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Tall6969 45 Reviews 635 reads
posted
4 / 21

None of this is actually new, unknown or foreign.  However I did pick up the following tid bits:

- I like cuddling.  Per this the following statement it will be hard for me not to laugh the next time I'm in post orgasm bliss with a provider..lol.  "You aren’t my boyfriend/husband… I’m not in love with you- Therefore, I do NOT want to cuddle. You sweaty, smelly old man."  Really?!?!?!  I did not know that.  Too funny!!

- I didn't know people actually ate Crow...yuck: http://www.crowbusters.com/recipes.htm.

Keep the Necter flowing.

!!!!! 543 reads
posted
6 / 21

Other than that, there's a lot of truth in it.

LargeHamm 33 Reviews 575 reads
posted
7 / 21

And should be required reading for every hobbyiest at least once a year! Yeah, we all think we are special, but the truth is for you ladies, it will always be "back to the old grind".

iconaclassic 42 Reviews 650 reads
posted
8 / 21

I hobby because it's uncomplicated, and I have a family- I know providers' real names, and for my ATFs, the mutual attraction is real- I'm a fairly young guy (30s), good looking, educated, and respectful, but based in this letter, the mutual attraction may be fleeting- good read

Posted By: phildunphey
 
 This is LONG but I thought it made an interesting read:  
   
 http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/den/415707529.html

Tall6969 45 Reviews 580 reads
posted
9 / 21

Per your summary you may nott have gotten the full impact of the "read."  Be careful.

iconaclassic 42 Reviews 491 reads
posted
10 / 21

I get it lol- not perfect, but not gross (physicaly or socially) or over the top- I love and respect women, and appreciate the "no strings" aspect of hobbying, even if I venture beyond my comfort zone every now and then

steeltipped 41 Reviews 569 reads
posted
11 / 21

I think that when anyone goes on a rant like this, it serves no purpose (Either side)

For both sides
Who cares if you don't like what one person does, um its your choice to do this, you can move on or quit any time but complaining about it just makes you look like a whiner
Who cares if you don't have the gumption to tell the other what makes you feel good or not, you are not holding the secret to eternal life its just yes / more - no / less or other
Who cares if you think the other is trash, its not a popularity contest  

Who cares.... really  

 
Providers wonder why guys are the way they are.... and Hobbyist wonder why the girls are they way they are...This should not paint that picture....  

The people who enjoy this don't think of themselves as either, they find the niche and roll with the punches... people who complain are noting but that complainers...  

For those who really do enjoy this (From either side) I applaud you for understanding that you are with another person and if you treat someone with some basic dignity and respect, either side should walk away with a smile on their face...

Off my virtual liquid soap box

No go fuck

phildunphey 532 reads
posted
12 / 21
girlfan1959 48 Reviews 629 reads
posted
13 / 21

Some ladies aren't as fed up as those in these posts (and some are probably more fed up), but I am sure that these are a lot more mainstream than we would like to think.  

We would all like to think of ourselves as the exceptions, but we probably aren't. At a minimum, we can take the more practical suggestions seriously (e.g., cleanliness) and be reminded that we are only going to have them as temporary "pretend" girlfriends.

I notice the absence of female comments on this one; perhaps it is a sign that our sisters in sin who normally post often on this board don't really disagree very much, but they don't want to say so (at least without an alias).



-- Modified on 6/7/2013 9:50:01 PM

prince-of-tides 10 Reviews 683 reads
posted
14 / 21

In my opinion, this rant is not about an endless line-up of customers from hell. All her emotions seem, to me, to represent hostility and anger toward herself and not all the gentlemen she meets. This is an extreme form of projection, and a coping mechanism. Its very likely her clientele have no clue. Its about her and her self-loathing, in my opinion.  
If I am  wrong, she simply has no concept of how to screen or is not communicating with other provider references, which seems unlikely.  

Posted By: phildunphey
 
 This is LONG but I thought it made an interesting read:  
   
 http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/den/415707529.html

Ernie8 55 Reviews 602 reads
posted
15 / 21

I find the article very telling of the attitude of old jaded providers who have been long since passed their prime.  The very reason I am far more attracted to the younger newbies - and who are much better value for the money spent ($200 v. $500).
As George Cloony says in the movie the "American"...."I came here to get pleasure not to give it." I never DATY or Kiss, wtf - her mouth has been sucking cock a few minutes before you arrived and her pussy has been pounded and licked by so many - why would you even think to put your face close to either one.
IMHO, the essence of the "game" is to get her to give as much as you can get, bbbj and CIM or COHF - the ultimate in "getting it" and pound her into submission with a rock hard Viagra throbbing cock.  
The article is spot on - the long term providers overwhelmingly hold those views - the newbies not so - but they will later on.
The moral of the story - read the reviews and get the young fresh girls before they develop the hooker attitude.

iconaclassic 42 Reviews 600 reads
posted
16 / 21

If she has as many 10 reviews as she claims, she must be a phenomenal actress- I can usually sense when a provider isn't feeling it- chemistry is had to fake; I've had genuine chemistry with maybe 4 out of the 20 or so that I've seen

Posted By: phildunphey
 
 This is LONG but I thought it made an interesting read:  
   
 http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/den/415707529.html

girlfan1959 48 Reviews 504 reads
posted
17 / 21

I expect that the ratings of the lady in the original rant were not as good as she claimed for the reasons you note. Unless she wrote this after a particularly bad day and then a bottle and a half of red, I doubt that this attitude could be disguised well enough to get lots of 9s and 10s.

I didn't really think that much of the complaints of the harridan linked in the original post, but the ones from the lady that London Rayne posted (being clear that they weren't hers) seemed a bit more sensible and were done with a sense of humor. I will ask more explicitly about where to lick next time, and the tulip image is a good, kind-of-Georgia-O'Keefe-like reminder about the delicate areas that they have down there. However, even that lady seemed to be a very overworked agency girl. Hopefully, the better ladies take care of themselves physically and mentally by seeing fewer people, charging what they need and keeping all of the proceeds, and having actual relationships with their clients.

phildunphey 538 reads
posted
18 / 21

Obviously bitter and negative. I agree that she is burned out and in it ONLY for the money. Of course we know it is about the money, but unable to find any joy or anything remotely of interest in her work. Its sad and funny at the same time. I can't imagine some of the things these providers deal with, but they only have to deal with it once.if a guy is so gross incompetent or ill mannered, just don't see him again. I have people I have had to deal with in my work life for decades and the only way I will be able to rid myself of them is for one of us to die.

The ladies I have seen more than 2 times are the ones that either like me a little or a lot or at least feel seeing me is one of their better options lol. Make a joke...get her to smile or laugh...bring a small gift ...and I think all but the most closed  off cold hearted women would find something good in you. One more thing

The comments about daty are funny. This particular act ends seems to have the greatest difference in female preferences. Hard or soft? Direct or indirect?  Fast or slow? Rythemic or change it up a lot? There is so much variation in what is pleasurable.....I just try to look for visual and verbal cues.

Sexy Gymnast See my TER Reviews 534 reads
posted
20 / 21

That is disgusting and hilarious!!

Posted By: phildunphey
 
 This is LONG but I thought it made an interesting read:  
   
 http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/den/415707529.html

lustkatrina See my TER Reviews 410 reads
posted
21 / 21

Just a little.....especially the "lets Hang out for free part" he he

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