... I had this civvie GF once and we just loved to do weird stuff.  One night, she put a remote controlled egg in her pussy and I put a remote controlled prostate vibe in my ass.  We exchanged our remotes and went to dinner.  We would turn the remotes on each other at the most inopportune times just to get at each other.  By the time we got to the car to go home, we were just about ready to fuck in the parking lot.  As it is, we barely controlled ourselves while groping each other's crotches on the way home.  A good blouse and a good shirt got ripped when we got home and went at each other for hours.   Had to call in "sick" the next day due to exhaustion.
 
All this leads to...  are there any providers that would like this kind of play?  Should I look exclusively for BDSM providers or is this something that a non BDSM provider would get into?  Or am I just a sick fucker