Too many great providers out in DC to let this time waster get to you!!! It sucks professionalism is out the window these days... That goes for both parties!!! Be considerate people!!! Consideration is free to do & doesn't cost a cent!!!
A well reviewed, supposedly "elite" independent cancelled on me within 15 minutes of the appointment. She just decided she didn't want to keep the appointment -- after specifically CONFIRMING an hour earlier! I really HATE that! She was even the one who emailed ME to ask if I could schedule something with her!!!
Too many great providers out in DC to let this time waster get to you!!! It sucks professionalism is out the window these days... That goes for both parties!!! Be considerate people!!! Consideration is free to do & doesn't cost a cent!!!
... and it's happening with greater frequency. I had to adjust my schedule to accommodate a meeting.
And that’s what she said? Out her, who is it?
After I cancelled a meeting, left the office early, travelled to and parked at her hotel, she sent me a text saying that she decided to not go through with the appointment after all. When I inquired what the problem was, she replied that she MIGHT see me at some point, but only if I provided her with additional personal and employment information above and beyond the screening information she had already requested and had been given.
Oh she got cold feet. Screening information needs to be sufficient enough that they get a warm fuzzy feeling and believe what you provided was enough. Apparently not. It sucks if as you say she lost that confidence 15mins before the time you were to meet. Not something most well known providers would do.
Can I ask what information you did provide to begin with? References from other well know providers? If so maybe they didn’t get back to her until the last minute or if ever and possibly not with favorable comments about you.
Yes not professional and a serious waste of your time. But what’s done is done and you’ll move on.
She had my non-alias ter id with a long list of well known whitelists, along with specific references from my two most recent providers. She said all was "great" and that she looked forward to seeing me soon and then gave me the hotel name about an hour before the appointment. All communications were via email. 45 minutes later, she sent me an email telling me that she changed her mind. We had gone back and forth for several days prior to setting the appointment. I made an initial inquiry with her a couple of months earlier, but she was unavailable then. A week ago, she sent me an email saying that she had some availability coming up and invited me to book an appointment. You know the rest.
Frankly, I strongly suspect that she got a more lucrative offer right before our appointment and decided to take it and cancel on me. Providers Do this ALL the time. Remember; it's all about the money for them. Their clientele rates no consideration at all outside of the money to be extracted therefrom.
Just move on! Gemma is right, too many great ladies out there to get caught up on one provider
You already got 3 responses from new potential providers!!! Lol. Can't control what you can't control. Sorry it happened to you, but her loss of business. GL.
but go ahead, try to Man Up!!!
You don't know me at all.
It’s never okay for either party to cancel at the last minute unless there is a true emergency - just common courtesy to extend to the other person involved!
I think it is usually best if you all rectify the issue with one another privately. If that does not work, or if you feel you’ve been treated unfairly, the only other options you have are to drop it or make the person here.
I can appreciate you not resorting to damaging the person’s professional reputation in the heat of the moment.
The solution is that I'll never bother with her going forward. There's too much downside for publicly exposing/shaming her.
Dude we all get a fair dose of being burned like that cause it goes with the territory. Who knows . . . you find out in this hobby that some providers are reliable, courteous pros that can meet every facet of your fantasy . . .
others are inconsiderate amateurs that have lots of personal issues (drugs, rearing kids, abusive relations) that are so outta control that it's hard for them to balance work appointments - don't take it personal. Chalk it off for funds saved for a better provider experience.
Think about it . . . if she rushed you, scammed you or short-changed you on the session and then ran off. You'd have been even more upset for your efforts and being milked of your cash instead of mr. happy.
Yes it sucks getting burned like that on your own time but one less to worry about.
But I am curious about the ncns (no call no show) provider's initials - is it TO by chance?
Wishing you a happy ending on your next event friend!
So, I cannot really make a comment on the cancellation or the screening issue because I feel like there is a lot of missing information. It's happened to me too.
Sorry she cancelled. It happens but if no money was lost, then move on. There is really no benefit to outing her. If someone really wants to know, they can back-channel you for the info.
I would find another ready, willing and able provider and let it go.
I am still not happy with a similar happening recently. I got a "I am sorry baby", message. And a "I will make it up to you next time I am in town", message. What does that even mean? It would have been a first time appt, I feel I got blown off for something better. Is booking only an hour, mean that I might get an appt until someone who books a longer appt and want my time slot, gets the girl? Sorry, anger issues still raging.
I am still not happy with a similar happening recently. I got a "I am sorry baby", message. And a "I will make it up to you next time I am in town", message. What does that even mean? It would have been a first time appt, I feel I got blown off for something better. Is booking only an hour, mean that I might get an appt until someone who books a longer appt and want my time slot, gets the girl? Sorry, anger issues still raging.
raging man no good for girl find fun.
Can someone translate what he/she said? It looks like English words, but not in the right order and missing punctuation and necessary verb age. Thanks in advance!
LoL seriously you can’t translate?
While she was waiting to see you she reads or feels something that makes her feel you are not someone compatible and changes her mind rather than have an angry guy writing a bad review.
She saved you from the cost and time it takes to write a bad review.
I’ll send my bill for translation by PM. 😃👍
OH - I got your translation payment ready Biggest Tool in the TER shed. I will be glad to put it where the sun don't shine.
But hey, you did a good job understanding the pig latin, better than me. I thought that is what was meant.
Now can you see this provider that blew me off and tell me what a good deal I missed, then write a bad review about her, so I can feel justified in not booking her, next time she emails me with a special offer.
Thanks, and what time will those TPS reports be done and on my desk.
I've had that happen to me with a provider that visits DC. If she was a visiting provider, I bet I can venture a guess or two. That has only happened to me twice in recent memory. I talked back channel with a buddy of mine and 'surprise' in one case it was the same provider who bailed on both of us. Evidently overbooked clients for her tour.
Same as you, confirmed the appointment earlier in the day. Given the hotel but not room #, told 'wait a minute, running a bit late'. Sitting in the parking lot, and then the infamous, "I'm not feeling well, sorry". Fortunately, called an agency and they were able to book me with a girl an hour later. So not a total loss, but seriously pissed off.
I've seen a couple ladies who have posted in this thread, and they are top notch and professional.
My guess would be she saved screening until the last minute and then realized she didn't have enough information to feel confident in keeping the appointment. I'm sorry for the inconvenience it caused you! I absolutely agree she should have offered extra time or a discount, etc. next time to make up for it and as a show of good faith. Echoing others, there are so many wonderful providers locally and touring here; it's not worth pursuing ladies who aren't professional, or who can't at least try to make up for/own up to mistakes. Best of luck and hope your next experience is simple and enjoyable!