Just as a lady has the right to refuse seeing any gentleman she pleases, You have the right to do the same.
I went to see a lady who was NOTHING like her pics, I mean not the same girl and when I saw her I said I'm sorry you're not who I expected. She gave some story about why that happened and I apologized and said I can't stay. On the way back to the car the booking guy called to call me names, etc. and I said You lied to me. He told me I'd be blacklisted with them and I responded "Man why would I call you again after you lied to me this time? A second time it was an indy and while it was her she was a shadow of what she advertised herself to be online. I apologized to her and said I could not stay, but I did give her 1/2 of her fee as I felt bad.
It cuts both ways too.
I happen to be non-caucasian but if you spoke with me on the phone you would never know unless I told you. Any lady who has talked with me can confirm this. Personally I don't know what sounding "white" is like, but I digress. Many years ago I called and set an appointment with a lady and had a great conversation with her prior to our "date" My references were solid, I followed all her instructions, etc. When I arrived at the door she opened it and I got the "deer in the headlights" look. I could tell she had no clue. I said, "This is going to be a problem isn't it?", to which she replied, "I'm sorry I didn't know." I turned around and left. A second time, I got to the door after booking on the phone and I heard her walk to the door, gasp and then not open the door while I stood there. Again I walked away.
Both are true stories and I chose to not post or complain even though my time had been wasted. What I did do, however was make my race known either via email or during to call. In emails I would ask if it is going be and issue before moving forward to book. I would also tell them I'm not contacting them to start trouble or to run back and complain, I just didn't want to waste anyone's time. I did receive a few who did say I was not part of their marketing plan. I thanked them and moved on my way. I also kept my word and never posted about them. No biggie for me as I've met some wonderful women and honestly would not want to be with someone who did not want to be with me.
So, in summary you can always walk away if there is misrepresentation or you feel a provider has been disingenuous.
A provider that I saw a few weeks ago was setup by LE on an outcall sting in another city. LE did not arrest her. They wanted to her to know that human traffickers were posting her pictures doing a bait and switch for under age girls. I am preaching the choir. Always check out new pictures before taking one for the team.
http://images.google.com
http://www.tineye.com
Both allow you upload images or paste image urls.
Google will allow a phone number search to come up with an image.
Sure enough tonight the ads that I posted a few days ago have switched pictures.
then who is it? Some times you find out when it's too late, and you can't just walk away.
Walk away. LE could be in the bathroom. I know it is pain to do the research, do it to keep out of trouble. Let your hobby buddies/backchannel/this board know if there is a fake ad asap.
Just as a lady has the right to refuse seeing any gentleman she pleases, You have the right to do the same.
I went to see a lady who was NOTHING like her pics, I mean not the same girl and when I saw her I said I'm sorry you're not who I expected. She gave some story about why that happened and I apologized and said I can't stay. On the way back to the car the booking guy called to call me names, etc. and I said You lied to me. He told me I'd be blacklisted with them and I responded "Man why would I call you again after you lied to me this time? A second time it was an indy and while it was her she was a shadow of what she advertised herself to be online. I apologized to her and said I could not stay, but I did give her 1/2 of her fee as I felt bad.
It cuts both ways too.
I happen to be non-caucasian but if you spoke with me on the phone you would never know unless I told you. Any lady who has talked with me can confirm this. Personally I don't know what sounding "white" is like, but I digress. Many years ago I called and set an appointment with a lady and had a great conversation with her prior to our "date" My references were solid, I followed all her instructions, etc. When I arrived at the door she opened it and I got the "deer in the headlights" look. I could tell she had no clue. I said, "This is going to be a problem isn't it?", to which she replied, "I'm sorry I didn't know." I turned around and left. A second time, I got to the door after booking on the phone and I heard her walk to the door, gasp and then not open the door while I stood there. Again I walked away.
Both are true stories and I chose to not post or complain even though my time had been wasted. What I did do, however was make my race known either via email or during to call. In emails I would ask if it is going be and issue before moving forward to book. I would also tell them I'm not contacting them to start trouble or to run back and complain, I just didn't want to waste anyone's time. I did receive a few who did say I was not part of their marketing plan. I thanked them and moved on my way. I also kept my word and never posted about them. No biggie for me as I've met some wonderful women and honestly would not want to be with someone who did not want to be with me.
So, in summary you can always walk away if there is misrepresentation or you feel a provider has been disingenuous.
I guess I should have been clearer in what I said, or should have said. If it's not her it could be LE and they get you on the whole intent to commit a crime thing.
That was a good post you wrote, Nice to hear of a real genuine honest experience or two. You never know what it's like to walk in some one elses shoes. Only your own, as difirent as I know people are I always think in this life style we are the same. I find it enlightening learning littel things like this about the hooby.
Thanks
You have a choice you can either think with your big brain or the smaller. If it aint what was advertised you either stay or walk depending on what she looks like. Just be happy you all have pixs today. Back in the good ole days are we had in the late 80's was a description.
I had an appointment with an escort she look really great in clothes but by the time she got out of everything she was at least 30lbs heavier and very flabby. I took my money and put my clothes back on and headed for the door.
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