I booked my first visit with this absolutely gorgeous woman for later this week.  Something that only a few days ago I would never have thought about.

It's an amusing story how this all came about.  I was spending time with a good guy friend of mine ("J") on Friday night.  J's totally straight and I'm definitely not.  We're snowed in and bored, and while I was on the phone he was surfing the net looking at various ads of womens.  He's keeping up a running commentary on them--really amusing stuff--and I glance over now and again.  Nothing really catches my eye because these photos are shot to appeal to guys naturally; not to women.  But then, he clicks on this link and there's these photos of this incredible woman.  We both stop talking in mid-sentence.  Our jaws drop.  I don't know how long I was standing there mute, but finally I told my friend I'd call her later and hung up.  I said to J, "Who IS that woman?"  J tells me he doesn't know, but he'll find out.  So he goes here to TER to look up reviews.  We only have a guest account and start reading.  Everyone raves about her.  She's amazing.  We find out she's leaving town soon and I ask J if he would go visit her and see if she's the real deal.  He laughs and says he only likes to look.  He couldn't afford to visit her and his gf would kill him if he got caught.

So I go home.  I find her website and I'm looking at her again.  I start looking at other websites to convince myself that there are other women out there just as good and it's ridiculous to focus on this one woman, or to consider going for her services.  I sleep on it and on Saturday I finally decide to shoot off an email asking if she takes women and if she's available later this week.  I think there's nothing about the site that suggests that possibility.  She's classy and obviously in high demand.  I figure I'd receive no answer or a polite no, and that was that.

Earlier today, I got a response.  Yes.  She's available for later this week for the day/time I want.

It's impossible for me to turn her down.  I give them all the info they want from me and I book it.  I got a membership on TER to see what kind of things she does and likes.  I even ask what gifts she'd like.  But I thought about that for some time and instead of chocolates, wine, flowers etc. for a woman who I've not yet met...I've decided to get her a spa certificate for one of the best, most in-demand day spas in the city; one that two of my friends on the Hill rave about it.  I am fairly certain she'll enjoy the gift.

So why am I posting this...because I can't tell my friends and I really want to tell someone.  I can't even tell J--he'd tease me about it forever.  He knows I can get women, and usually better looking ones then his (as he always like to complain about).

There is just something about this woman.  I am nervous but elated to meet her.  I really hope she is honest about liking women and not simply enduring it for the fee.  That is my only fear.  

I'd rather not say who it is or when I'm meeting her...partly because I am selfish and don't want someone to book her and maybe bump me off!    Also, because I don't want anyone pestering her about this, and I don't know if accomodating women is something she would necessarily want advertised.

But for couples and women, if you find someone you like and even if it's not advertised or implied, I think it's worth asking if they are open-minded.  You never know.  

I'll probably write later on how the visit went.  I don't think I'll publish a review.  She's got plenty of excellent ones and doesn't need one from me on this subject (though I imagine the interest level on that would be high!  Sorry guys.)

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girlndc-i think all of us out here have wondered whether any obviously hot babes consider what you are planning.  i always thought why not, most others say i'm way wrong on that point.  have an awesome time - with no expectations.

If you are writing this and it is true.. i wish you the best of luck and please inform us either privatly or publically on how everything went.
The members of TER went out of there way to post reviews on this individual for you to gather information to make a edicated desesion (sorry sp) it would be nice if you would do the same for others.

The reason why i am having trouble beliving this is. There is no reason not to publish her name here if her reviews are so good other than try to tease us into wanting to know more information on this provider.

I believe that you are a provider trying to build high anticipation levels for yourself from us.

There is no other reason to tease us in a public forum with out giving us facts or details.

You yourself said you joined TER to get more information on this provider . Everyone on this board did the same as well to get info on providers.

If you are for real, and do see her, please do us all a favor, and post a review.

Thank you

Two girl action?  If she is available with another provider, it is answered there, either she is bi- really into it, or the answer is don't know, otherwise, no - not available for that service.  If she isn't then it would be implicitly stated on her website (as in, I do not entertain couples or women).

