After reading a thread (Below) about an agency provider having a horrible experience with a client and then reading the Guy's take on what happened. I was prompted to make this thread.
I am sure that many of you are sick and tired of telling guy's NO CIM, NO COF, NO Anal, No Fingers, hard spanking, etc., etc.

Even though many of these things are clearly documented in your provider profile and reiterated in the reviews, I am sure guys still ask and try.  

What are some things you would like to tell your clients or future clients to NOT TRY, NOT DO and not to even ask because its off limits and I wont permit that no matter what. This way we can focus on what we CAN DO and enjoy our time with you as well as not overstep the boundaries you have set

Always go by the profile. If she changes her mind on something... she will *change* her profile. When people at their civilian job change something in their product..they advertise it. This should be treated the same way.  

Asking only makes her feel disrespected.

xooxxo~Aerial

... I have contacted TER to change my profile, and they have always done so.  That is one reason I like P411: a lady can simply check what she offers and what she does not.

   Also, when I meet a gentleman for the first time, I remind him that I do not allow  (fill in the blank), and will be most appreciative if he does not try to change my mind.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

and they usually don't respond or don't get what I'm asking.  

 I had one occasion when she clearly was jet lagged, hung over, dead tired and she looked bad. without trying to insult her  asked if she wasnt up to it we could "something else" instead. when we were done she  fell asleep.

Am I the only one that gets uncomfortable talking about "activities" when I have never met the person? I can verify all day long, but the person's information could easily have been accessed by someone else.  

Since I am getting ready to post an ad, maybe I should post it there instead of here, BUT if someone starts asking me if I'm a certain type of provider or if I do certain activities and I have no idea who they are other than some information that they gave me, that is the quickest and best way to not see me. I say go off of my reviews until I feel comfortable enough to actually talk about stuff that other people claim that I do or don't do.

END OF MESSAGE

As BWB notes, the provider sets her profile on p411, whereas the first reviewer sets the profile on TER.  As a result, TER profiles have alot of don't knows and some thngs that are wrong. I always try to check p411 to get the straight scoop

.... be prepared for an elbow or open palm/hand to the mouth . I don't like those kind of surprises lol.  


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Here comes my paranoia again, but I won't even click what I do or don't offer on P411. There doesn't seem to be the huge LE presence in the DC area as in several other cities, but I'm not willing to take the risk, just in case.

A lot can be figured out from the reviews and her profile, but here are a few things you probably won't find..

1) dry fingers anywhere actually hurt. Sometimes a lot

2) the "stripper slide" might feel great, but it is very risky and most of us aren't very appreciative of any attempts at unprotected anything. Of course, some offer this, but that is up to them...

3) "getting weird" might be better for a second date, if you can't find anything about it in her reviews. There's some stuff you can talk about, like a smoking fetish, or liking a more dominant/submissive partner, but any specifics are better handled in person. I hate getting overly descriptive emails, because even if I may have been ok with it, I am usually to uncomfortable to reply.  

4) don't ask more than once, especially not in the same session. If we say no, it's probably because we can't, and no amount of begging is going to change that. But it might put you on a DNS list. Being a gentleman is much more likely to get you what you want, even if it can't happen today.

Just don't surprise us. Just because I like to be spanked, for example, doesn't mean I want a huge whack on the ass out of the blue. Ask, or gently build up to certain things, and pay attention to how she reacts. Part of the fun is being with another human being

I have seen many profiles that have an awful lot of "don't know" entries or reviews that contradict the profile. I have sometimes asked if the profile is up to date, but that usually requires an exchange where she asks about which section I am curious about, and I hate to ask them to keep emailing when it's possible that I am just kicking the tires, so to speak.

And well, put Abby, you are not the only one. The only thing I am really putting out there is a date, not specific services.  Good point that what the first reviewer puts out there on the profile is not gospel.  Even reviews are not a guarantee that this or that will happen, or that other things couldn't happen. It's not intended to be a menu, is it? It just depends. A lot of it depends on the client.

Very true. And the right approach is the key to a lot of things in this arena. Sadly, not every person remembers how to approach people without "spooking" or sounding respectful anymore. Although DC seems to have less of a problem, it's surprising how many guys haven't quite figured out the right approach for even getting in the door with me. But that's a whole separate topic. (And I'm guessing that the guys that would NEED to read it, wouldn't.)