I try to read a few reviews and if the provider is mechanical and each review flows the same way I know what to expect. If I want that routine I schedule an appointment.
I also like to go with the flow when I see someone and if they can adapt well it is usually a better experience for me.
These past few weeks have been great for me - I've met a few providers that have rocked my world. One was a stripper at my friends bachelor party 20 years ago - and it was a fantastic encounter. It is a small world out there.
These comments are not intened to impune or insult anyone. Just food for thought/
I saw a provider a while back with over 30 pages of reviews. I was expecting my session to be one of the most sensual and erotic- I mean she had 9s and 10s on practically every page. But to my dismay, she was too arogant to care with "what is one more guy going to do for my rep? attitude" and pissed away most of the session with distractions and mechanical performances. I was so dissapointed. But then, I saw a lady new to the biz (I was her first in DC) and I loved it. She was so much fun and it was like a breath of fresh air.
So I am just curious - What are people's thoughts on seeing a provider with a dozen or more pages of reviews versus someone with a few reviews. I have conflicting POV. On one hand the lady wtih page after page is popular, well known and one would generally know what to expect while the lady with a few reviews is still fairly new, not so well known, and there is some question on what to expect. On the other hand a lady with page after page of reviews may (and I emphasise MAY) be too set in her ways and nothing excites her while a lady with a few reviews is fresh and still learning and open to new suggestions.
Experienced enough that I know what I am getting, but not been around for years .....
Of course, it all depends on the individual provider.
I'm glad you posted this question. As I myself have wondered the same thing. Do guys prefer more or less reviews?
I have come across one provider that had 69 pages of reviews. Probably the most I've seen. But she had also been in the business for over 7 years.
I'm relatively new in the business, but did have a brief spell in 2007. So most of my reviews are from then, with a couple recent ones that confirms I'm still GFE. But I still get emails from clients asking if I have anymore. Which would indicate that my 1 1/2 pages isn't enough reasurrance, that I am as advertised.
I tend to date men that like to keep our rendezvous private and I don't have a problem with that. If he is a repeat client, then I have done my job, with or without a review.
I have been the very first client a girl has seen as well as with a girl with over 11 pages of reviews and pretty much everything in-between. I completely agree with you that sometimes the girl can be mechanical and completely distant. Those things happen.
Sometimes you just have no chemistry with a provider. Please dont hold it against the girl if this happend.
I have also been with a particular provider that after double digit pages of reviews and her reviews have started to show some erratic numbers. They fluctuate between 10s and 7s. The only thing I can attribute this is to burnout. This is something that should be brought up in the review.
Just chalk it up to chemistry. BTW I normally see girls who have about 1 page of reviews nowadays. This way I know that they are still fresh and anxious to please plus that they have picked up some new skills. IMHO the best time to see a girl
I would have higher expectations with the provider with pages of reviews. But maybe the provider is having a bad day. I understand what your saying though a provider can get a little too used to her ways. But I don't think most providers a like that.
I have seen providers with few reviews and a lot.
it is really hard to make valid generalizations on this sort of question. the attitude of the lady on any given day has nothing to do with the number of reviews. the number of reviews may not correlate with how long she's been working either.
highly reviewed / underperforming could be:
1) just an off day due to outside issues, family, SO
2) the arrogant diva complex, she is in it for her own pleasure and not interested in service. if you try to discuss a performance issue and she blows up... (i had an experience where a diva forgot it was an outcall, not an incall. the aftermath was interesting.)
3) looming retirement, financially secure, not hungry, customer service becoming irrelevant
4) bad chemistry between you, or all on her own, maybe she is too much under a chemical influence
5) boredom
6) stc etc
for the new girl on the block:
1) it's a fresh new adventure
2) not jaded by "knowing it all" about the biz
3) hungry... still working on getting her pile of "fuck-you" money together
4) still establishing a rep one client at a time
5) etc etc
i wouldn't try to find a statistical sweet spot with the number of reviews. i've had one of my most successful outings with a provider with only 2-3 pp of reviews. i've also had my worst disaster with a provider with a similar number of reviews. i've had fantastic times with highly reviewed ladies and an occasional disaster. my current favorites have 6-7 pages.....
also the number of reviews can be artificially cut because of a period of voluntarily delisting, changing stage name to defeat a stalker, a scrape with LE, etc. so the number of reviews does not necessarily correlate with longevity and experience in the biz. some ladies with few page profiles have been around for a very long time.
and they have always taken extremely good care of me, made me feel very appreciated, as well as rocking my world.
OTOH I have seen ladies with few reviews either over long periods of time or fairly new, who were excellent as well.
I have very rarely seen a lady who was well reviewed over a long period, with many reviews, who did not live up to my hopes.
I can only speak for myself, of course. I have over 20 pages of reviews and am always feel fresh and ready to please. When I feel the burn out coming, I take a vacation in order to reboot. I genuinely enjoy "my job" and feel blessed to have to have it. Then again, the rest of my life is soooo normal, it is my outlet for fun!!!!
XO
hopefully in the near future!
I try to read a few reviews and if the provider is mechanical and each review flows the same way I know what to expect. If I want that routine I schedule an appointment.
I also like to go with the flow when I see someone and if they can adapt well it is usually a better experience for me.
These past few weeks have been great for me - I've met a few providers that have rocked my world. One was a stripper at my friends bachelor party 20 years ago - and it was a fantastic encounter. It is a small world out there.
I have seen ladies with pages of stellar reviews and been diapointed and then again I have seen gals with no reviews and been completely impressed. So I wouldn't say page after page of reviews is always a good thing. Sometimes I go by what another of the ladies recomends. One of my ATFs has been recomending a lot of her friends, many of them new to the business and no reviews. All of them were great. So I guess it realy does come down to attitude. So when I read reviews of someone I look for things that will give me some idication of whether they are able to focus on the person they are seeing or if they have their script down to a point they are mechanical. In the end it's often a roll of the dice. But I have found if I treat the lady nice they repond well and maybe that is the answwer.
Like many posters, I have seen all that you have previously described. I have had the great experience with a seasoned many paged provider several times, and had a mediocre performance on the third encounter. I seen fresh shrinkwrapped newbies that were scared, but could be encouraged to finish the job. I have also seen supposed newbies that must have done a hell of good job pleasing previous boyfriends too. Each encounter is its own exp[erience