Have you ever had sex with a civie and the person's love making skills far exceeded your expectations?   If so, who was it?  And what happened that surprised you so much?  No actual identifiable names or providers' names, please.  

-- Modified on 2/5/2010 9:37:35 AM

LOL..."had sex and expected it to be bad"???  If it was "with a civie" and you expected it to be bad, I can't imagine why you motivate you to have sex with that person???

If you asking about people's civvie experiences, why would any providers' names come up??

As a buddy of mine used to say, "It's ALL good, some's just better than others".

latest escort. She claims she "Came" the hardest she ever has. or was that just an ego boost for me? Can't wait to try it on the next un-suspecting victim. LOL

Have you ever wondered what happened to your favorite provider when she disappears from sight (as they all do, sooner or later)?  Did she find the love of her life, finish her degree, find a great job, or perhaps encounter some of the hazards of the profession?  Has she 'gone straight' and now hides her risque experience behind a facade of staid normalcy?  Will she venture back on occasion to sample the enticements?  Do you wonder if any of your 'normal' civvie friends or contacts are former providers?

Let me try to answer the original question; it is legitimate to ask and relevant to my current situation.

The answer is "yes," of course there are instances of exceeding expectations; see below.  

Background:
I have several married "girlfriends" I meet for NSA sex. I meet them on-line where we can establish a dialog, credibility, compatibility, etc.

It has been my experience that these married women (generally) dont come close to the same level of sexual prowess, technique, satisfaction, etc...as a qualified provider (thank goodness for TER). However, affairs are free and variety is the spice of life. Hey, dont judge...

Case:
So all of the above being said, I recently found a new "friend." She is in her late 20s and bored with her husband. We opend a dialog, emailed, called, and had "coffee" several times before we engaged closer.

Based on our conversations/meetings my expectation was that she would be fun, but nothing spectacular. I could not have been more wrong. She's simply brilliant. Whoever trained this woman to fuck was a master educator.

What is different?
Lets see...no inibitions (none, repeat none) and willing (wanting really) to try everything including swaping, anal, CIM, COF, threesomes (mmf, ffm), and light bondage. Additionally, she's very communicative in bed...telling me what she wants and what is pleasing her. Its that nasty talk that gets guys off....and I love it. Note: good nasty talk is hard to find regardless. Lastly, her overall attitude towards pleasing me is simply delicious. I'm a giver by my nature and she and I connect on that level.

Result:
She truly exceeds my expectations. The drawback is that she'll be gone once she realizes there are younger men who can do the same for her.

Does this help?

Cheers,
Sky