OK, I saw this lady for a reviewed domination session.  I got a feeling she might offer other adult services under a different name.  If so, I would be very interested.  Asking directly may be embarrassing.  Does anyone know her under a separate persona for other services?

It seems there is a new BDSM agency, or group in the Bethesda area that all use the same number! Was out there yesterday and was going to schedule an appointment but my neck hairs were standing up... something doesn't sit right but I'm not sure what!?!?!

Posting under an alias usually inclines me to ignor a post but since I'm equally curious perhaps someone with first hand knowledge will chime in!!!!

Aside from that the pics look fake to me so who knows what the deal is without a front man!

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I've never seen her ad before, although I mostly stay up around Baltimore and prowl those ads.  Still, for a cute redhead like that, I'd be willing to make the trip.

If you're willing to open up to her for a domination session, then I am unclear on what is "embarrassing" about saying, "Wow, I'd really love to spend some time just being deeply sensual with you; do you think that might be possible?"  Trust me, if you're cruising for her services, she won't be offended by the idea that you might want to indulge in some vanilla play.  She might not be willing to go along, for a wide range of reasons, and you better make sure to respect those reasons, but if you're reasonably polite, there should be no repercussions to inquiring about other options.  Since she offers submission sessions to "the right person", I would not be surprised if that could be arranged, and the nature of the session could be you ordering her to please you.

I've spoken to several pro dommes who admit to indulging in vanilla sessions with someone they like, especially if the price is right.  That said, there are also dommes who either don't go there at all, or at least don't tell anyone if they do.  I am reminded of a "Top Ten Lies Pro Dommes Tell" humor list I saw once that included "I have never had sex with a client" (as well as "I always have sex with the client") and "I have no trouble remaining in top-space while I have a cock inside me".  It may change the dynamic between you two for future sessions if you do have some non-kinky sexual interaction, but that's something you would have to discuss with her.  

Don't be surprised if she insists on keeping a strong BDSM element in your interaction; that may be a big part of the appeal for her.  If you can't bring yourself to be a non-asshole dominant, then you might not click very well with her in that sort of session; I've known submissives who were incredibly awful at trying to be in charge.

Thanks for your thoughts.  You make good points.  I guess my worry was she was working out of a domination house that seems to frown on anything other than BDSM and I also did not want to blow what I was hoping was a good thing.  Now she's no longer available for the time being anyway.  Damn.

Oh well.  I hate that it has become a moot point, but she might come back sometime.

I do think we have to be willing to ask for whatever it is that we want, and accept that the answer may sometimes be "nope, can't (or won't) help you with that".  You can go on from there, and as long as you aren't being an asshole, everyone can have their limits respected.  You may decide that you cannot continue on with someone who won't do a sensual session, and she might decide that she is unhappy with you thinking of having sex with her, but in my experience, a politely closed door does not shut down a good working relationship.