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So I read many reviews and I wonder. If you are going out of your way to do this and this is something of a treat for you, then why go with the standard BBBJ, DATY, sex and done routine?

Don't you gentlemen have a hobby bucket list? Is it out of shyness or fear that the provider will think you are a freak that inhibits you from making requests? Or is it just simply your bucket list to be with beautiful women? I have to imagine, after you get used to it, the bucket list evolves or grows doesn't it? Or maybe it changes based whatever your in the mood for?

So tell me, with no inhibitions or hesitation. Whats really on that list and what made you feel comfortable enough, or not,  to ask?

The worst she can do is say no. Now that would be a turn off, wouldn't it? Don't hold it in, that isn't healthy or at all satisfying.

XO Megan

Feel free to PM me if you're too shy to post it here.

Can't believe at my age that it hasn't happened yet. Had the opportunity in New Orleans a couple of years ago but I just wasn't turned on by one of the ladies. Maybe I am being too particular....
One of these days!
Second would be a NURO massage I believe it's called. Both of us oiled up and sliding body to body with tongues and fingers probing everywhere. Gets me hot just thinking about it. :)

I would love to enjoy the attention of cute, 20-something twins at some point before I exit the hobby...

DrunkTextOn2069 reads

The red angry face icon is just for emphasis.  Or maybe I am mad I did not think of this answer.  LOL.

No doubt about it, twins is the winning fetish every time.  Sisters, too.  Even half sisters (Allie Haze used to do doubles with her half-sister who was also a porn starlet)  

But twins is are the ultimate fantasy.  The Milton Twins used to do private meets, and MANY of them.  Word was, you just had to watch your wallet.  Literally.  But that is quite a while ago now.

And then the Milton twins both got pregnant.  Some of those scenes are out there if you look.

Hands down, twins wins this thread for ultimate bucket llist item.   As I recall Playboy had triplet playmates a few years back, but we all know that is never going to happen.  But twins are remotely possible.

Some of the things on my bucket list....

1. Receiving a BBBJ from a lady while she has ice-cubes in her mouth

2. Get together with a provider and together "shop" for a third provider for a threesome.

3. Have a threesome with a black and a white provider.  

4. Have sex in all 50 states in U.S.A.  Plenty of time for that as I am in my early 30s.

5. Have sex in the wild..

so I can honestly say I probably have has sex in around 40 of the states. Was also stationed in Hawaii for two years so hit that state many many times.
Sex in the wild was accomplished when I was a teen.
I would add having sex in public though to my list, like getting a BJ while sitting at a table in a restaurant.

Okay, so you have 10 States to go and I am curious as to what kind of animals were around when you had " sex in the wild" ? Are we talking Amazon wild or camping wild?
Kisses,
MD

I like your list, but I have a question. Wouldn't #1 cause instant shrinkage? You could knock #2-3 out in a few years. Be sure to save those frequent flier miles and you could add the mile high club to the list, since you will be traveling to all 50 States :)
MD

I did think of that episode about shrinkage, lol. One of my all time favorite sitcoms of all time.
MD

i have two bucket lists..one for porn stars and another for regular providers..they are ever changing..my favorite session is a double with a porn star and a non-porn star..they are always awe inspiring..i have had a few..needless to say almost anything goes..inhibitions quickly disappear..there is no such thing as a " standard routine " in these love fests..

Posted By: Megandeville
So I read many reviews and I wonder. If you are going out of your way to do this and this is something of a treat for you, then why go with the standard BBBJ, DATY, sex and done routine?  
   
 Don't you gentlemen have a hobby bucket list? Is it out of shyness or fear that the provider will think you are a freak that inhibits you from making requests? Or is it just simply your bucket list to be with beautiful women? I have to imagine, after you get used to it, the bucket list evolves or grows doesn't it? Or maybe it changes based whatever your in the mood for?  
   
 So tell me, with no inhibitions or hesitation. Whats really on that list and what made you feel comfortable enough, or not,  to ask?  
   
 The worst she can do is say no. Now that would be a turn off, wouldn't it? Don't hold it in, that isn't healthy or at all satisfying.  
   
 XO Megan  
   
 Feel free to PM me if you're too shy to post it here.

