Posted By: Vanica
Even if she is a provider, if you can't find her ad then she is unavailable to you.
Also, she might just be a trophy wife or a fitness model. Thinking she is an escort, because he seen her at the mall or whatever sounds strange. Also, I know people who live less than 1 mile from me and I never run into them or see them. You sound a little stalkerish.
Kisses,
Vanica
Actually, Vanica, it was the XXXXXXX lobby for 59 minutes before they went up to the room (which is, as I understand it, is an option a lot of providers offer, drinks and then private time), and it was two different guys within hours of each other at the local watering hole. I'm also not the only one who believes she's a provider, as I overheard some hotel staff make a passing reference.
I wasn't attempting to be stalkerish. To be perfectly honest, she's not my type (I prefer my ladies a little more natural, but that's my personal preference), but my friend went a little gaga over her, and I was looking to help a brother out. He's seen her a few times, and is a big fan.
Sorry. Just a newbie looking to help someone out. Wasn't aware I'd said or done something inappropriate.
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this added detail of having observed her business for hours and discussing her line of work with hotel staff is not helping your case. the newly added detail of it being to help a brother doesn't help if folks don't believe it.
ask yourself a question: why would a lady in the biz want to have anything to do with a guy (or his bro) who camp out where she does her business? it's maybe not adequately careful on her part if she were to deal with you. ladies want you to come FROM SOMEPLACE ELSE and then GO AWAY. any other behavior is likely to be regarded as possibly stalkerish.
her clients may even decide that if she might have a stalker (i.e. you or your bro) they might not want to see her until she changes location.
yes, sensitivities in the hobby can get that keen.
You stayed in the lobby long enough to see all of this go on?! Seriously dude, this is fucked up. For all you know the guy could have been her brother, cousin, coworker, friend....whichever! She might be interviewing for a new job. She might be a licensed CMT who does not offer Full Service! It doesn't matter. IMHO This is completely inappropriate.
Link for stalking state laws.
I thought he said he was at the watering hole (bar) Many are right off the lobby. I don't think he talked to the Staff, he overheard. That's scary in itself knowing she is likely to be turned in to local LE and they may have been sitting at the same watering hole as him observing the same thing.
I understand what he had hopes for, but seriously this is like finding a needle in the proverbial hay stack.
I only hope she reads the boards and notices this thread and moves on. Oh for that sake I wonder how many other ladies are now paranoid and moving from their hotels. All those who go down to the lobby to meet a client on an hourly basis are looking for trouble, and they found it here.
