Rarely is there a woman I regularly visit. I'm still relatively new to this compared to most so for me there's a thrill in seeing new women.
However, I saw Rachel from Elite 4-5 times over two years, which I consider a lot since she would only visit our area a few times a year. She was awesome at creating chemistry. I see that in the reviews of her from other guys too. She hasn't been back this year and I am learning to accept the loss of perhaps never seeing her again.

Share your stories of loss below...

Yeah, Rachel was really good, and your ATF leaving the business always sucks. Mine did as well. The NOVA Kgirl bros that know me know who mine is/was. One of a kind in many ways and for me personally.

Now, not to get into a one-upmanship, but rather my way of patting a fellow monger bro on the back and trying to make you feel better:

You know what else sucks? When you see a girl once, and the girl and the session were so fucking good you couldn't wait to repeat, but you never got the chance to again before she left and never came back. The girl in question was Alice at Moon Palace. Schedules didn't align, IIRC I had to go out of town for work and when I got back she was gone, never to return.

Consider also: the feeling of loss that never was - a girl that you REALLY WANTED TO but you never got to see - Tomomi.

I won't expound here but for those in the know, there are external circumstances that make it highly unlikely either Alice or Tomomi will ever return to the DC area.

SUCKS.

Let us commiserate, my monger brothers....

I won't name names, but I have been (and partly am) in the same situation. I know that they moved on with their lives, and I am genuinely happy for them. It would be so good to spend some time with them again though. I know. I know.
The way to handle this is to ponder: would you drop everything you have built in your life, divorce your wife, leave town and ask her to marry you? If the answer is no, you have the solution to your problem right there.

I thought at first reading the title that she died or something...  

 
If you can't accept the fact that you won't be able to see a hooker, you are not cut out for mongering.. She's a hooker man.. Not a  soulmate.. Not your friend.. Not your family..  

 
My loss story is the time I lost reading this drivel and answering it, for which I "apologize".

chill out dude. its a discussion forum. ya fuckin dork

Dork is the cutest thing anyone has ever said to me...

 
That's cute..

the biggest dick

I've been seeing my gorgeous, UTR regular for four years now, once every two or three weeks.  She informed me two weeks ago that she had suddenly gotten engaged and had retired immediately.  We had really gotten to know each other over the years and had developed an amazing chemistry together.  While I feel a profound sense of loss, I also recognize that it's best for her to get married and move on with her life.  Loss, I've learned, is the essence of life.  Everything is temporary, so our ability to cope with loss will largely determine our ability to cope with life.

Listen to Curly!!  And, quote Snoop Dog, "...We don't  love these Hoes..."  And, I don't care what form they come in, Sugar Babies, etc..

These Bishes DGAF about no trick!!  Full disclosure,  I know from experience.  I caught feelings for on before.  Dumb, Dumb, and even Dumber.  NEVER DO THAT!!!

Bust in the bag and on to the next!!

If I read "bust in the bag" one more time Imma claw my eyes out

Don't worry. Give it a year or 2 and she'll be back.

Funny lol