If you have a good time, maybe you should ask her if she minds you writing a review of her, after all... who else are you going to tell!  lol

xoxox
Anik

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I love working from home on a winter day.  So far, the replies have been interesting.  

- Cap, thank you, I am really looking forward to meeting my provider (now that I know the correct lingo to use on the board...though I got to say, it sounds so clinical, like an HMO PCP!).  I'm suppose to get a call later today regarding arrangements--after my screening checks out, I presume.

- Tan, nice try to get me to spill the goods.  I was rather amused to see you try the reverse logic that *NOT* telling a provider's name is advertising but then ask me to reveal the name (and how is that not advertising?)  Yes, I think the TER reviews were helpful and I paid my $20 to get them.  I'm aware you guys post so you can exchange information, and that's been helpful for me to know that this particular woman is as beautiful as her photos and seems to be pretty sincere and friendly.  However, her performance and most of her activities with the men isn't relevant to me, and I believe that her performance with me, good or bad, shouldn't be relevant for the guys.  There's alot of things that are done differently, and there's a big psychological difference between the two.  I think, (and I speak from my distant and limited experience with threesomes in college, and no, I don't do those anymore) even being with a couple is very different than being with a girl or guy alone.  

- Anik, thanks for the tip.  I think that's very helpful for a woman or a couple who is looking for someone who they know will be open to it, experienced and hopefully enthusiastic.  I did say before my biggest concern I have about this woman:  Will she be into it or is it something she'll only tolerate?  I really hope she won't disappoint.  As you saw from my story, I wasn't out searching for a woman...I don't do too bad on my own in the dating scene.  It was simply a moment of serendipity, where I saw this woman I want and now I'm out to fulfill my fantasy of having her.

Interestingly, I found out this woman has "No" listed.  So I don't know if that's a mistake or if she doesn't do shows but will entertain a female client.  So I think my advice for couples and women still apply:  If you find someone you like, it doesn't hurt to ask.  If you want to be sure on a yes on enthusiasm and experience, use Anik's tip.

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You wouldn't happen to have room for a guy there also would you? If not, I'd love to be a fly on the wall.

clue, leavingtown soon.if i guess will you tell me?

This is fun.
I would love to see some women writing reviews - very hot.
I don't know if it's for real or not, I'm having fun just thinking about it though.  Woohoo!

After you see her you can give us a hint who she is. If she's leaving Town then it won't matter, will it?

Got to thank you guys, it's fun reading your replies.  Glad you're enjoying these postings as well.

Update thus far:  I passed screening but was asked if I could bump up the session till later so she could have dinner.  I think I committed a faux pas by asking if she wished, I would be happy to take her to dinner as well.  Anyplace she would like that I could find (or bribe for) a reservation.  A few hours have passed and no response.  So I'm a bit anxious, but I figure it's not so outrageous that I'd lose my time with her (at least I hope not).  Is it not completely obvious I'm totally new to this whole thing?  In some ways, I feel like I'm 15 again with a crush on the tennis cutie in the locker room.  *sigh*  I'm still debating if I should just bring myself or bring along a few items of the sort I like to share with my more adventurous girlfriends.  I think I'll bring it to be prepared, but I won't expect anything.  It could be a little much for her.

To answer your questions:  
- I'll post an update after the visit, but it won't be that explicit.  It's just not my style and I know that because all my straight guy friends are always disappointed I don't dish all the dirt (who says women are the only gossips!)
- For what I'm paying, I am definitely going to enjoy my one-on-one private time with this gorgeous woman.  Numb, I suggest you take Anik's advice if you want to watch some girl-on-girl action.
- Looks to me like there's alot of providers in/out of DC constantly.  You can guess who, but I don't plan on revealing her name unless I get very clear signs that she really likes women and would like that advertised.  She certainly isn't hurting for business, so I don't feel bad not saying who she is--and well, I still haven't met her yet so who knows.  What's wrong with a little mystery?  Does it make you guys that crazy to wonder?  


