because I am what is called a wallmart shopper of a hobbiest . However I believe if you do go and search and look for

a. ladies with more than 10 reviews
b. more in the 30s (So that they are mature to hold a conversation)
c. with ratings of 8+

then I would contact some of their recent reviewers and ask specific questions via PM and shorten the list of potential candidates.

Not bad for a wallmart shopper ha?