but even moreso, I look for some kind of connection with the lady I'm with, try to get attuned to her.
Can this happen with doubles?  Or is the experience more about bombarding the senses with activites and lovely body parts everywhere you look?
I'd never say never, but for now I just don't think it is my cup of tea... (though as I think about it, a BBBJ with simultaneous rimming does sound like pure nirvana!).

I'd be way too nervous. Two ladies would get me way too excited. Performance might be a little questionable.

I'd prefer to have met ladies previous to our group outing, and probably prefer to know the ladies like each other as well. I tend to book long to really long engagements (4 to 8 hours). So I'd most likely start with the lady I am most comfortable with and invite the second friend to join us for hours 2 - 4...something like that. I'm waiting for the right opportunity.
Thanks for the question. It's interesting to read the other perspectives.

GOD...

gave me one dick and every woman one vagina.  One dick-one vagina

1 The cost is double.

2 But, I tend to think of sex as expressing affection very intimately.  Sure, she is getting paid, but I still want us to treat each other as boyfriend/girlfriend (GFE), and I try to treat her that way.  An outsider observing US is not the intimate experience I seek.

doubles have the potential to be great, but seldom live up to the potential.

I experienced a civvy threesome where the gals were into each other just as much as I was into them... we were all three engaged with one another, all the time. It was awesome.

In hobbyland, I've experienced doubles where the gals were into each other, and I felt like a spectator; doubles where the gals were not into each other and I was simply alternately playing with one and then the other; and doubles where I was pretty much with one gal and the other was more of a spectator.  

In a threesome, I don't want any spectators and I don't want to have to direct traffic. I want all three of us to be engaged together and in the moment. Hard to find, and expensive to search for. But I would love to find an experience like that college civvy threesome again.

doubles

i absolutely love doubles...how can you not love two naked gorgeous women who are willing to fulfill your sexual needs..not to mention six delicious holes to fill or dine on..pure nirvana..every hobbyist should have one..

nothing better than doubles!

How can you go wrong with two ladies? I find that first meetings are more relaxed. The ladies seem to be more comfortable when they are with  a friend and it shows.

My opinion on doubles goes back and forth. I have had about a helf dozen or so doubles experiences in the hobby world and have had some really great experiences and some really bad experiences.

From an experience stand point, I have found that if the ladies interact with each other, it makes the experience more pleasurable for everyone; however, if they are too into each other, like a previous poster said, it can make you feel like a spectator. When the girl don't interact the responsibility to pleasing them both can be overwhelming. In addiition, wtith three people, its important to take your time, 3 people in a frenzy can get way too overwhelming.  

From a value / cost stand point: having been in a few doubles experiences, if the rate is simply double the single rate, I would prefer to see the ladies one at a time. If the doubles rate were less than double the single rate, I see it as a great opportunity to see two new ladies, in an environment that they will feel more relaxed in, at a rate that would be less than seeing them individually and the added bonus that I have a better chance of enjoying the session with two ladies there. One of the scariest things about seeing new people is not conecting and spending hundreds of dollars for a time that was just ok. I would never ask anyone for a discount, but I wish more ladies offered doubles at a lower rate.

In my opinion

I just haven't reached the point where one woman isn't enough to satisfy me.
It therefore leads to an unnecessary cost

I can handle it!

Although the monetary issue is a concern and why I don't do it more often.

I think some guys worry it's going to cost them double the money and they'll be so over excited they'll only last half the time

I LIKE IT!

have only done it a couple of times, but have had a blast every time. Well, several blasts!!

Expensive? yes, it can be. And that is a deterrent since the time really flies when you're engaged in an exciting, sweaty romp. And I usually only get one shot - so to speak - so dropping the hour charge x 2 for this is not an easy choice.

I'm very selective about who I'll double with. Either a regular who has a hot friend, or a existing proven pair who regularly offer such services.

It important to put the fact out there. I met one pair who told me repeatedly they loved it, and loved to play with each other and were hot, and I show up and its "no we never have" and "we don't do things with each other." I walked.

What can be great about doubles is just as you say, Amber. Hands all over, mouths everywhere. A feeling of pleasure so intense you don't actually know who is making you feel that way but you really like it. I like to watch as well as participate. I like to listen as well as direct. I like to command, and to be commanded. I like it when we all try new things.

I one session that really surprised - these two gorgeous women who played together a lot disrobed me and put me in a harness swing thing hanging from the ceiling. they played with me and each other and I nearly passed it out was so intense. Toys came out and in the caring hands of a specialist, I came to learn new things that make me feel really good. Everyone got off it was great.

So I'm saying if the heat is there - doubles is like no other experience - and totally worth it. Be honest about what you do and don't do together, and with/for/to your client. Be reasonable in what you charge and honest about what you like.

Lets do it!