When I see a lady I like to have a drink or two before, maybe a beer and a shot in hotel lobby.

Then i like to bring some wine to the room.

So that's maybe 4-5 drinks over the course of preparation and session. Not wasted, not drunk, tipsy and maybe talkative.

Question: Does that upset the ladies so long as I am nice and talkative?

Some seem to be fine and even like it.  

Hobby time is a time to relax and have fun so I figure some drinks are in order.

Another Question:

I don't do hard drugs but maybe smoke weed 3-4 times a year.
What about that, because being high you can last longer and cumming feels real good and powerful, lots of food for the mental and physical sensors.  

Not sure I can smoke often for a number of professional and private reasons but wouldnt mind smoking a joint and having some fun once every few months.  So any 420 friendly ladies out there