I never judge someones preferences or what makes them tick.  As to fetishes, as long as I am into it, all good.  I am not into getting golden showers or pain, though.

I only judge a person on how the introduced and present themselves & how they treat me.  
Do they follow my protocol? fill out the form with the information I needed? they screen good & are safe? does he make me feel safe?

If I get a "are u avail now", "can you pro-rate an hr for a 30 min apt"  or he contact me & communicate in a rude manner, graphic and illegal communications.... yes...... I would be judging and deleting the message. Period.  

I have a phone number posted but also I have noted "NO CALLS" is he calling t 3 am? yes.. probably I would be judging bc he is not respecting my wishes.  

I judge what pulls on their record; do they have solicitation charges? domestic violence changes? battery charges?  drug charges? NCNS reports? screen with fake/false information? ... that's honestly what I use my judgement for.  

 
But who you meet and what you do in your private time honestly, isn't a big factor on meeting me or not.  
As far as fetishes... we all have them (in many different ways that sometimes we think they are just "normal".  

IMO, meeting with a TS lady is NOT a "fetish"... after all they are ladies in my eyes and wether you meet a cis-gir or trans doesn't affect my decision on meeting you or not.  
 

Vero~

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