I hope everyone realizes that not all reviews are genuine here or anywhere. I saw a provider called Casey Blake ( she is on TER). She had sterling reviews but upon my meeting with her earlier this year ( before COVID Hiatus began)....I saw her to realize that most reviews were fake. She didn’t do LFK, let her touch her breasts or BBBJ, while most reviews were talked about her being Porn-Star Experience. Obviously they were fake. So, Now I research reviewers before authenticating their reviews.
Imagine someone who doesn’t let the reviews about them to be posted? Your Money=Your GambleShe seems like a friendly, fun and pretty girl but has no reviews despite being around for a few years. She requests no reviews, which I can respect, but wondering if anyone has seen her here. I‘m a little hesitant to pull the trigger having no idea what to expect or if she is legit.
Just my opinion here, and certainly every lady has the right to request that she not be reviewed. For me, I’m not setting up any meetings with someone who doesn’t want a review. At times that probably means I’m missing out. I’ll take that chance before I’ll take the chance that the “no review” policy is in place to cover for poor service.
Yes, that is good point. I mean, to shell out 400 or 500 and to be with a not girl with poor service would be a major bummer as I can’t do this everyday.
The ladies ask for references and screening from us for good reason but we should also be expected to see/ask for references, namely at least a couple reviews.
There are too many great and well reviewed ladies. Why take the chance?
Saw her a few months back.. Have been mulling on posting a review as IDGAF about providers not wanting reviews - who the hell eats at a restaurant that states "no reviews on Yelp, etc".... Anyways 8 on looks, possibly 9... Nice body.... I rated a 7 on performance... Would I see again - coin flip
Recently posted an ad on the DC Ad Board saying that she “now accepts reviews”.
That's a good start! $400 and no reviews = no business. I've been meaning to see her for a while, hoping someone takes the plunge.
MD Bater posted earlier in this thread that he saw her and rated her a 7 for performance. He also said it was a coin flip for him as to whether he would repeat or not. Not exactly a glowing report and certainly doesn't make me want to rush out and drop $400 for a session.
I suggest checking their twitter/Instagram etc.
Do they post selfies frequently? Do they have a large following? Have they had a social media presence for a long time? If yes they are most likely legit.
The one wild card is chemistry. Even a provider with a perfect review history doesnt guarantee you'll clique with her.
I remember we used to rate professors in college, i had to repeat statistics twice because I did horribly in that class, my final professor had alot of negative reviews, but i ended up loving her and finally was able to pass statiatics under her tutilidge.
Moral to the story is you never know who you'll clique with, so if she has no reviews check her social media and look for selfies, following, and how long shes been on there. Itll give you a good sense of her personality too.
Good luck!
Clients know there's no way to be sure how the chemistry will be until they actually go through with a session. If a provider has enough reviews, you can get a sense as to whether you're likely to click, but again there's no guarantee until you see each other. The big problem with no reviews is that a client doesn't know which specific activities are/aren't included. If a client is expecting DFK/BBBJ/DATY, etc., it's an expensive disappointment to find out the provider doesn't offer that particular service. It's perfectly understandable why a provider might not want to list specifics on her website, and may not want to discuss them via phone/text/email. But that's where reviews help avoid misunderstandings and (from the client's point of view) misspent funds. Social media has its uses but doesn't really fill that gap.
..The big problem with no reviews is that a client doesn't know which specific activities are/aren't included. If a client is expecting DFK/BBBJ/DATY, etc., it's an expensive disappointment to find out the provider doesn't offer that particular service...
As someone who has a few critiques of review culture, but is also okay with some of the supposed benefits of reviews, I'm sincerely curious. Preferred 411 has an "Other Details" section for a companion to list play time related interests. And there is an ad + review site that has a No List. Would things like that in conjunction with what a companion shares on their website and social media be considered acceptable instead of explicit reviews.?
For those who are, maybe what you suggest could be a somewhat workable solution. IMHO, what clients are looking for is some kind of (relatively) reliable method by which they can ensure their expectations are in sync with what is comfortable and customary for the provider. The problem with relying on what a provider says about herself is that, without some kind of review system, there's no way to know the real situation BEFORE spending one's hard-earned $$$. The steps you suggested in your post all rely on some kind of self-certification by the provider. The "no list" on the PD site, for example, is left completely blank by many providers. It's hard to imagine they have absolutely zero "no" activities and the more likely explanation is that they just didn't bother to check any boxes. So, while your suggestions might be fine for those who are 100% truthful, they don't fully address the concerns of many clients, especially those who aren't P411 members. Just my .02 worth and reasoning as to why I continue to rely on TER reviews. Are bogus reviews an issue? Absolutely, yes. But TER is better than most in working to minimize them and a perceptive reader can usually spot them a mile away.
