i have run into this a couple of times doing FS.ladys advertise DFK..but a couple of time they have said well i cant do that cause i am now dating someone..so im confused i can have full service with you but since you are dating we cant kiss..can someone please clarify this for me..just think it is funny..i am an older gentleman but very clean..so i dont think its me..

I understand from other providers that they put up their do and do not lists as what they are willing to do...obviously it can change with client and time.  I get your point however...if you say you do it, then why not with me?  Almost feels like false advertising.  I used to say on the general board that I do anal...but then every guy wanted it like a menu list check off, so I took it down.  I guess the DFK should come down from that lady's profile too.

Most of the time there really is no rhyme or reason to it.  A woman's prerogative can be very fickle at times.  I'm sure quite a few of us mongers have experienced the short end of YMMV at one time.  I wouldn't read to much into it

thanks...just thought its crazy that because they have a boyfriend they will not kiss but they can have sex with you..that just through me off..

And I don't think it's a YMMV thing either. I have had this happen a couple of times also, and I was told that it was because kissing is too intimate. So they can suck your dick, swallow your cum, take it in the ass, but kissing is too intimate. WTF, lol?

A lot of girls get uncomfortable if you go too far with the gfe stuff.

Even if the kiss is offered, it is not the same; to do it properly, she has to kiss you back. . . unless sticking your tongue down her throat is considered kissing.

....sucks big time you encountered that. I know some can be ymmv about things but that's still just so basic to me (but then again kissing is important for me to warm up) and agree with Caressa it still sort of seems like false advertising. That particular lady who advertised DFK but then didn't provide it should probably make it known in advertisements/profiles/website etc that a lot of her "services" are ymmv...particularly kissing. I feel bad you were looking forward to DFK as part of your date just to get shut down. Kissing is intimate but imo all sex is I mean you're sharing your body and sexual energy with another person.

That last comment was unnecessary since the writer does not know the real situation.  I would feel a bit ripped off if I were in Baseball Player's shoes.

.... and that last sentence was more-so directed to another poster (actually 2). Probably should've separated it made an @ to who it was for but was in a hurry. The last sentence was to bdb6 and !!!!! responses but I see how it looks now.  


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He said he's clean, he probably is. He's got lots of reviews (more than you, anyway), so I'm  sure he knows how to prepare to see a provider.  You're just being a douche, right?

still dont think its me..ive been with plenty of providers who have kissed with me...just like i said before just seems crazy..thanks for all the responses really appreciate it..thanks ladies also for yur input..

she was seeing someone and reading reviews about her adventures 'bothered him.'  My (unspoken reaction) was 'So he knows what you do & is 'okay' with that, but reading about it bothers him?'  So I've come to understand that almost anything can go on in people's minds that doesn't necessarily make sense to most of us.  That's life!

Brush your teeth and use mouth wash. I carry that stuff with me in my hobby bag, empty water bottles, along with towel, soap, washcloth. Take a shower also. Women are turned on when they see you are clean. Many times if you see them a few times they will kiss eventually (they can't help it lol).

Everyone needs to go pick up a tongue scraper from walmart or walgreens or wherever.  

Just brush your tongue with toothbrush.

like i stated before..i am totally clean..im sure it has nothing to do with me..i would not have started this thread if i thought it was because i had bad hygein..all i was trying to say and i keep repeating this is that its funny that since they have a boyfriend they can screw you but they cant kiss..i have been doing this for 5 years and have plenty of reviews that i have given..trust me its not me..i would never expect a young lady to kiss me if i had bad breath and bad teeth..