That sounds hot! Is this your completed bucket list or do you have anything else to toss into the mix. Mix it up :)
MD

bucket lists are meant to be fantasies come true..if you have seen one or more of these ladies..setting up a FMF or MFM is easy..they let you know who they have the hots for..they all do..you become the facilitator..you not only fulfill your fantasies..but take care of your ladies fantasies too..it is always a win-win..

Posted By: Megandeville
That sounds hot! Is this your completed bucket list or do you have anything else to toss into the mix. Mix it up :)  
 MD

Lately I have had the fantasy of a MFM.  2 guys making her the center of attention.

Posted By: Megandeville
So I read many reviews and I wonder. If you are going out of your way to do this and this is something of a treat for you, then why go with the standard BBBJ, DATY, sex and done routine?  
   
 Don't you gentlemen have a hobby bucket list? Is it out of shyness or fear that the provider will think you are a freak that inhibits you from making requests? Or is it just simply your bucket list to be with beautiful women? I have to imagine, after you get used to it, the bucket list evolves or grows doesn't it? Or maybe it changes based whatever your in the mood for?  
   
 So tell me, with no inhibitions or hesitation. Whats really on that list and what made you feel comfortable enough, or not,  to ask?  
   
 The worst she can do is say no. Now that would be a turn off, wouldn't it? Don't hold it in, that isn't healthy or at all satisfying.  
   
 XO Megan  
   
 Feel free to PM me if you're too shy to post it here.

You could probably find a provider that has a civvie guy friend that would be more then willing to help you get that checked off your list.  
MD

Read another thought provocative Megan Deville post and my bucket list literally rolled off my tongue. I will share 1 item remaining on my list, not necessarily my favorite or on deck, just 1 item that came immediately to mind and put a smile on my face.

While on a date with a provider in a public place, mutually identify a civvie and convince the civvie to go back to our place for a threesome. I'm open to either FMF or MFM.

I can't believe I shared that with everyone here but I must admit it feels good to put it out there. Anyone interested to support my cause?

Thank you for sharing. I have a feeling you will indeed check that  one off your list.
MD

DrunkTextOn1891 reads

Fun thread.  I have done a lot of doubles, including ebony and ivory (and ivory and latina).   The more I hobby, the more convinced I am that doubles are superior to singles in every way.  They really are.  I am not claiming I am man enough to handle even one beautiful girl, but two is just cooler.  And one of those doubles was me getting a cute lesbian I see to be another cute girl's first girl at her request when I suggested it.  And it was AMAZING.  

Why don't we ask a girl in a regular session for the kinky stuff you know we want?  Simple answer: Hearing "no" is a real buzz-kill

Speaking just for me, I am afraid to ask for what I want because if I hear "no" it seems create a tense-ness and the session tends to go downhill.   Fast.

The funny thing is, the girls who are really good find a way to say yes then slide on to other things.  With a lot of requests, we only need a little to feel great.  It only takes being called "daddy" (as in sugar daddy, or as in me calling a young MILF a mommy) to make us happy.

What I am constantly amazed by is that girls do not frequently open the door wearing a cute $20 Halloween schoolgirl outfit.  You would make many of us customers for the duration of your career if you did so.  But few do.  I am also amazed at how few girls really use dirty talk.  Most of us love it.  And we love to be given permission to put our hand around your neck.  Nothing serious.  Just the rush of a feeling we get feeling like we are actually in control.

The top rated provider in Vegas begins a session by walking in, planting a non-rushed, deep french kiss, then going over to the bed and inviting a guy to fuck her like a whore.  That is just plain hot.  And makes you want to cum back often.

I actually have my likes in narrative form on my P411 page.  Maybe one in 10 girls reads it and customizes the hour to incorporate my likes.  Most don't even read that stuff.

Communication prior to the meeting always works for me. A simple email can make all the difference in the world.
If you want a sundae with whip cream and a cherry on top ,don't settle for a scoop of vanilla :)  
MD

DrunkTextOn1602 reads

If I send a message to a girl I have never seen saying I would really like you to wear a dog collar and leash for the hour (or whatever), 99.9 percent of girls are never going to even reply.  Never.

But if I show up, they see I am normal and safe and then ask to paint Hershey's syrup all over their rump and sprinkle it with skittles -- or whatever my thing is, maybe I will get a yes.

But when I get a no (say, to saying I want to spank you while you tell me what a big boy I am, for instance, or whatever), I now feel awkward.  And the hour sort of sucks.  

