Tough question. I have run into a few reluctant, shy gals in my massage parlor days, which left me feel a little morally quesy. But I do believe that, by restricting myself to independents (mostly but not all Asians) I am with girls who've chosen this life to make a lot of money quickly without working terribly hard. Some do it  for tragic reasons (sick mother, etc.), some fore foolish reasons (they borrowed too much from the Korean Yakuza and now must serve an indentureship to pay it back) and some for silly reasons (they're shallow, not particularly morally oriented, like the travel and flirting, don't mind the sex, like the clothes they spend too much on, etc)  But nowhere in my adventures have I met a girl who seemed forlorn, downcast, secretly depressed. But of course I don't WANT to meet that girl, so I'd talk myself out of what my eyes saw if I ever did.  In the end, they don't call it the oldest profession for nothing; it'll always be here. So my deal with the devil is to try and buy some recompense by always being decent, courteous, generous and amiable with the girls, never trying to dominate, never trying to manipulate, accepting with good grace the particular No that comes of this request or that. I'm not sure what else can be done.