Did she retire or move to another area?

Mea was one of my first ATFs when I began hobbying and we saw each other kinda regularly over the years.  We had a good hobby relationship so I thought.

So she annouces her retirement.  She specifically communicated to me that she will be doing some UTR sessions with select clients of which I was one.  OK, cool.  After a month or so in retirement I contact her and we arrange a meeting.  We were in planing for a week exchanging emails on locations, dates, and times.  Gvien she was no longer full-time providing she had to plan appropriately for logistics as it related to her new life not providing.

Got to the day before and the morning of the meeting Mea was communicating we are all good.  I had arranged the incall location given her "retirement" status.  I told her to make sure she confirms NLT noon on the day of the meeting that we are good before the check-in time.  I emailed her, as a last check, at least 4x from say 11:30 to 3:30 and did not get a response.  And I'm still waiting for her response today.  This happened about 7 months ago.

Her and I never had any issues during her career as a provider (don't know if I should change that to Hoe in the vain of the street walker type whose goal is to pull stunts and tricks) that I know of, or that she communicated to me.  So I dont know where her spirit to bullshit me like that for a week came from.  Apparently knowing all along that she was not going to show is perplexing.

I summize that she apparently left the hobby world bitter and pissed about something and her actions toward me was her way of pay-back on some level.  To this day I have not sent any pissed off, derogatory communications to her.  I simply cancelled the room at 3:55 and said "hmmmm, that experience was interesting."

During my time with her and knowing her she was a real sweetheart.  I guess she turned into the wicked witch of the west.  Oh Well........................Next!

I recall around the time she was retiring, a client posted something about paying in advance for her time and then she would cancel last minute. The client wasn't the sharpest tool in the shed because he went along with this BS maybe 6-8 times (cant remember number of times but remember laughing at his stupidity). She responded to the post but I remember thinking " take her out of my bucket list"

...I wonder what really happened to make her like that.

 Went from Sweet to Shit.

acting sweet and having a genuine sweet personality are two different things.

Tell me, if you had told her this and you had not heard from her why fucking get the room? Sounds like she had considered you wouldn't book a room since you told her to contact you no later than 12pm so WTF?

Like the story above goes, shit happens. And what's up with emailing when a text or a call might have been more efficient.

Maybe she wanted to burn the bridges behind her, I wish her the best and hope she is happy, and doesn't return.

Mea is now fully retired to the best of my knowledge.  It's been several months since I last saw her UTR.  She was dealing with some non-hobby issues that I think led to her retirement.

Are you serious?!?!  I'll try and contain my response as all you have is my side of the story and as they say there are always 3 sides to every story...My version, Her version, and the Truth.  Just by way of review and fact/s:

- Securing a room and cancelling a room is very easy to do and requires minimum effort.  So I secure the room in anticipation of us having the appointment.  As you note...shit happens so if by chance she or I can not make it just let me know and I'll cancel the room.  The point of all this is that she DID NOT let me know anything.  She NCNS!!  If "shit happened" just tell me.

- "Sounds Like?"  Fuck what it sounds like.  The facts are I clearly communicated that I had the room and I was all ready to go on my end.  Whatever missgivings she had she never communicated them to me.

- I Emailed because SHE DID NOT provide a phone number to contact her with.

- I totally get burning bridges behind her.  But don't do it like a 12 year old or coward.  You can easily burn a bridge with me by being an adult and tell me....

......"client x, I never really could see me myself liking you outside of you being a client and/or widget for these reasons ________________________ fill in the blank.  So please never call me or contact me in the future.  Done, no problem.

Since she did not do that and approached her bridge burning like a bitch.  Then I too hope she's very happy, wish her the best, and never returns again if she is going to practice business as she did before leaving/retiring and after said retirement.

Hell, if she came back tomorrow and offered freebies I would ignore it.

And BTW....what say you on her handling of taking the pre-pay money of one her clients before she retired?  I guess that was his fault too?!?!?!?

So no matter how you or her try to put the NCNS in my court some kinda way it wont pass the smell test.  It was bullshit on her part.

Don't you dolts know LEO reds this stuff? Mea was caught up in a bust of CDC, period.

opps...meant read, not red...

I tried to see her twice a couple of years ago. While she didn't technically NCNS, she did cancel at the last minute both times. From her later posts and messages, I determined that she had a class the first appointment, and shouldn't have scheduled the appointment in the first place. The second cancellation, turned out she got a better offer and spent the weekend in NY with one of you lucky gentlemen. But left me high and dry cancelling an hour before. Could have been worse.
Sent me a note asking if I wanted to reschedule and I decided I didn't want to get burned a third time.

that asks what providers do to not get caught at hotels. That's the first thing I thought of.

....and CDC stands for what? I know that it is not Center for Disease Control in this context. Thanks

She retired due to to really heavy personal issues. Nothing to do with LE