I have nosy neighbors and I'd prefer that a provider not have my address in her little black book.

Let me speak from experience!! Keeping your private address is a must!! Too much drama, ain't gonna go to the details, but you've been warned. You think you can trust her? Think again.

Incalls R much better. I don't know them, they don't know me.

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I prefer incall. Saves a lot of hotel money, not going to spend thousands on hotels like I did a few years ago. Also don't have to worry about hiding the hotel bills, etc.

Me, I travel a lot.  I will have a hotel anyway.  I am more comfortable with her coming over to visit me, but it is far from a deal breaker.

So they can cough up some gas money.

My job rarely takes me on the road, but I would certainly schedule an outcall to a hotel room if I was already in a hotel.

Thus far, I've been strictly incall.  Yes, there are inherent concerns, but they are manageable if you hobby safely.

When I first got started in this hobby the excitement of going to meet the girl in the hotel was a turn-on unto itself.  Not so much anymore.

For purely financial reasons. Outcall can be up to a hundred dollars more, plus I'd have to pay for a hotel room. It can take the session up two hundred dollars more. It's not worth it to me.

Some of us are not attorneys, CEOs or politicians.

for really simple reasons.  When I'm here at home, I know my way around & it's no problem finding a provider's location, plus I'd rather not give away my location to unknown people.  When I'm travelling, I'm less familar with the geography and since I have a room already, it's just so much easier.  I've never had an outcall appt. to my place here & rarely done an incall to her place (once to her hotel for a lady who was also visiting) when I'm travelling (though I'm not opposed to the latter if it's easy to find).

I can imagine a provider driving around in a van, or maybe even a mobile home, to wherever she is called -- near a client's home or office, the Walmart parking lot, at the National Mall, etc. Technically it's an incall but with the convenience of an outcall.