I typically don't rant or rave on the discussion boards, I believe it's a place where we have fun, inform each other and allow providers to update us on their whereabouts.  I've tried to contribute a lot of support and help to whoever needs it, not to be treated unfairly in return.  I'm seriously tired of driving to a provider's incall location to be ignored when I call upon arrival, have me wait 40 minutes to an hour after our designated appointment time, or simply be rude to me over the phone.  Providers... please practice better business etiquette, and have the common courtesy to call a man if you're unable to fulfill his appointment.

This young lady is the perfect example, and no it's not because she's a CL girl, i was recommended to her by a reviewed lady here on TER.

http://washingtondc.craigslist.org/nva/ads/1760614820.html

You know as well as I that there is no where to go with this. Thre is no liscensing authority or governing body. Sometimes we have got to take one right on the chin.

As an experienced reviewer you should know that you will most likely wait. Sometimes the wait time is reasonable 5-15 min. Others the time is unrealistic. I always expect to wait. I almost always experience a wait of some sort. Just as long as they dont discount it from my time. It has happened and that is why I dont use certain agencies anymore. Just as time is money for the girls. Well, time is money for the hobbyist also.

The only prudent thing to do is to bring it to the attention of the hobbying community. I hope she did make it up to you behind closed doors.



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Rule number one: Do not see a girl who lists a phone only for contact.

These girls answer the phone only whent they are not sucking and fucking

they invite multiple callers to "come on down" when they are not "busy"

whoever gets their first and does not make them uncomfortable gets invited in....

and she ignores the phone til she's done with him.

And I would suggest rule number two: Do not see a girl who has ONLY a CL or BP ad.

Do not make the mistake of expecting the same professionalism from these girls as from well reviewed GFE providers.  

Sometimes you will connect and some of them are fun - I've reviwed several. But you have to know what you are dealing with.

And while your at it, do not tar the more professional class of providers with the same brush.

If you're going to shop at K Mart you might find some good deals now and again but you have to be willing to put up with the lines at the register lol....

Good information for everyone on how the other half lives.
Thank you for taking time to spell it out for everybody.

You can't tell in advance if she will stand you up at the last minute but any rude behavior before the meeting is an immediate scratch-off in my mind.  That's when she should be at her nicest to close the sale so I assume it will only go down hill from there.

Good responses to the initial post.  But I have to admit, its a real pleasure to deal with those providers that are professional beforehand and meet appointed times, etc.  It also sets the right tone upon meeting.  I can think of 2 or 3 that I have reviewed that would be great businesswomen in any walk of life with their attention to detail and focus on professional service on the business end.  And that's one reason why I see them again ... and again....and again ; )

I appreciate everybody's response and input on my post.  My intention wasn't to taint the professional providers as well, so I apologize if I came off that way; although I have been done wrong by well reviewed providers as well.  I see someone mentioned something about me being a bargain hunter, that may be true, but aren't we all?  I'm sure most of us have cruised bp and cl and found a diamond in the rough here and there because it's just one of those days where you really need a release, but don't feel like spending $$$$.  Just because a provider sounds rude over the phone doesn't mean she's going to provide a bad session, I've seen girls that were rude over the phone but went through with the appointment and provided a great session.  All I'm trying to say is there is room for improvement for some providers and they should pay attention to it, and have the courtesy to call and cancel an appointment if they're not available, or simply don't feel like seeing anybody.

There is something out there called VALUE. It goes for stocks, bottles of wine and even providers. I have had incredible experiences with $260 girls and I have had very dissapointing sessions with girls that cost over a thousand dollars per hour.

You get what you pay for is nothing more than juat another cliche. Like the bigger they are the harder they fall, or what goes up must come dow, etc. You get the picture.