Hello Everybody,

We all have our preferences, as I am sure you do.  It is our bodies and have a right to see who we want to see and feel comfortable with.  If a man has a choice who he wants to see, why would'nt a woman have the same right without being called a racist.!  Btw, I see black men, as long as they pass my screening and are good guys!  Just very narrow minded point of view to automatically call someone a racist.!  It is our bodies, keep that in mind!

Recently I was chatting with a provider after a session, and I commented generally about security.  She is a lady who travels and stays at hotels.  She told me that someone once robbed her and then left her tied up in a hotel bathtub.  That someone happened to be black, and she said that she now refuses to see all black men.  Is that racist?  Yes, I think so, because based on one individual's actions she categorized an entire group of people.  It wasn't nasty racism, it wasn't hate for hate's sake, it wasn't hating people just because they are different, but she had a terrifying incident and had a sadly human reaction.  She seems like a really nice person, but a really crappy thing that was done to her is now echoing forward and undoubtedly hurting others.

Her view is black men dont know how to treat women, especially those under 30.  
They have little respect or interest in how women think, need or want in relationships.

it is your money, as we are often told, so you see who you want to see, it is my BODY, so I see who I want to see!  Really little difference.

It's all about stereotypes- I'm a black man, and I adore and respect women...professional, educated, good looking, and...humble? (Lol)...but to some, there's no distinction between me and "Peanut" who wants $40 short stays, and is just waiting for an opportunity to rob you- it's all good, though- if you don't want to see me, I don't want to see you, because if you're uncomfortable, so am I, but you get your fee anyway, so I'm the only "loser" in this scenario  

Love,
It seems you think he was talking to you, as you seemed to have jumped out of a phone booth with your cape on, lol......

I'd suggest you see Affirmative action Agnes.

Thanks everybody for your feedback on this. It was kind of a shock to the system but I can understand preferences, especially with every one having the right to choose who they share their bodies with.

....and if you know this has been discussed many times you should look at those previous discussions for those many reasons that have been discussed over and over and over and over and over.  

Ypu should have at least 5-10 reviews before u can make a comment....with anything less than 5 reviews....u aint been here long enough to make a comment....rookie!

I recall a conversation I had with a young lady some time ago.

the "personal preference" angle, but if you'll see any Tom, Dick, and Harry, as long as they aren't black, that preference is rooted in prejudice- just call it what it is, no need to sugar coat it...bottom line is, there's more than likely someone of equal caliber, who wouldn't mind taking "our" money

You are confusing the word "lady" with the word "woman".

or was that you using the GGERS......Tell the truth and shame the devil

read Ssweed's response in this thread if you can not interpret what was said.

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As a man of color in this curious recreation of ours I can tell you I've been turned away a handful of times because of it. On the other hand I've enjoyed the company of hundreds of ladies for whom it was no impediment at all.   My advice--move on.  It's her body and she can choose what she wants to do with it and with whom using any criteria she pleases. And she owes no one any explanation.   Even if she is a stone racist so what?   Even if she has read too many BS crime statistics so what? Even if it's just a simple preference based on appearance so what? Plenty of other fish in the sea.

What's the problem??  If a hobbyist can deliver VERIFICATION and willing to spend the Dough... What does it matter what race they are....  

personally I just do not care...

I can go through the ones in Columbia, SC today and see all the restrictions.  
I understand age....but the age only applies to black men, hahaha and is not universal across race which trips me out.  

Now I have another reason to never visit that state, the code 420 friendly, so that means she will see black men, holy smokes, all you black  men smoke the Ganja too....LOL..

Well one lady who I talked to claimed it was a size issue when I asked her about this restriction.

I have friends from both races who are highly intelligent and very professional, doctors and engineers to name a few.
They are Black and Hispanic men who are respectful towards women.  

Or her dad, even.

It was meant as a more humorous take on the subject. Ohh well I guess I'm not that funny.

Freedom of choice! It's our money we buy what we want. I have never  and will never buy a Korean car. I have always owned something German. I will and that is just a fact. Is it racist, no. At least no in my opinion. I like the way they look I will even comment on. Them but I won't spend my money on one.  I have bought a few American Cars in in my life I have one now and I have two German car that sits beside it in the garage. I'm just the opposite when it comes to motorcycles. It has to be Italian or American. The Germans and Japanese don't even get looked at.

This is a topic that comes up quite a bit, here is a post I submitted a couple of months ago...the reasons vary but, I think these are more reasons that people fail to think of. personally, I don't worry about anyone who isn't interested in seeing me...what for? There are too many that respect and like black men. There are guys who aren't interested in seeing black companions...do I care-no...there are too many who LOVE chocolate. You shouldn't concern yourself with racist girls or small minded, jaded ladies of the night. Just my 2 cents!!! Hope the link works!!!

You should take a step back, and think about what you are saying.

Brilliant, and I usually don't see black companions when hobbying, that's for my interracial cravings.

London Rayne says no men over 6 inches and I have seen ads where ladies say no men over 250 pounds. I guess that means London only fucks Asian and Irish guys and the other one is anti older white guy!

I'm not for regulating shit.

We do not live in a perfect world!!! I see posts where a guy will say looking for a provider and describe age, hair, preferences and then NOT African American. I don't care. Really! I don't take the time to think why, or what his reasoning is. Its his preference. Him being bias doesn't change how I feel about me. Every time I see one of these posts with a chocolate man crying about some chick who won't see him for money-not a REAL date, but for business reasons. I think " so what! "
Move on...there are plenty of girls that will see you. Why are you stuck on a particular one that won't. However cute she may be-there is one cuter who WILL see you and TAKE your money!!!

huh?  

African American ain't a race either....but I know people mean black, hahaha. A white person could be AA....but I don't think the girls are excluding them, lol.  

I totally understand your point, BUT at the end of the day a preference is a preference regardless if it is slightly  veiled by racism. Lets be honest here and stop all the politically correct answers and people acting as if the elephant isn't in the room. Black guys get a bad reputation for violence and being low ballers. In this industry most of the clients are white. So to be honest a girl can decline to see men of color without it hurting her overall intake. Do I think its rooted in racism? Sure I do. I have had a bad incident with a white, red-headed man in DC. Did it make me put a banner on my ad declining business from white guys? No, because they are the biggest consumers.

This is racist, any time one makes a decision based on race it is racist! Additionally, this attitude is racist because it implies that skin color is an indication of character -- and we all know that is not so -- no all white men are good guys, not all men are good guys. What happened to judging people by who they are?

But has anyone thought that maybe its not that the girl is RACIST, but that HER PIMP wont allow her to see "BLACK MEN" cause he himself is Black, and she is obviously attracted to Black Men! So there is less chance of her finding a boyfriend and leaving him to pay his own bills. Im sure thats not the case with ALL, but Im quit sure that explains many!  

OK, I'll probably get flamed, but I'll posit that there is truth in stereotypes.
We all need to manage our risks in various ways.  And here's a stat that affects that management.
White men commit violent crime about 8-10 times more than white women (on average, as a group).  Men are more dangerous on average than women, this is why providers screen etc.
Black women commit about the same amount of violent crime per capita as white men.
Black men commit violent crime about 8-10 times more than black women or white men (per capita, on average, as a group).
SO, black men commit violent crime about 60-100 times more than white women.
Similar results obtain when analyzing based on age.
Restricting young men, and black men could be viewed as a sensible way of managing risk, given the facts.