If you wish to see them, email the lady in question directly. Search for her on here and see if she has any alternate contact info as well.

I'll contact a few ladies at the same time.....basically whoever rings the bell first wins....and I do email back the others to let them know I got their email....

Hubris

The answer is subjective...depending on who answers.  For me, I look for very specific girls and I'll wait as long as necessary.  I'm going for the full experience so I have zero desire to just SETTLE on a second choice to get laid.  If time is of the essence, follow your email up with a call.  Be PROactive....not just waiting for a return.

I'm in a similar boat with a girl visiting next month.  I've gotten an email saying the assistant would call me to arrange...but that was a week ago.  But this is the one provider I want and I'm going to diligently pursue that...because she's worth it.  I do NOT need an immediate fix from a second choice chick.  I want my first choice and will only invest therein.

To me, this hobby is just a hobby.

I am not going to die without sex, so when I see a provider whom I want to see I contact her or the agency; I don't have plan B's. How long I wait for a response depends on the hotness of the provider and whether there are other ladies on my short list. If I have another lady in mind, I wait for a day or 2, otherwise I can wait forever.

Just last week, my regular provider responded late and I already decided on another lady, I ended up seeing both of them -- separately, of course -- in one day. I was actually hoping that she not call back; I would have saved $$$$.

I am with the last few posters. I can have sex whenever I want so I wait for a very specific girl and if I cant have her then I just pass. My question is when does your persistence turn into pestering. How many emails and how many calls before you throw in the towel. I always try to give my self plenty of time if a girl is traveling. I didn't have that luxury this time and have been trying to get in contact with the lady since Friday for an appointment I want this Wed. So far 1 email on text and one call and nothing yet.

I thought it was just me.  In OK city, Tulsa and every place else I hobby I get an answer of some kind with in 24 hours.  Agencies in the DMV area answer immediately by email or text.  I don't have a lot of free time to "wait and see".  Looks like indys r off the table for me.  Hopefully, indys that read this will consider the impact to their business that this type of attention has.  How special can a service be if u can't set aside time everyday to respond to emails.  Again thanks.