Say what you mean, mean what you say, do what you say.  

 It's a simple phrase however living it has always been a challenge and I do my best.  My customers tell me one of the reasons they do business with me is because my value systems are clear and because of it they know what to expect.

Taking a clients money and not delivering on the service promised is STEALING. It is not a misunderstanding, a mistake, an accident, a weak moment or because I had a sucky life and everyone else is to blame for my bad choices.  When you do this it clearly says, you are a liar and a thief and you are no longer worthy of being in our presence. When I say "our"  I'm speaking about those of us who understand the simple concept of right and wrong. I'm including those of us who want an honorable premise in which to do business and get all our collective needs met. Oh wait isn't that one of the reasons sites like this exist ?

Let be clear why I'm doing this, what was done to said hobbyist was wrong and other gentlemen and providers should know this person has no honor. If you choose to do business with them subsequently, that is your choice.  

In my OPINION as an industry the provider should be shunned.  No references, no replies to their posts, etc.  Will this happen, I doubt it and I'm presenting an ideal.  

With respect to TER functioning within the written rules.
  To satisfy the rules and operate within them.
If you wish to know who this provider is, ( I have permission from the client in question ) I can not post it here, do not PM me asking. If you wish to know you'll need to send an e-mail  [email protected] this e-mail will auto shutdown on Jun 22, 2013

Lee Dreams

 

"Silence in the face of evil is itself evil: God will not hold us guiltless.  
Not to speak is to speak.  
Not to act is to act. "

~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer.

 

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Man, did she not think about the consequences of her actions? $500 is not easy money either. Email that email address that Lee Dreams provided and you will get an automatic response within a few seconds to find out who the provider is and the details.

She even post on the regional D.C. ad board here on TER. She's just an unstable person and should not be trusted, even with a few dollars. Young, naive, stupid, and lives in a little play world. I'm just so damn disgusted from reading that email that it makes me want to fucking drink.

Guys of the Washington D.C. metro region. Do not reward thievery. DO NOT book another appointment with this lady. If you truly want to make the Washington D.C. metro region a safe and reliable place to hobby, then WE OURSELVES have to take matters into our own hands and to NEVER book an appointment with this lady again.

If she did it to him, then she'll do it to you. DO NOT book another appointment with this lady. Have some respect for yourself and to your hobbyist. If you book with her, then that means you have allowed her to continue her behavior and she will eventually steal from someone else again in the near future. WE hobbyist have to stick together. If you want only the best, reliable, and respectable ladies, then you have to do your part too.

Will keep this in mind.  Been in contact with her and she then started sending unsolicited texts.  Spider sense said be cautious - now I know why.

Too bad.

GD111

She always seemed like a flake and a damn mess...I viewed her as a steps below a BP provider from a class level...

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for providing this service to the community. Sorry that she chose this path, but she does need to know she can't do these things without consequences. Both clients and providers need to help police our community. We are all in this together.

Your presence on this board as a respected member, eloquent writer, and a part of what keeps the bar high for this community, is highly appreciated!

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I am 99% certain the provider in question related her own experience of being robbed and how she was traumatized in the past year.I think the jist of the convo was for her to screen better and for her to make a decision on how she wanted to be perceived by the community. Bp type or well reviewed lady...

 Clearly she made her choice

In the 3+ years I've been in the business, I've been stiffed 3 times.  I certainly made sure I got out their info to other girls so it wouldn't happen to them.  So many times providers pull this BS and never get called on it.  

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So don't get too adventurous... Stick to ladies who are in good standing.

If she wanted to respond or return money, she would have done long time ago...

Its not even about a chance to respond, why not just give the money back. She can leave it with a provider he trusts, or meet up with him somewhere in public to give the money back. The provider in question is the same chick who's always posting about drama on the boards. Im sure she hasn't had a problem spending that money. There's no room in the hobby for thieves and there are too many ladies to see who don't steal clients money. Just disgusting

People are being actually very nice and civil to her..