Well, I'm on a rant about no shows. So excuse my posting in advance.
Not long ago, I advertised on this board of a provider for an All DATY session. I got a few responses, although most of them did not fit the criteria -- most were not local -- and I was really looking for somebody in the area with whom I could sort of make this a somewhat regular thing with. Some just didn't fit my type either too old, no the right body type, or ethnicity for which I was looking (sorry ladies its just my preferences -- no offense)
But I finally found one, and after several calls, made arrangements to meet at her hotel in Virginia. She knew exactly what I was looking for and seemed eager. Even agreed to two hours of me performing oral on her. But after fighting rush hour traffic for almost an hour, after getting there and after sending her a text message as specified, she first said to hold on a minute as she was nervous about LE, and then after about 20 minutes of delays texted me back finally saying that her hotel was "crappy" and wanting to know if we could meet at an outcall of my choosing. Come on!
I debated a long time, but finally tried to post something on TER reviews, but to my astonishment, they don't post "no shows." (who knows maybe there's too many?) All I can say is it was a complete waste of my time. And given TER's review policy, I just had to vent somewhere.
Oh, I suppose I'll keep trying. Finding a local in the NOVA area that's Caucasian or Latina woman (again sorry, but its my preference) to orally worship for extended periods of time may just be a pipe dream, but it is the one thing I really enjoy. But don't flake out at the last minute or try to change the terms of the date.
Due to your preference, which I assume is even further limited if you have a budget (I am only inferring this is true due to the fact that your provider chose a “crappy” hotel to host from, which seems a bit odd if she’s in a rate range of $300+/ hr at this time of year where hotels are at moderate to low prices and you asked for a 2 hour appointment), a preference on schedule, and what you’re willing to do for screening with other providers.
You’re welcome to rant and although you cannot write a review because you never met, my understanding is you are able to name providers on the board. I personally don’t encourage this practice as I believe most people would happily resolve the situation on amenable terms in private. I may be mistaken but I would imagine most providers do care about making people happy and establishing a solid reputation by being dependable.
To her credit, she did ask if she could see you for an outcall even after shelling out the expense of a hotel- is that something you are not able to do?
Both providers and clients deal with no-shows and last minute cancels. It’s, unfortunately, a risk we have to take. Best wishes to you in finding someone who meets all of your criteria.
Sometimes things just don’t work out. For so many different reasons. By what you wrote it doesn’t sound like she intended to cancel. She probably sat in traffic showed up to the place with full intentions of keeping your date. The hotel she booked online turned out to be a dump. And she wasn’t comfortable. She called and communicated with you. Of course you are upset. It wasn’t the way you pictured things going. We are all human. If you are looking for someone to see regularly treat them as so and be understanding. Think of her as a friend who had a bump in the road. Maybe you could have found something else together as inconvenient as it might have been you may have found what you were looking for.
what are your parameters anyway? it might be a good idea to post all of the particulars in your iso post...
for example: locals only, caucasian or latina, age range, body type, etc, etc, etc,
also, what do you consider local? the whole DMV area is fairly local, yet not ...
Do daty
I personally love daty and zip some wine or mimosas at the same time
