I started noticing a trend of visiting girls posting way in advance of their visits and I thought to myself, how many guys are really lining this up 2-3 weeks in advance?  Sure, for a 10 who rarely visits or an ATF but that is a small percentage.  The reason I am even more curious is that this week two different independent ladies posted about upcoming visits.  They both looked very good with very solid reviews so I thought I would take care of the reference process first and maybe that would make things easier.  
I contacted both via email AND through verification sites.  I have multiple references there as well as White Listings here.  One of them seemed to have her shit together and I received a response email and notice that she had an assistant.  However, after a couple follow up attempts neither of them have responded to follow up.  I seriously doubt their appointment schedule is booked at this stage but yet they don't realize that they are leaving money on the table by not pre-booking these easily verified appts then filling in as they closer to the date.  Then, those same providers will come here to rant how DC sucks, they can't make money, too many cancellations, etc.  
If you aren't going to respond after posting two weeks in advance then you might as well just wait until you're here and scramble shit together

Maybe they don't want to see you. Maybe there is something about you on some blacklist site or maybe they don't like what you've said or how you've scored in your reviews. Most often that not, women who simply ignore a guy, don't want to see him. Then again, could just be bad TCB skills. Move on.

I've been completely booked for a month in advance in DC. I love that about this city. There's a healthy mix of prebookings to make us feel comfortable going, and same/almost same day appointments that we can take if we feel like it or want to do an impromptu trip. This flexibility can lead to the confusion about when to book, but rest assured, we love it. Book the way that works best for you (earlier the better though, even though it doesn't seem to be the case here) and play nice, and the girls will keep coming.  

Or, maybe they're getting a shit ton of emails. It's a big market, so even though most guys are great about making the screening process quick and painless, there's still a lot of email to go through. Depending on the volume and what else she has to do during her day, it can become a pretty big project really quickly. And, you'd be surprised how easy it is to try and handle emails on the fly while waiting in line somewhere, and only think you've marked the one you got caught in the middle of unread, almost guaranteeing it's lost in your mailbox somewhere under a pile of others.

Or, maybe you said something or did something at some point to get yourself ignored. Some language in your email, or even the frequency of your emails (maybe she thought you'd be high maintenance?), or even a note on a blacklist site that you don't know about. It may even be your age, race, or personal quirk that she got a heads up on from another provider.

If you've checked all your P's and Q's, and there's certainly no way you could have pushed her away (but hey, two good people aren't always good for each other), then it probably was just an innocent mistake. If it's been more than two days, move on, and don't think twice about it. Maybe you can try again another day, or maybe you were just meant to meet someone else

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Sometimes more... Mainly bc I do daytime appts during the week and like to have the appt confirmed before I take the time off from work. I love it when providers give advance notice.

there was an ad two months in advance for a new touring woman. I contacted her and she suggested a specific date and time for an appointment. I laughed and pointed out things happen...but tentatively agreed.  

Our date actually did happen a day earlier than planned.  

On the other hand ads get posted for visits that never happen too..based so many factors....responses....life...so just take it in stride..its just make believe after all..

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Saves us girls a ton of money- if I had my way I would definitely post in each area I was traveling to on here weeks in advance to try and confirm appointments before traveling. it's quite a pain in the butt to do it all last minute or to spend all the money traveling and have cancellations or not much interest...

But that doesn't excuse the girls not getting back to you in a good amount of time. perhaps because they aren't coming very soon they think there isn't the sense of urgency as if the appointments would be in a week or something. Not an excuse or a good way of thinking but just a thought.

Either way, this is supposed to be fun, don't stress or let the situation stress you- there's plenty of fish in the sea if your being rubbed the wrong way- keep on fishin babe!

It never fails to prove that Ego above all else rules.  The responses from the guys can more or less be summed up as " Dude, you must not be as much of a stud as I am, has to be your problem.  Never happens to me because I am a stud and all the ladies love me".  The response from the providers is "I am such a hot commodity that I am always booked 2 months in advance and am never hungry for business".  
As a point of clarification, and not intended to drag down in a pissing match, I have been at this longer than I am proud to admit.  I have no shortage of verification and multiple providers willing to share positive references.  In this scenario I have already moved on and am not "stressed" that I won't meet these women.  It actually gives me insight into their lack of professionalism and what could have ultimately turned into a bad experience due to flakiness, unprofessionalism, etc.  
The point of the post is that women here complain about the trolling when coming from the men but it also occurs the other way and ultimately is a waste of time.

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We explained where things may have gone wrong from our side of things. You know, the side that actually determines whether or not you get an email back? Surely, our wee little brains can offer some sort of insight into the part of the business that only we actually deal with.

Funny that your post was truly the crown jewel of your imaginary pissing contest. I'm sure we're all heartbroken we'll never meet you

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