I saw a provider the other day. Even though she greeted me with a smile, I could sense that something was not right. Even though it was only her second day, she said that she was thinking of leaving. I asked why and she answered clients er tshere are too difficult. She said that earlier in the day, she had a client that made her want to quit.  

Thank goodness my clients are respectful and sweet!  What a blessing.  Some people are just flat out narsassistic and hateful.  Feel really bad for her.

Unless MrAhh comes forward to tell his side of the story, we will never know what happened. Even if he does, it is still he said, she said.

Shame that this happened. All of the K-girls I've seen have been nothing but professional and easy to deal with. I hope, if this is how it went down, the guy does get blacklisted with them.

Like the jerk who recently poured water all over a provider's head as a joke and couldn't figure out why she would be upset at this.  At least he had the decency to give her a decent review...

After reading your take based on what she said, and as well as his review, I can just say that this a prime example of two people overreacting. From the get-go he and she seemed to have chemistry issues. He has plenty of reviews, so he should have known right off  the bat. If she is a novice provider from an agency, I think that she was poorly prepared for what to expect and took the result of one bad appointment too personally.  In every business things like this happen so no need to Whiteknight about it. She and the agency can state their issues with this client.

Man how do you cats be listening to all these stories, I mean the only talking really going on during my sessions is me telling her to spread it, make it look nasty, and I got to eat your pretty asshole, or her telling me I'm hitting her spot and she is about to cum all over my magic stick.  

I don't think she was overreacting at all to want to quit after having such an ass come to see her, and I honestly think its kind of pathetic that anyone would defend this behavior as "stuff happens". Yes, it does. But to essentially say "suck it up, buttercup"?

She had a bad experience right in the beginning. Perhaps a breather and some TLC would help.

I want to pick my clients, and I want them to pick me based on how I advertise, not how someone else advertises me or talks about me.

She said she felt much better after our session. I was going to keep this quiet, but then I read the review and I had to tell her side of the story.

I completely understand where you are coming from here. I have never COF on a provider without her approval and usually after the first 5 minutes I know if the girl is open to it and if not I wont even ask. Like I said in my original post, that it seemed like the novice provider was poorly prepared for what to expect and how to defuse a situation.

You've gotta be fucking kidding me.  

My point about her overreacting was pointed toward her quitting the business. Not about her getting being upset about the behavior of a client.  Maybe my post was poorly worded.

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And my point was that it was a dick thing to say that she was overreacting about quitting. Maybe I didn't make that clear enough, with all the "look at the situation she's in" and "she's not overreacting by wanting to quit".  

First of all I never said I do support him and secondly since when do you set the standards of who should be here or not?  I said she was poorly prepared on how to defuse a problem before it escalated.  

Well, since you keep arguing in his defense and blaming the victim, what do you expect people to think? You are completely ignoring his inexcusable behavior, and saying that she should have been more prepared. For what? A guy to act like an asshole over a very common thing to say no to? And do YOU really think that someone who would overreact like that should be here? Do YOU like knowing that your session could be ruined because he could behave the same way with another girl right before you get there? Do YOU like knowing that there is someone out there who doesn't have a problem escalating his behavior, to the point of borderline violence? I was giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming not, but you're trying awful hard to prove me wrong.  

One of the problems with the TER format is that providers, especially those like the K girls whose first language is not English, have little or no direct voice on our boards.  Consequently, jerks like MrAhh can freely trash providers who don't cater to their every egotistical whim.  Often those who have personal experience contrary to the trashed review are criticized and called names by ignoramuses like DaTrufe and AsianMan who apparently have little or no understanding or appreciation of the human side of our hobby.

and had someone like you explaining the other side of the story...

I did not realize the OP is either Korean or fluent in Korean so I asked him how the girl could explain to him what happened in English clearly. After he posted that he is fluent in Korean, I haven't chimed in at all until you started hurling insults at me. If you want to promote civility on this board, I suggest that you start with yourself. Otherwise, you are just a hypocrite.

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I never have seen what is so great about COF.  Call me old fashion, but the gentleman side of me respects the lady's makeup.  There's nothing hot about ruining a lady's makeup.  Now on the other side of the coin, ask first and if she is into it, fire away Again not my thing.  But a body shot (on the belly or back, on the buns or between the girls) is HOT!!

The tone of your post was to immediately discredit both the OP and the provider without any knowledge of how the incident was communicated.  The tone was both surly and dismissive and thus serves as a perfect example of the arrogant, hostile attitude displayed by far too many of our members whenever anyone, such as the OP, steps forward in defense of providers.

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..you should think about that the next time you are inclined to make similar disparaging, insensitive comments about well-intentioned hobbyists or treat provider concerns with total disdain.

My thoughts exactly. Thank you for expressing them.

Posted By: 4newbie2

I never have seen what is so great about COF.  Call me old fashion, but the gentleman side of me respects the lady's makeup.  There's nothing hot about ruining a lady's makeup.  Now on the other side of the coin, ask first and if she is into it, fire away Again not my thing.  But a body shot (on the belly or back, on the buns or between the girls) is HOT!!