Just so I’m clear, how can a lady “not allow” a review? She can certainly not prefer a review, and even politely ask her clients not to do a review. But it’s my understanding that if a gentleman wants to leave a review he simply does so, without the need of her permission. So my question is, with due respect, how does a lady “not allow” a review?
She can request no reviews, just like some providers ask clients to post 10/10 reviews or nothing. A touch of white knight syndrome, where guys cater to women. They think if I write a review she'll know it was me and then ban me from seeing her.
She looks hot, and her photo on skates is interesting. The photo, to me, also screams - pain in the ass and too 'young'. So, that paired with the above mini-review, will take a pass.
If a lady says she does not "allow" reviews, I will post one ONLY if I never plan to see her again. If the service is good and I would repeat then I dont want to have any issues because I went against her wishes.
I dont go around burning bridges unnecessarily. It's hard to find good ladies in this biz. It was especially hard when TER was gone. I was lucky when things were offline but mostly stuck to providers I had seen already or had been recommended by referral.
If its a rip off then all bets are off. Others need to be warned.
I've seen a lady who is adamant about about not receiving reviews. I had assumed it was because of the shut down. At the time she had 3 reviews; she now has at least 15. I've seen her 3 times and I haven't mentioned all the new reviews to her.
...not permission. Wholeheartedly agree with the poster that referenced a restaurant not “allowing” a yelp review. To the gent who gave a mini above, why not just post the full review and possibly save someone else the disappointment? I think the ladies may benefit as well. If she doesn’t realize her performance is only a 7, how does she ever get better? Assuming of course that her performance is truly only a 7.
Providers can ask TER to pull reviews/delete their profile.
Good to know, thank you for that.
Just because a provider asks, doesn't mean it will happen. If a reviewer can prove he saw the provider, very unlikely TER will pull the review, unless it puts the provider in danger.
They can ask to be delisted entirely, however they cannot pick and choose reviews, its all or nothing
Thank you Daphne for clarifying that. That’s what I meant as well, except I phrased it weirdly with the “/“ between my statements. I didn’t intend for that to mean “either/or”.
A provider I previously saw had her profile pulled. I still have her review under my reviews, but if I try to see her profile, it says it does not exist.
I saw her and she was amazing...
The one thing that gave me pause was the upcharge for an incall, which drove the base price of $400 to $500.
At $400, I'd have seen her again...and again...[but I can't host]
I'm not going to see anyone consistently for $500...it's "only" an additional $100, but that adds up quickly on future visits.
It says "I look forward to getting to know each other over a delicious bottle of champagne at my private upscale incall or any location of your choice." which clearly implies (IMHO) that she has her own location at the $400/hr rate. If that's not the case then she should be clear about having an incall surcharge.
I'd rate her performance significantly higher than a 7...that's a bodyrub rating...I'd have given her a 8.5 to 9...
Don't walk to see Jessica. I have been doing this a long time and she is in my top 5. Almost to good to be true. Review coming soon.....
Looking forward to seeing the review.
I paid $500 for a 90 min session. No up charge for in call. I even asked her about it and she said that's not the case. Also verified with get assistant before booking. There was a misunderstanding somewhere.
Interesting...I'll be back then...once the coast is clear from a COVID-19 perspective and I can "go to the office" and the kids are back in school/etc...[which might not be until 2021]
She's on my "want to see" list.
has an active web presence, engages on social media, and is well-regarded, I'm confused why anyone would doubt their legitimacy. I can see maybe wondering about chemistry.
I've seen clients convey that sometimes they've waited weeks, months, or even over a year to finally book. I thought all the deliberation was a part of a subtle process of researching, getting a sense of a companion's personality and interests.
Provider's sometimes sell their "brand" or give it to a friend. Happened a couple times to me in Chicago. Unless of course the provider somehow shrunk 6 inches from 5'8" to 5'2" and gained 30 lbs in a year.
The problem is That in addition to two provider references her booker ask for work information.
That is a no go — opens up possibility of blackmail and much worse like losing job and everything.
I hope everyone realizes that not all reviews are genuine here or anywhere. I saw a provider called Casey Blake ( she is on TER). She had sterling reviews but upon my meeting with her earlier this year ( before COVID Hiatus began)....I saw her to realize that most reviews were fake. She didn’t do LFK, let her touch her breasts or BBBJ, while most reviews were talked about her being Porn-Star Experience. Obviously they were fake. So, Now I research reviewers before authenticating their reviews.
Imagine someone who doesn’t let the reviews about them to be posted?
Your Money=Your Gamble