I am in my early 60s and beginning to wonder if this is a problem. I stick with FBSM and recently visited a service in Tyson's corner. The lady was young enough to be my grand daughter which made me a little uncomfortable. Have any other "older" hobbiests had similar feelings. Also I would appreciate it if younger providers would comment if this is a problem for them seeing older men.
I knew going in that as a dad of daughters, I had certain things to watch out for. The youngest ones I have been with are a couple years older than my oldest. But mostly I have been with the 35-45 crowd.
What I have found in my year of doing this is that it really depends on the lady herself. Generally speaking however, I relate better with the older ones while the younger ones are better for "booty calls" as they are far easier to keep feelings out of the equation. I will confess to never wanting to be a "cold hobbyist" and prefer to find some way of "bonding" with someone I want to see more than once. So I am not typical in how I hobby.
I think a lot of it is figuring out what you want from the hobby - what are your priorities. Young hot looks or someone you can relate too? Eye candy or quality GFE? etc.
Sorry for the long answer, but that is my way. Good luck.
Jim: I am 59 and I have decided this year to stay with ladies who are in their 30's and 40's. I look at the young ones and am thinking that the age does make a difference. I am seeing a 28 year old next week but that was scheduled last year. So that doesn't count....LOL. I really think that it is our problem. I really think this is not an issue with the ladies. If you are pleasing to look at, clean and in somewhat good shape for a man your age, the ladies will provide a great experience for you. Remember, the envelope is what turns their heads.....it is a business.
Not saying I am in your leauge yet [LOL]...but I'm certainly getting close. I've seen several youngish babes lately, and it seems to me it kinda depends on the lady. A few have made me feel a little...hmmm..I don't know...maybe guilty...but not on purpose...It has to do with their attitude. I recently saw a pretty young lady who had an excellent demeanor and frankly I never had a sense of age difference. Guess I'm saying it has about as much to do with the babe as it does with your actual age...make sense??
Yea I think your right on on this one. I guess if your seeing someone for the first time, you could find out if they have an age limit. I did that with my first encounter, she was 27. She wrote me and said anyone under the age of 80 LOL. I have seen her 3 times. I was starting to get attached and have been seeing a lot of ladies lately. I haven't been back over to see her. Not that I don't want to but she is about 80 minutes away from me. So many to see and so little time.......
I think that all of these comments are dead on. I really think that the maturity (not age) of the provider makes a difference to me. If she is 25 and can communicate at my level then the "guilt" tends to subside a great deal. If she acts in an immature or less then the age tends to jump out as a factor. Hope that makes sense?
When we are snuggling during the afterglow I say in a serious tone..."We should run off together...really...we have a chemistry thing going and I know we would never run outta money...I mean just look at you!!"...There will be a moment of silence, then I add "Oh, I know...you are worried about the age thing...sure...I know..that IS an issue....in a few years you will be too old for ME....but that's OK...we can have fun until then " !! Always gets a chuckle...but warning...never use this line with a lady in her 30's...they do not seem to see the humor.
Yeah... The maturity level makes a difference. Hazard of the hobby I guess. Nina of desirable companions (Cute. Lovely. Great provider, who went for it) had a bit of that effect on me. Not that she was immature, but a bit too much of the college girl next door thing.
Good comments, all. I'm up there in years and a while back I was with a lovely person about 33 and I said, sincerely, that "if I were your age I would surely be in hot pursuit of you." And she said with a lovely smile, "if you were my age you'd have so many women chasing you, you'd never even look at me." Of course it was flattery, but pretty good for spur of the moment. The only thing is that it wasn't true -- I really would have pursued her!!!
I'm a mature young woman that knows how to treat men VERY well.....age is NEVER an issue.....everyone is unique in their own special way....I would never discriminate like that, personally, I think it's rude!!
I am older then you and I do have daughters and daughter in law whose ages sometimes make me sensitive about who I am seeing, although after the initial hug and kiss that does seem to go away.
However, I do prefer mature ladies as I think they are a little more tuned into my capabilities.
I agree with all the comments here. I am 57 and been on the hobby now for 6 years. I find myself enjoying my time also with ladies in the 30 to 40 age range.
I understand your being uncomfortable with a very young woman but wonder if you have tried a mature lady who will make you feel very special.
Massage is wonderful and does the body good but is this all you wish. A mature lady will share her affection and make your time very special. Do you not like the feel of a womans body next to you and what about the pleasure of a very soft pair of lips. There are so many wonderful mature women in your area who would love to meet you and remind you how good it feels to be in the arms of a sensual women.
If your worried about performance that is not top on any ladies list and shouldn't be on yours. I can kiss for hours and I am sure you would find a journey with a lady who enjoys all you have to offer quite enjoyable. When was the last time you were in the heat of passion and time stood still ?
Age is never an issue with me, for I see gentlemen of all ages over my preference (my preference is over 35 years of age) I would have no problem to see an older gentlemen, why? I prefer to be in the company of an older, more distinguished guy; its a turn on for me! Maybe next time you should just request what age you are looking for, or perhaps wait for me when I visit on January 25th?
I don't think age is an issue with a quality provider. I have been lucky to find providers who don't care about age and in fact prefer older men since we know how to treat the ladies with respect.
It does depend on what you want. I feel comfortable with young and old as long as they are mature and respective as well.
I tend to want to find someone who I can repeat with and feel comfortable with and I am still looking. For me geography is more of a problem. I live in an underserved area about 2 hours from any quality providers.
Hard to generalize. I'm 55 and generally prefer the company of women in the 25-35 year range, but there are some exceptions. I think we do this to feel younger so I try to avoid the over 40 ladies (although again there are exceptions). I try not to go with the 18-19 year old group for the reasons expressed here, but sometimes you do find a girl who likes us older guys and it's a good fantasy for both of us.
I am having my 60th birthday this week. I have been seeing providers in the DC area for the past 12 years. Before that I had been spending a lot of time out of country. My ATF is 28, I celebrated her birthday, with her last summer. I see her on an average of 2 or 3 times month. I enjoy the age of 26 to 32 the most, a lot of it is based on their maturity and of course the sex. I have been with many providers between 35 and 45, some good and some not so good. Some local women with high ratings on the local boards just did not click. I spent a week with another favorite down in the islands last fall, she is 29 and we had an incredible time. We were talking about age, and I ask her the age of the oldest client she had been with. She said he was 85 years old. So with a bit of luck I have a few years left. A mate of mine (same age ) married a provider 10 years ago she was 29 he was 50. He quit the hobby and they seem to be very happy.
Don't remember if I said it on this Board or to a friend. But I perfer 24 to 30 yr old ladies, but every now and then I like to go back in time, and see a PYTs that are 19 or 20 years old to relive those hay-days. You get to fantisize with a hottie, and for 60 minutes, go "Back in Time" and apply that old saying, " if I knew then what I know now" w/ a PTY. I am 42 now, 3 years ago, I went "Into the Future" and met an attractive 52 year old provider , whom suprisenly met me in the lobby of a very busy hotel, dressed in a sharp business suit attire and carrying a laptop case. I was soooo turned on by this business like intro, that as we were in the elevator making small talk, I just could not wait to begin our business meeting.
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