Do you have to know a certain password or a secret handshake or something to get this girl to call you back? I've been leaving her messages off and on now for at least a month and not received a single phone call in return. WTF?? If somebody can give me a heads up it'd be greatly appreciated. Thanks...
Those who are highly sought after have a difficult time managing return calls. If they are unable to get back or have already a booked schedule, it is unlikely they will call back.
If you don't specify the time or tell them to call anytime, usually after an hour or so you shouldn't expect a call back - that is a courtesy to you. They do not want to call at bad time and some believe you have probably already moved on to the next on the list.
My first experience of this was with Sexy-Sarah. I called left messages and did this religiously for several weeks - that was because those who went before me said patience and persistence would be rewarded. I did see others in the mean time and also knew if I had an attitude about this it wouldn't be worth bringing to the meeting. Well, my persistence paid off. She appreciated my understanding that her schedule and popularity made it difficult for her to see everyone that called let alone call them back. My session with her was outstanding because I didn't come at her with my attitude of how it is not a good business practice to not call back.
Carmen, well, that was too easy for me. She too is highly sought after and she limits her work. But, timing for me was better then most. She too appreciated my understanding and it showed her her performance and attitude...
Robin is another story - not one I've tried to see - yet.
So, if it really bothers you, move on. There are many out there and sooner or later one will call you back. If you can get over the attitude of no return calls, be persistent and try starting out with her, give it an hour, then move on.
Good Luck - Happy Hobbying - Merry Christmas - and a Safe New Year
Now when I call she knows me and it's much easier to get in to see her. And what a woman!!!
I think the trick is to try a few times, but don't overdo it. Back off for awhile then try a few times again a couple months later. Eventually they recognize you as someone who has been patient and they actually feel sorry they haven't taken care of you yet. Push too hard or too persistently and they see you as an asshole who they want to avoid.
If you call a business and they don't return phone calls they miss out on you, not the other way around.
I admit that phone calls are a bit harder to follow up on and encourge that someone as well e-mail me if they can. I try to reply to ever e-mail I receive and return phone messages as promptly as I can. Often if I do not return a phone call it is because the message is very vague, I could not make out the phone number because of static or the message is lude or inappropriate.
Anyone who has been a part of or run a successful business knows that communication and keeping yourself available for contact is vital.
Sometimes, when someone calls that I know and it is too late to call, I send an e-mail to acknowledge the message and that I received it. I want to make a gentleman feel wanted, desired and special. That is not accomplished by ignoring them. Playing really hard to get is something for virgins in high school. LOL
And wish everyone held such standards in business. One of these days I'll have to call you out on this one.. I've tried talking to you before on post's, but think you are still upset with me for my mistake with the M&G invitation...
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