Posting here because she tours DC

Let this be a lesson to never use your personal information to screen. I had been out of the game since fosta and Covid so screening was tough. I let the little head instead of the big head make the decision.  

I'll try and keep this simple Brazilian Isabelle from KOP is a huge time waster. After traveling to see her on two separate occasions I was only met with excuses and both my days were ruined. Total waste of time.

It gets better though when I got frustrated about the situation and expressed myself she threatened to use the personal information I screened with to go after me.

I know everybody always says never screen with your real information and now I know why. Lucky for me I'm single, no kids and work for myself so no real threat to me. But for anybody else this could have ruined them.

Just because somebody has great reviews doesn't mean you shouldn't do your research. Obviously something is going on here. After a little more research this seems it could be a trend. Do yourself a favor and stay far away

I'm sorry this happened to you and thanks for letting the community know about it.

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Explain please. What did he do to deserve to be threаtened for his info to be outed?

I can’t be sure, but I think he’s attributing the bad karma to the OP giving up his PII in the first place.

So the chickens 🐔 came home to roost. He has been nothing but a racist and evil person on the forums, just go search his comments are response to post. He has more bad karma coming his way, if he hasn't been receiving it already and just hasn't revealed it here.

It sounds like she only threatened to out you, after you threatened something of your own in response to your disappointment...

Just move on...which is what you should have done after the first time...

Should she have threatened you BACK...of course not...but it doesn't sound like she did anything...

If you provide real name or LinkedIn, they hold all the cards because there is the threat of retaliation. You cannot leave a bad review, they could send a note to your employer. This is driving me to stick with past providers or retire from the hobby

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You sir have me confused with somebody else.  Please feel free to search my 4 comments that I have made lol. Not one is mean or racist 😆

No threats were ever made by me.  I just let her know how much was put into the two trips and that if things were the other way around I would be expected to pay a cancelation fee, which with that short of notice would have been the full rate. She then flew off the hinges.  

You are correct though I should have moved on after the first last minute cancelation.

I should have known something was amiss when I found myself agreeing with DaTrufe 😳

Btw, I too have read Clive Cussler’s books. 😎

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Never do it. Too much risk. Amazing that these ladies ask for so much info. Of course some is fine but seriously so much info it sets you up for blackmail.

It depends.  Everyoe's situation is different.  A retired single person does not have much risk.  A self employed single person not in the black  does not have much risk. The same as for someone in an open relationship and a safe employment environment.  

Although I would still be careful to who I gave the infromation.  The provider would have to have a great reputation for me to do it.