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Curious - how much time did you book? Sounds sweet - I feel like it's my first date every time - mostly because it is my first date with the one I book.

The guys could spend days guessing since there are so many visiting providers - let them all go crazy. However, it's not so much as a kiss and tell issue. The purpose of TER is to assist others in making a decision such as you did by joining. And if she already has reviews, then we would only hope you would help others make a conscientious decision from your providing insight and information from your encounter.

I don't think you made a mistake offering dinner - if your date is a busy girl - then don't expect a response even in a few hours. E-mail happens to be the slowest means to communicate - especially when it comes to this. Wait has got to be driving you crazy - hehehe - this is a good feeling isn't it.

Good Luck - Enjoy the experience - and the next time you need help finding out about a provider - come here first - there are many who are willing and able to help with the research.


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Slipry, I booked 4 hrs.  I know this is going to seem outrageously long to you guys, but even back when I use to shamelessly seduce married women on my lunch hour...that hour always went long--and still felt unsatisfyingly short.  Four hrs is what I need to build a repoire and have a satisfying experience.  I was happy to see I was charged the same rate as any guy, as I was afraid I'd be charged more as an "extra" (it is the G.W. Bush era after all).  

Which brings me to your excellent point about posting a review.  I might if I think she would like it.  What may interest you to know is I find the guys review overly graphic yet lacking intimate details.  This may seem like a contradiction at first, but I've had lots of graphic talks with guys and with women and it really is different what we focus on and care about.  For instance, I'm not so interested in that a girl did X, Y and Z in this order in these three different positions.  I care about stuff that probably means very little to you guys.  If I were to be intimate with a woman, I would want to know her scent, the sweetness of her taste, is she an aggressor (top) or passive (bottom) or both (switch), whether my arm or my tongue would go numb pleasing her or is she a multi, is she a G-spot or clit girl, does she try to fake it (yeah they do and I can tell, but I never call a girl on it...I take the extra time to figure out how to get it right!) or is it real, is she vocal or not, is she enthusiastic, what are her limits and what are her fantasies, is she a soaker or should I pack some lube, does she play with toys and what does she like/have experience with and as a giver or a receiver?  Lots of questions like that.  And it means alot more to me she has an open-mind and is enthusiastic than whether she's good at a particular act.  If it isn't obvious, my pleasure is very centered on satisfying her.  This includes really wanting to know the little things beyond the physical, like: her favorite flowers, her music stations, what she's allergic to, whether she's a cat or dog person, her favorite chocolate, ice cream or other indulgence, whether she's a beach or pool person, her favorite cuisines and so much more.

What can I say...if I write a review I am sure you guys would be scratching your heads going, who cares about half this stuff?  But one thing I did find handy from the reviews:  I know she's an enthusiastic receiver.  Means I'll keep the tongue ring in and I have a cool lil vibrating one I'll keep in my bag.  Have had rave reviews on that particular piece of jewelry.

lol
i will give it this, This thread has peeked curiosity in a unusual way. There is a mystery about allways fanatsizing about the unknown.. with which allways wants me to keep coming back, and back and back for more and more and more.

So i am at least hooked on daydreaming about your experience that you are going to have.   This is not a bad thing

At least for are own personal fantasy purposes please keep us informed on your up and coming adventure.
Best of luck to you

Tanman

It is what I hoped - you should review from you heart - not what we guys would write. This would benefit others like you. And to be honest - it would add flavor to her reviews. Well, if I could afford a 4 hour encounter - I'm afraid I would become to emotionally involved and would probably be on my hands and knee proposing marriage. But, it is much better when as you describe you have the time to find each other.

Did she take you up on the offer of dinner? Or even respond for that matter as I know you were concerned. Looking forward to hearing more - thanks.

So I see her on Thursday.  I'm going away for a three-day weekend, which means I'll post maybe Thursday night or Friday morning (depending on how much energy I have left!).  Or if I'm off daydreaming....  

