is lushcares legit? She claims to have TER reviews but can’t seem to find her

and that should be provided on her site, not some BS quoted review that are claimed to be TER Reviews (which would also be something of a violation of the terms as TER reviews are supposed to be for TER VIP account, not the general public.

When selecting services, it's crucial to proceed with caution, especially in the case of Lush Caress, also known as Emily Rosilyn and Emily Shaw. While her website may boast glowing reviews, let’s take a moment to consider a few key points that warrant your attention.
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Firstly, the absence of any reviews on TER is concerning. This lack of third-party feedback raises a significant red flag. Trusting reviews solely listed on a provider's website can often lead to disappointment, as they may not reflect an accurate picture. Remember, TER is able to impose controls only on providers who post on their site, which Ms. Caress has not done.
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Prioritize your safety and satisfaction by seeking out providers with credible reviews and a solid reputation. Choose wisely!

Messaged her on signal she gave me 🌹 etc. I asked for her ter # no response.

Seems to be a phony who's avoiding scrutiny.