But I do have pornstarlets who begin the session by flat-out asking what fantasy they would like me to fulfill.  One in particular is up for whatever I want to try and check off my bucket list.  But that trust comes from being a repeat customer.  

On a first date with a girl, unless the girl explicitly invites me to open up, the odds say don't be honest about what would truly turn you on.

moocher21750 reads

Great thread.  Great OP question.  

My bucket list mainly has different types of providers on it - ethnicity, looks, body type, etc.  

Also, would love to join the mile high club.  

Megan, it'd be interesting t know if you (as proxy for providers generally) have a bucket list.

I can only speak for myself, but  yes, I have a bucket list. In all honesty, every time I check something off, I add something new to it. :)
MD

Thank you for making me think of my bucket list. Thank heavens I am coming to DC next week :)
MD

I pretty much have done everything I ever wanted to do until my mind expanded from the mundane and became creative.  

2 redhead nuru session
Screwing a flight attendant flying over the atlantic
On the Metro (Red Line) at night going above ground
In a limo driving around the beltway with two Blondes
Made professional grade porn
the old lame role playing like screwing a Cheerleader, Ballerina, Librarian, Catholic Schoolgirl, A girl doing Yoga, a hooters girl, a nurse.

looking back now this bucket list was what I call entry level.

As I Dom I have another Bucket list. I would gladly send it to you via PM if you are interested.

I always post about topics that truly interest me, so please feel free to PM.
MD

I had a bucket list but ran through it.  Mainly different flavors, red head, hispanic, european, etc.  Also, the S&M route (giving not receiving, partners request not mine - but I went with it).  Discovered I actually just enjoy a vanilla time.  LFK, DFK, BBBJ, miss, and doggie.  Occasional rimming, HJ/Oral and couple times a year DATY/DATO.  Simple things keep me pretty happy.

the standard BBBJ, DATY, sex and done routine. For many of us, that is a treat in itself. One of the reasons we hobby is to know that we are getting what we want without drama.

Remaining on my bucket list:

3 nights at Orient Beach in St. Maarten with a lovely lady.
2 nights in Las Vegas, again with a lovely lady.
Joining the mile high club while traveling to one of those destinations

I was at Orient Beach a few weeks ago, great place, full body tan, it is so freeing to walk around nude. Great place and highly recommended. As for the mile high club, I have done that and thank god I practice yoga as there is very little room to work, lol.Good times!
MD

In addition to the scenery, it is one great beach.  Soft waves, clear water, gentle breeze, sandy bottom, turquoise sea, powder blue sky, 2-for-1 happy hour.  Would love to go with you!

fast ffred1694 reads

I do keep a Hobby Bucket List. But, just with those ladies, I must see.
Three in DMV:
AngelinaDDD; Nikoletta Armani and Jessie Yum Yum.

Curvy Kimber, Sephia Sommer, Vanica Love, and Yourmysterydate (in no particular order)- I guess I have a "type" lol

I've been turned in by tickling, and had a mild foot fetish, since I was a little kid.

I can understand why a provider wouldn't want to do this, but I'd be super turned on by some light bondage and tickling as foreplay.

I've done a few things others have on their lists:  sex on a train (private compartment... But pulled into a station as we were entwined); sex outside.

DrunkTextOn1810 reads

Yep.  I saw a cute young girl recently and she was telling me about "creeps" she would not see.  One guy wanted to cum on her feet.  That is all he wanted.  And he was highly verified.  That scared her away.  Another wanted to watch her have sex with another girl.  That scared her away.  Even though she does doubles with her mentor.

She was cute and 19 and to her any guy who wanted to do this stuff and only this stuff was  a huge red flag, so she would not see them.

But if either guy had not been honest about what he wanted and had simply shown up and just jacked off on her feet, she would have been fine.  And if the other guy had booked her doubles and then just sat and watched, she would have been fine.  

But when we are honest about what we want, that act of honesty sets off alarms in girl's heads.

And that's just the way it is.

One way to deal with it is at the start of a session to say, "is your profile of listed activities accurate" and then tell her you want to start with "x" and away you go

Those are great bucket list items. Keep checking them off......
MD

...One of my bucket list items is to have a threesome, MFF, where the ladies are in 69 while I doggy style the lady on top the lady on the bottom sucks and plays with my balls and I cum in the mouth of the lady on the bottom.

Hence, the need for safety in the hobby may impact how many bucket list items one can achieve.

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