I can see how 4 hrs with her would be dangerous.  But that's how it is with women: half the pleasure is in the intimacy.  The best sex is also very emotionally intense in a way I can't really describe.  But, I think I've been around the block enough that I think I can keep it down to mere infatuation.  

Slipry, I received a hesitant response on dinner that usually this wasn't done for first time clients.  Had I pressed maybe they would have said yes, but I decided not to push my luck.  After all, I am spending the entire evening with her and she may get tired of me!  I imagine the ladies often prefer their downtime alone, much as I do.  And--there is always next time.  Strange to me how I'm already considering it.

I finally capitulated and told my buddy J.  He's such a boy slut.  He begged to watch or at least for me to smuggle a camera (and exactly where would I hide THAT when I'm naked??) to take photos.  If he keeps pestering me, I'm tempted to say yes then take the camera and find the most disgusting shots I can find:  some guy's hairy armpit, his dog's rear end, online medical pics of disgusting advanced signs of diseases, stuff like that.  I do looove playing pranks on J.  He's such a sucker for them.

I'll volunteer for a picture - my hairy ass - hehehe.. You should not hurry is posting your review or replying to our curiosity as the experience will take some time to settle in. I know it will be a good one as your writing skills are apparent.

I can offer you an opportunity to experience this again - come along with me on one of my sessions at not cost nor need to reciprocate to me - I would love to see you engaged with one of my sweetie - just a thought. Oh, and you could bring J but he would have to be bound to a chair as I can't afford the extra for him - LOL

Considering your offer

Slipry, I admire your ability to ask that question in a way that made me laugh.  As you can imagine, a LOT of guys (including J) have asked for something similiar.  I won't bore you with all my previous exploits, only to say it's rare that I enjoy "putting on a show."  

You already know I'm not an hour kind of gal and yeah, I don't do anything with guys.  I feel the same way about a guy touching me as you would about a guy touching you (presuming you are straight).  I'm also particular about my tastes in women and I really prefer being with a woman who is enthusiastic and experienced.  

That all being said...if you can keep your hands off me and want to put down the cash for 2hrs with a provider I really like with a track record with women (and I'm pretty certain they charge extra for that!), then yeah, I would consider it.  My guess it'd be cheaper for you to buy a 2 girl show for an hr and you'd also be able to do whatever you like with both the girls.  So you might want to consider the bang for your buck.  Oh yeah, and how do you know I'm as cute as one of these providers?  I could be just a normal looking Jane.  Maybe plain, even.  Eye-poppingly ugly?  Who knows.   It amuses me you'd make the offer not knowing a thing about what I look like (unless you count the tongue ring).  

Plus side:  J wouldn't be there, chair or not.  Poor guy is going to be left out in the cold.  He only gets to hear about my adventures.  His gf would kill me if I got him into trouble.

If you are still interested, tell me and I'll send you an email.

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Re:Considering your offer

Of course I'm interested. But as you know accounting and budget management, the offer would have to wait until my tax return came - LOL... And as for knowing your looks, of course I don't have a clue what you look like. But, that doesn't matter to me as much as knowing you might enjoy the experience.

I have enjoyed our conversation so far. I hope you enjoy your date tomorrow.

Slipry, good man on giving the right answer and be willing to break the piggy bank.  I have a short list I'll email you about and maybe we can post a request too.  There could be providers who don't advertise their experience and interest in women/couples, but would be willing to let us know via post or email that they'd be up for meeting up with us odd couple.  Let me give you a heads up that seeing two women together for real is very very different than the usual vids you guys watch (which amuse me to no end how fake and unreal they are) or the minimum exposure I've had to "two girl" type shows (also looks fake to me) they flash up on Jerry Springer type shows on TV and in the movies.  I think the real thing is alot hotter but hey, I'm biased.

Oh, and you got lucky.  I'm not hideously ugly.  And I really do enjoy spending time with a woman.