The crux of what men are all seeking in the pursuit of women is that most of us are seeking women that will take the initiative in making love to men. Most women never think of making love to a man. They are taught that they should be seductive , entancing, good conversationalists and good cooks, but when it comes right down to bed, most women want to be taken by Prince Charming to the fabulous land of orgasms and ecstatic sexual delights Most women seem to take for granted that the man was the initiator in sex, that he should be sensitive to a woman's needs, take a lot of time and help a woman achieve orgasms or even many orgasms if she needed them. The most striking statistic shows that 75 percent of men today want more involvement by the woman before or during intercourse. They want a woman who shows her interest and enjoyment, who is an active participant and who is not timid in bed. Technique is important but making love is really a matter of understanding what your lover wants in a total way