I call a well-known agency that provides local outcals. they send the girl I want.  She comes in I show her around we have a glass of wine, we go upstarins and I go down on her, reaching what seemed to be like a real o.  About a minute after we done, while we are snuggling, she says I only have two minutes left and [the person who runs the agency] docks my pay if I go over.  So rather than accepting the up-sell, I say "ok" and stop.  

I can see the arguments for why this is my fault -- I should have manged the time better.  If i wanted to complete, I could have paid the upsell.  

On the other hand, it was a really fun evening and really going well and taking an extra 10 minutes would have really sealed the deal.  its hard to believe she had another appointment -- it was 1 am on a weeknight.  So I felt taken advantage of.

In any case, even if they win the battle (over tonight), I win the war (over booking them).

Still, what does the jury think?

In all likelihood, she couldn't stand being with you and was grasping for any excuse to leave. Sorry to say that, but if a escort said that to me I would feel like a total loser

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The Policy "if you go over the time limit" should have been made known to you - upfront. No one like surprises - had you known in advance perhaps you would have spent your time better planning your "nut".
I place my iPhone on the bed stand, and tell her the time - to gain agreement about the hour I have reserved, and then get her agree, so there are no time disputes.

If I understand correctly...your time was up and she stayed the full hour and said she had to go, despite you not getting to cum.  That's not an upsell. An upsell would be if she showed and you paid her $$$ and then she told you if you wanted any action within the hour it would cost $$ more. Did you offer to pay for her extended time? No? Then why should she stay? You booked a hour and need to be mindful of the time...don't wait until 59 minutes to try and get yours.  

Remember, you are paying for time, not specific services regardless of how long it takes.

Also, if she was agency, it's very likely she had another appt....yes, even on a weeknight.

She's on the job, and wants to be compensated for her work- GFE doesn't equal actual girlfriend...just like, you can feel like Superman on the 6 Flags coaster, but you need to get off or pay up when the ride's over-

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I'm going to present a few perspectives which may rub up against your model of the world here.

A) You failed to state how long you contracted for. These things are important since it affects outcomes and it's hard to give you an informed answer.

Yesterday, I had a new client who wanted to see an associate and he asked for an 1.5 hours. During the course of the conversation he asked about going to dinner. Excuse me ? I was obligated to explain to him, that anything less that three hours with a restaurant within a mile of the hotel is a formula for failure. Stop and think about the number of variables out of your control when you go to a restaurant . Had I not known my business, had I just booked the call, I and my associate would have to deal with a client with unrealized expectations. As I teach my associates, the time to take care of a problem, is before you have one.

Without knowing how much time you asked for, can't really answer your question.

B) With encounters  after 10 PM, you  can into the possibility of her wanting to "get her done" and get her ass home. Especially, if she lives more than an hour away from where you are. You did infer the call ended at 1 AM therefore the " I want to get my ass home factor" is not an unreasonable premise.
   

I'm going to say the premise of your measurement is wrong. "Fault" is not the correct measurement here.  It sounds more like your expectations where not properly managed. Yes, you bare some of the "responsibility" for time management. However the girl also "perhaps" should have been professional enough to "redirect" things along especially if the time you contracted for was not realistic to the situation or your personal pattern (flow). Here is the problem, you don't know if that is actually true. Too often on this site posters force issues into the Agency vs Independent framework when it really doesn't apply. This isn't an Agency vs Independent or Agency issue, this is an integrity and professionalism issue with the girl.  She could have been and Independent and still given you a variation of the same line, which would have the same end result. Additionally, you don't know her character and a person of character wouldn't have brought it up. ( hint.. hint )
  How about you didn't get your "needs met" for whatever reason.  Don't forget you contracted for a defined period of  time. I assume that time was delivered.
   

If this is your internal framework and measurement system, then congratulations you just set yourself up for emotional / mental failure.  The only person who see this as a battle is you. Your thought process has taken this situation and made it in to a win -lose premise, completely ignoring any and all positives of the encounter.  

You got the girl you asked for, she showed up, she gave the time you paid for, you didn't get beat, ripped off or ended up calling your lawyer.

As for what Newto1000 and DCdaytimer  had said, with regret I to must agree, what they have present to you could also be true.

 
Things for you to ponder.

 
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Edamus, bibamus, gaudeamus

Talking is free. I know a lot of attractive girls that wanna talk, but don't want to sleep with me You gotta do a lot for a civvie girl for them to sleep with you. Don't have the time for it.  

Always keep this in mind, you are PAYING her for her TIME. What you do between those times is your business. I pay to fuck, and that is all I want to do. If she wants to talk later, then that's fine to.  

Another thing. When you are paying someone for their time, that its a contract. The contract is the business end. However, on a personal end, do you think she wants to see you if its not a contract? No, she doesn't want to see you on a personal end.

Some of these guys looks like Shriek, are socially inept, actually looking for a girlfriend, and don't know where to draw the line between business and hobby. She has to deal with that. I myself can't imagine sleeping with Shriek.

So, unless you look handsome and attractive, and you feel that she is connecting with you, then you should always be mindful of the time. If you look like Shriek, then go in, get laid first, then talk later. Don't waste your time talking, drinking wine, or anything that is not sexually related. Unless, you are paying her for more time. If you paid her for 3 hours, then wine is appropriate. If you pay her for 1 hour, then you need to get your nut in first and talk afterwards.

Indy or not free extra time just does not compute UNLESS she wants to give it to you.  Her saying her agency would dock her pay does sound fishy though. Never worked for one but that does sound odd.  
I'm also feeling like some things have been left out.

If you see agency girls regularly, you should know most of them are clock watchers. They have to check in when the session starts and check out when the session ends. Don't you hear the music or the phone ring when your time is up? If they go over time, they'd better have a good explanation to the agency. They have to be punctual or their schedules would screw up with disgruntled clients waiting impatiently in the parking lot.  

You would have better luck with an indie but not always. A lot of times, I go overtime (usually no more than 15-20 minutes) with them without any problems, especially if they are local and have no plans after my session. But last week, I was with a well-reviewed touring provider for a one-hour sessison. I was getting very close to finish and she could sense that (I also told her I was getting close). Then all of a sudden, she asked me if I wanted to extend. I looked at the clock, and noticed that my time was almost up. I decided to extend and came 8 minutes later (since she watched the clock, I figured I might as well). We spent the next 20 minutes or so just shooting the breeze. I couldn't help but feeling a bit of resentment like you did. I decided not to see her again (it was my second visit with her)

Thanks, everybody, for the perspectives.  I really appreciate them and I can see the situation alot more clearly now.  I accept the jury's judgments!  

PS in response to some things people have said  

--I can see that I mismanaged the situation  

--I did pay for an hour (only) so have no right to expect more than that.

--I do share the thought, though, that getting pay docked for going over time was something I had never heard of before.

--I don't think she actually despised being there. But, of course, you can never tell for sure.  But if that's the case, she was an extraordinarily good actress.  

Anyway, thanks again.  all extremely helpfu

His name IS "Moocher"- just saying lol

for YOUR actions. No one is forcing you to do such things but if you MUST, book more than a freakin hour!