I wanted to pose a condom question to you providers. Do you mind if the guy brings his own condoms to the 'date'? I, myself, am partial to a certain size, style, manufacturer, etc., but I would like to know if that violates some type of etiquette. Thank you for your responses.

it depends on who you see... however the majority of the providers I have seen all prefer to use the covers they provide... I never really asked, but had the opportunity to talk about it with an ATF of mine... she said that the providers should use only what they know will not break. If they don't know if it will or not, they shouldn't use them.  She said I have had a few break in the early days, and the one's which broke were the one's the hobbyist provided.


Also some providers have allergies and may need to something hypoallergenic.

I would suggest that on the first meeting of a provider, do not bring you own. After you feel she is someone you want to see more than once, I would broach the subject then.


My 2 cents (which isn't worth much these days)

I've been burned before for not having condoms. One time a provider told me on phone to bring condoms. I freaked out. Thought it was LE trap and cancelled. I was a rookie then. Another time, we were in middle of a hot and steamy make out session and she goes, "Opps, we don't have condoms". So, I put on clothes and my flip flops and rushed to the gift shop in the lobby. It killed the mood. Thankfully, she compensated me with extra time.

Now, I carry my own rubber. If we run into situation like this, I always have a back-up plan. However, I don't have an SO. So, no fear there. If you have fear of SO finding out, you might just have to throw them away or keep them well hidden.

My two cents.

Since I had squeeze my massive member into a regular sized condom that she brought.  If she has Mags I will use hers.

After a few bad experiences of having my cock feel like it was shot full of Novocaine in whatever little rubbers the girls had I bring my own Magnums.  I just set them on the dresser, usually as I'm going to clean up, and ask if she minds if we use what I've brought.

I haven't been refused yet.

.... I keep so many sizes, different thickness, brands etc i've yet to have a guy have a problem with mine. I'm never without a good amount of condoms. And usually if he does bring his own I already have it lol. Most don't bring their own to me anyways (maybe they figure I'm already prepared or should be.

Some providers actually call me in the middle of my drive to visit them telling me to bring condoms. I always bring condoms as a back up plan. I've had some experience where providers don't have any when I am there, and that's another story.

I always bring a specific type of condom because I like the fit. If I am there, and ask her to use my own, its usually no big deal. As long as its fresh, not wrinkled or smashed up, not expired, it should be fine. There shouldn't be any reason for a provider to decline your wish. If that may be the case, then she may feel uncomfortable with the safety of the condom. Or, some providers may not feel comfortable with the feelings of certain condoms--some don't like ribbed and so on. Usually, I never had a provider decline my wish.

It's chew I bet.

Nah I'm that thick

i dont mind if gentle men bring their own condoms... i have been in the business for many years and the whole thing about it is most ladies prefer if they are brand new still in the box ,not the wrapper, for somebody could puncture a hole through the pack and then the whole "no strings attached" goes out the window 9 months later,lol