The old adage is not true in this hobby...  I have seen the same woman every week for about 6 weeks and things have not stayed at the same intensity that made me want to see her for so long.  

Has this happened to anyone else?

Reoes familiarity make the heart grow fonder?

Hmmm - I think the saying is Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder - can substitute Distance....

Move on and see if this is true....

Familiarity instills complacency.

Reoes familiarity make the heart grow fonder?

This happens when the ladies get too comfy with you and don't work that hard any more. On the first or second session they give you 2 pops. On the third and beyond it is often one pop, followed by a conversation while they stay snuggled next to you relaxed comfort until the session is over.

They sometimes forget that this a job, and their job is to please you in a manner your wife and girlfriend can't or don't, even though they may feel satisfied themselves. If you are their second or third client of the day - then you may notice this even more.

I am sure there are a bunch of ladies that will take exception and insist that they try and provide as much passion in the repeat sessions as in the initial ones, but I have found this to be the exception.

When I reach that point I move on and see them only occasionally.

And apparently it does.  Maybe YOU don't lose interest.  Even so, it sure seems like the providers do.  I have only two exceptions.  That is probably much more than normal.

...the first year of marriage in only six short weeks. Consider it a life lesson.

Sorry, missed your post before posting much the same sentiment.

Makes me wonder who your 2 are?  It seems that it comes down to if you see them as friends or provders. I saw some each week and it never got old since it was more friendship than as provider.  Yes it changes but I didn't mind.  The question is do you make deals i.e. reduced rate but higher frequency?

I have a good number of guys I see over and over...for the past four years or so.
The sessions are always fun and hot...I try not to make them fall into a routine, or it turns into the BWE, thing they do NOT want to happen, reason they come to visit me right?
Now, I have a bunch of favorites.... our sessions are never boring or repeated, it gets better every time I see them because I know their bodies (and minds) so well that I can push all the right buttons.
I think the high volume hobbiests, the board guys, do tend to get bored real quicky because they jump from girl to girl.
The lurkers are not so prolific and they tend to stick to one or two girls they enjoy the most. They prefer the comfort of knowing how they are going to be treated and they don't like to TOFTT too often.

Because it does get a bit tiring and bit too much work to find new ones - delayed email responses, phone calls not returned, last minute cancellations.

Betty, if the girls had your great attitude - to try something new and different, to use toys sometimes, to play games, role playing - instead of falling into a "near wife" role (I liked that one ), if they were attentive to your needs over the longer term, I would see them again and again.

It has NOT happened to me with my ATF because I spread it out over weeks sometimes even months. As it stands now I have not seen my ATF for about 3 months. And the intensity is still their from when I first meet her and IMO its even stronger because my desire to see her is even greater than when I first meet her.

So maybe what you should have done was stretch out your meetings with her. That is what you should do now. Since you have seen her for 6 weeks straight, stop seeing her and don't think about it. But don't completely forget about her just Keep her in the back of your head. Maybe in a month or so, she'll creep back into your thoughts and you'll start to think about your previous meetings with her and remember the great times you had. Which will fuel your fire again. This is usually how it happens with myself.

I agree with you, Guz.  My ATF recently retired, but I must have seen her 20 times in the past year ,and at least for me, each time got better and hotter.  I couldn't wait to see her and she seemed to feel the same way.  I never picked up on any complacency on her part.  There is a level of trust that builds that can heighten the intimacy and almost make you forget it is a business transaction.  While I recognize that there is a certain excitement in meeting new ladies,if she hadn't left the business, I don't think I ever would have strayed.  It's obviously a personal preference and clearly depends on what you're looking for in a woman.

Sometimes your hear some negative talk and it makes you want to move on.

I have had some problems where some providers chit-chat to much and you have to remind them to get the 2nd pop in. I can tell they appriecate listening to them but they have to realize that I paid for them to please me.

Then there are problems where the attitude is not as good as it was for the first visit. Some of these providers have to realize they have to do things to keep the client hooked. That way they can go under the radar and focus on a selected few clients. Sometimes I will do an experiment and see a provider multiple times with in a 3 week period just to check out the attitude for consistency.

It is nice to be able to try different things. Those providers who have let me use hand cuffs and other kinky things keep my interest. One time a provider let me do her hair. Turned out to be a lot of fun and both of us got turned on for a 3rd pop afterwords.

Of course it is always good to try new positions that you have never tried before. There are also some providers who will initate the additional pops. Nothing like getting 2 pops in 1 hour.

It also goes with the attire the provider comes with. It nice to see the provider in a dress that you have never seen her in before. It is a real turnon when they come in some business suit. Nothing like them them in those sexy stockings or a fishnet stocking body suit.

Bottom line you need to see more than one provider maybe 2-4 and rotate them. Make sure you have some criteria in terms of what keeps the interest. Remember that variety is the spice of life. Sometimes a provider is not always around when you want them that is why you need to rotate.

I do like to see the same Gentlemen when I return for a tour...but every week would be like being married!!! But..if you mixed it up with some role-playing it might add some spice!!!

Speaking for myself, after repeated sessions the inhibitions fall away and our sessions become more intense as I become more fond of him.

But not always--I remember a guy who was very controlling, rigid and mechanical in our sessions. By the fourth weekly visit I was dreading his boring visits so I stopped seeing him.

I imagine that's what it's like being married with a boring sex life--now I understand why you guys want to get out there and have FUN again.