I have nosy neighbors and I'd prefer that a provider not have my address in her little black book.

Let me speak from experience!! Keeping your private address is a must!! Too much drama, ain't gonna go to the details, but you've been warned. You think you can trust her? Think again.

Incalls R much better. I don't know them, they don't know me.

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I prefer incall. Saves a lot of hotel money, not going to spend thousands on hotels like I did a few years ago. Also don't have to worry about hiding the hotel bills, etc.

Me, I travel a lot.  I will have a hotel anyway.  I am more comfortable with her coming over to visit me, but it is far from a deal breaker.

So they can cough up some gas money.

My job rarely takes me on the road, but I would certainly schedule an outcall to a hotel room if I was already in a hotel.

Thus far, I've been strictly incall.  Yes, there are inherent concerns, but they are manageable if you hobby safely.

When I first got started in this hobby the excitement of going to meet the girl in the hotel was a turn-on unto itself.  Not so much anymore.

for really simple reasons.  When I'm here at home, I know my way around & it's no problem finding a provider's location, plus I'd rather not give away my location to unknown people.  When I'm travelling, I'm less familar with the geography and since I have a room already, it's just so much easier.  I've never had an outcall appt. to my place here & rarely done an incall to her place (once to her hotel for a lady who was also visiting) when I'm travelling (though I'm not opposed to the latter if it's easy to find).

I can imagine a provider driving around in a van, or maybe even a mobile home, to wherever she is called -- near a client's home or office, the Walmart parking lot, at the National Mall, etc. Technically it's an incall but with the convenience of an outcall.

When I had the luxury of outcall, it was my favorite why to go. I lived in a condo complex. If I still lived there and a provider’s rate was the same for in and out call, I’d go for outcall. On that note, it’s great to state, “Like being at home” for atmosphere.