Early 30s here, new to hobby, looming for an occasional outcall to the Dulles / Ashburn area. Run my business from home and would love the occasional daytime companion.

to have someone come to your residence  without developing trust. And definitely not for a newbie like yourself. That's how people's identity ends up on the Internet, should things go wrong. Since you have stated you own your own business, a quick trip to Dulles area hotel for incall appointment would achieve the same end result. If you are insisting on outcall, book a hotel room.

...spot on.  

Comfortable with it for someone that's well reviewed.

My advice is good most of the time.. Remember you belong to the other party... And as long as we are in this trade, there will always be *some* level of "us" vs "them". So I never expect any provider to agree with me all the time.  

unless there is trust between you two. After having spent 11 yrs here and seen 100s of gals, I would still never invite someone to my place on first visit.. Because the trust is not there yet.. On top of that, you seem to be brand new.. That's double no-no..

open to incalls too

Happy to visit the spinner of my dreams in an incall mode too!!

Now you may use the search function....

Curly -- there is no feature on the search to find providers who would be willing to take newbies.. And to find a reputable one that fits ur requirements is like looking for a needle in a haystack... I am a DC member but even there the reputable ones will only see if u are verified. I understand their point of view but for me I finding the time for all this in an already busy life is no joke.

on AD board and using Search feature, and then take it from there. Everyone is newbie sometime or other.  

Curly, did you say 100s of gals???? How is that possible? What would you say is the actual number?

Do some of you morons think before you open your pie hole? You think the whole world starts or begins with you...

to take the time to do your homework & research what you're looking for, or either quit the hobby or take on enormous risk.  You know, there are always going to be busts in this hobby, your first objective must be to not be one of them.  Put in the time & effort to be safe & maybe happy, or find another hobby!

Re: open to incalls too

You guys are hilarious, especially Curly. The search function, btw, isn't that good. Search for a lady with A / B cups and get a whole variety of women.

No offense intended...it was more a reflection of me asking myself why don't I have more experience and what do I want from these providers now that I am learning about their services. One thing that I have noticed is that even if a provider is highly skilled, it does not mean that I am getting (enjoying) the full benefit of her skill. So much of this requires personal self awareness to fully appreciate the moment. Or perhaps it's that napping question again, is this all there is