my first cum.  Now that I'm older I'm normally a one shot guy, but I can last a few hours depending on how excited I am.  I have an issue not satisfying myself before a date because I keep thinking about her

why is it that I need to drive? don't half on you all use public transportation to be unidentified by license plate?

and considering I said buzz....I could drink 6 light beers in 2 hours and be .08 and below.  

 

 

You're a clown!

hmm... interestingly enough i'm the other way and the doctor and psychologist have provided me with no recourse.  

I tend not to jerk off because I never am able to cum, so that wasn't the problem. And Now that I am older (30 yes yes i know that's not old) - i've definitely become a 1 shot guy - IF i can come in that hour though.

 
So i've become relegated to 90minute + sessions and having a 50:50 chance of cumming. It seems to get worse if I find the girl attractive or very tight (like i can feel the muscle ridges) - because then my dick only gets more engorged and i tend to fuck more roughly.....

That may sound like the ideal situation, but it's honestly very frustrating, and on the times that I do cum I'm so worried that too much filled the bag that I'm like pulling out, grabbing tissues, making sure all the cum didn't some how let the bag slip off....  

 
I wish I knew how to cum earlier, maybe I could cum more then?

....and I am the happiest man on earth. It was wonderful. Best woman in the world.
I was on the edge the whole time. It wasn't supposed to be an edging session but it turned out that way.
I did sort of finish in that at the very end I was exhausted and my two hour erection finally went down.

anyway, it was my second visit with this provider. I know third time will be the charm! Can't wait!

Don't sweat the release - enjoy the precious time you have with that wonderful woman.

Really?

i cum quickly. not a 2 pump chump but like 10-15 minutes.

the ones i am really hot for I  can go longer.